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#1081
19-01-2006, 02:42 PM
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what the groom receive in angbao, sufficient to cover perhaps his own side of guest tables. remaining tables for the gal's guests... either he bleed cash on the day itself, or via credit and bleed later to the bank. dont forget the 4 or 5 figure dowry (commonly comprise of cash + 4 golden gifts) upfront. sometimes, supersticious in-laws may also demand to have customary gifts (to observe tradition/culture) p.s.: in wedding banquets, going dutch for the billing.. is unheard of.
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
 a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse 
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#1082
19-01-2006, 02:43 