Wife don't like sex

[sgiceboy]

Originally Posted by Cunt-Sucker

Bro! I salute you! Almost 4 years w/o sex! Wow! err ... Can I just check if you actually still remember to do the act? Haha! No hard feelings! 'Cos I'm so afraid that I'll forget how to do it eventually if I allow my wife to starve me like this, so on & off, when I have a bit of spare cash in my pocket, I'll go engage the professionals to get them help me revise on the proper techniques ...

For all the brothers who are suffering as us, have you actually asked your wife then what's her purpose of marrying to you? I asked mine: does she just consider me as a legal sperm donor to our kids? And am I just supposed to bring back the dough & take care of the necessary expenses? Am I totally not worth her tiny bit of attention / love? Too bad, she's never really given to me her answers 'cos she'll either play dumb & go for the kids, or just shout at me, asking me if I really so "eng" & wanna pick a fight ... But just interested to find out from all the deprived bros here: Have you ever thought about this question? What are we to our wives?

bro,

no need to salute, i have learn to live w it.
no point figthing over it, if wifey in mood to do, sure want it if no mood, do already also sian... like dead fish,

the last time before baby comes ...when having sex.. my wife also de same.... cannot this cannot that.

wan to kiss her says, i anyhow kiss her face then her face kenna pimple.
wan to kiss her body, say itchy,
wan to lick her, say its dirty,
last time ask her to buy gstring to spice up our sex life, she says its inproper.
sex is like....she wans quick put inside after 20mins come out then bath... sigh

i have learn to survive w porn...

jus turn pc.. see jpn av.. shake a while... cum out.... off pc... then go the sleep.... SAD rite.... but what to do....

so far.. only have hj, bj from hc & some FL neva venture further then tat

[sgiceboy]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Hmmm, seems that there is some need to re-energize the marriage here...
Most women are too tired after a day of work and children manning... For
those DIV woman, they too need love and sex... but most of them when in
a group of ladies, they won't say they are desperate for sex. It will make
them look CHEAP.

I guess you guys try to spice up life a bit, for me, I guess I still lucky that
once a while I still get sex, but nowsaday, I am initiating lesser and lesser
sex with spouse... Too tired to keep initiating...

bro

try liao.... fail liao..... no point cos always end up fighting.... destroy the peace of the family....

[lee2001sg]

This thread is making me depress. I thought I was unfortunate. But then again my HSD makes me crave for more.

[imodel]

I am glad to see this thread where all bros share d inner part of u. That is good for all of us.

I was a good boy. My 1st sex was given to my wife, after marriage. I kuai kaui. But after marriage, i realised i was trapped in d legal system becos i signed my life away. I signed my freedom away.

No sex for i think 9 years. What u think bros? Your 1 month is considered heng liao ok la?

That's how i ended up here. Started to look out and now find that there is still a life out here. After letting my machine gun rust for so long, i finally realised that there are many others who like mine too. So no big deal. And those that are with me now are much younger and have all that u can imagine.

If home cannot cook, eat out rather then fighting at home and upset everyone right? Do i choose this path? No i didn't. Had i known this will happen, i will never want to get married.

This thread brought some comfort to me and after hearing from all u out there, i decided to open up myself to share.

Till date, my eat out meals have been a great variety and i find it enjoyable. 21, 22, 3x, 4x, msian, spore, phil, viet, china... o yea and most importantly, i don't need to pay for them most of the time.

I've started my 1st storyline at here on maid....
http://sbf.directory/showthr...highlight=maid

My storyline is lousy becos i don't rubbish too much. Just d key points.

So bros out there, keep your head up. If your wife let u down, don't end your life. Life is still beautiful out here.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Cunt-Sucker

Hor sie liao Bro! U & I are INDEED on the same boat! In fact, I'm beginning to wonder if we married the same wife
Then last week, she suddenly asked from me a full-body massage, so I thought got chance liao, and I gave a a truly sensual massage, & she was feeling so comfortable that she felt asleep.

Haha bro indeed i wonder whether we are sharing the same woman cos the massage thing also happened to me before. Whenever I give her a massage I will try to take the opportunity to try and turn her on by rabba the boobs but she will kpkb and the respect thing again and don't treat her like those kuay.

Yes there was a time when I really went thru a mid life crisis when I started to question my own manhood. And bros here no joke when bro cunt said about the killing oneself part cos that also came into my mind. When you are going thru a depressive mid life crisis you can never see things in a positive light. I had never doubted my own sexual ability before. Besides the occasional accolades from WL who are paid just to state how good I am in bed, I have a few FB who attest to my abilities. So it really made me starting to question myself and doubting myself. All sort of thoughts came into my mind, was she having a affair but I know her routine too well so I rule that out. So I figure the problem could only be with me. Am I really a sex maniac, I even wanted to ask doc to give me medicine that can lower my sex drive.

But I have learn to put all these behind and tell myself, just have to eat out more often since she is not willing to give. Thou I must admit with time, I find that my sex drive has really slow down. I am now happy to eat out at least once a month as compared to the past when I was practically eating out every couple of weeks.

[kue19xx]

I missed those days before marriage while we taste the forbidden fruit. We can go for 4 to 5 rounds per night. After give birth..evrything change.

After see bro Imodel talk about maid..it reminded me of an incident 6 years back before I start eating out.

Was on public bus on way back and saw this young maid. few days later chat her up and met up the next day. Bring her to quiet staircase and we hug touch and kiss...asked her go my home but she refused.

Agreed to meet next day but she never come..while seaching for her i missed a step and fall. Feet swollen. At 1st thought it juz normal sprain but turn out I fractured a bone in my feet. Put on cast and medical leave for almost 3 months!! Was I punished because of what I did?? I thought to myself!!

[raymond_2010]

Hi Bros

I agreed with all of your comment. Before married, like to have a taste of sex. But after married with kids, wife always complaint about tireness, hygenie and mood.

Last time can enjoy 3 rounds of sex with different styles. But now after giving birth, her hormones has changed. Increase weight and less mood for sex. refused to give me blow job. always stick to same missionary position. So sian. No more romantic and spicy atmosphere liao.

[Ah Goo]

Originally Posted by Cunt-Sucker

Hor sie liao Bro! U & I are INDEED on the same boat! In fact, I'm beginning to wonder if we married the same wife You've just completely spelt out my agony! No sex for a few months, and then when I asked for it, she quoted one of her friends' hubby who've NOT had sex for 1 year, ever since the wife pregnant until the baby now 6-months plus liao. I tulan & said then u go & marry him for a sexless marriage lah! then she flew into a rage & said why must I always kick a big fuss about sex? If no sex will I die? If won't die then stop complaining! My jaws just dropped to the floor ... )

Then last week, she suddenly asked from me a full-body massage, so I thought got chance liao, and I gave a a truly sensual massage, & she was feeling so comfortable that she felt asleep. So when I gently flipped her over for the front massage, and threw in all the necessary titillations of the breasts & pussy after the whole thing, she suddenly opened her eyes and said to me:" You pervert! Don't disturb me lah! I need my beauty sleep now! Go turn off the lights & if you still got so much energy, then go out & play your laptop / FB / PS3!" Again, my jaws dropped to the floor ... (& I ended my night by going to the toilet to PCC 'cos I already so aroused when I was massaging for her in nude!)

& on those days when she granted me with sex, which I can unfortunately count using my fingers, she'd be making the deed seems like a torture to her, complaining that she did it just to satisfy me, why never wash every part of my body thoroughly, no painting, no bbbj, no DATY 'cos all these very unhygienic, & when I tried to suggest some sex-toys or different positions or role-plays to spice up the acts, she retorted that she's NOT an AV porn star, so don't try to demean her by asking her to do "all these stupid things" ... Once again, you've guessed correctly, my jaws dropped and dislocated when it hit the floor ...

Bro, you situation made mine like small issue.

My wife don't like to have sex, but at least never give me attitude.

[aksj]

I even read one girl's letter to a magazine saying "I love my husband but am afraid of sex" and I want to charge her husband with rape. The editor advised her that since legally there is no rape within marriage, she should obtain a restraining order against sex. She can charge him with breach of the order.

Therefore I advise suffering bros to get a divorce so they can get on with their lives. If it involves child support, it's reasonable but not alimony. The wife can either go quietly, or you can just live together in a cold and unpleasant shell of a marriage until she gives up and goes without alimony instead of behaving like a self-entitled bitch. Girls are probably more concerned with shelf life anyway, they will go first. .

After reading all the stories here and from my own experiences, I feel this is a very relevant thread.

It is unfortunate that many local girls (not all) don't understand the importance of sex in a marriage and even see it as "disturbing their beauty sleep." Don't they know that being sexually active is the best way to stay young? If you LIVE youthful, you will LOOK youthful. What good is it if a girl is a slave to work and looking good and doing household chores and bringing up kids etc and doesn't know how to enjoy the joy of sex? So they can say "I've lived my life as a dutiful employee and given the government two corporals?"

Some girls are just 1) unaware of the joys of sex or 2) plain fucking unadventurous (ie everything say "pain" and start acting pitiful). If they still love you in the first place. All this happens because school and parents' sex education teaches kids that sex is dirty. Few are the parents who let their kids go out and fucking play. Those that just don't want a 3rd kid are too stupid to consider an IUD. My gf got herself one because we are sure as fuck not having kids.

[Frankiestine]

As I said, refusal to have sex can be grounds for divorce. Couple of years back there was a article in which a man was actually charged for raping his wife as she had taken out a restraining order against him. Yet she was the one who refused to have sex with the hub. Granted the man got drunk and then force himself on her. But the woman should really question herself cos the way I see it she contributed to the marriage breakdown with her constant refusal to have sex. In fact from the report they were both married for quite a number of years and they only had sex once. In my view such a woman is a real failure first as a woman and secondly as a wife.

[freezetheDB]

its sad that it has become the norm that if the husband dont get it at home he outsource in order to save his marriage

[sgiceboy]

the sad case of being a singaporean guy

damn damn sad....

[xtrax]

IMHO, generation has changed. the modern world has given us the options in life.

you see, during our grand parents day where fixed marriage is a norm... you dont see any divorce cases and if it does, only a few. they stay faithful to each other where as in modern days where we are given our own choices to date/to CHOOSE our own life/wife, but everything turn sour (to some ppl not all).

the women now are totally opposite to the women 80-100 years ago. those day, they were born to obey their parents/husband. their daily life is to take care of household & kids. now? they demand their own rights and a place in society. they have all the options to choose. they can make their own living with or without man.

ps: a very general opinion from me. pls do not be afraid of women. do whatever pleases you and more important, dont give up in life

[Pankunchi]

so now i think i know why a lot of local guys start to marry foreigners like viet,indo and prc.

[andyyy]

Originally Posted by Pankunchi

so now i think i know why a lot of local guys start to marry foreigners like viet,indo and prc.

Statistically speaking, for men to have quality sex life, or life after marriage/divorce, is NOT to marry a Singaporean Chinese wife. (I don't see any guy who married a minah complained about their sex life). Best is to find a Thai, Indo, Pino, or if you insist chinese, find a Malaysia wife.

No sex never mind, but don't end up go to court and lose your children, HDB flat and pay maintenance fee for nothing at the end of the day. Like some said that he sold his life away.

Lucky for those who have not married yet, you still have a big decision to make. Play safe, what they tell you about Singaporean Chinese girl are mostly true, probability speaking.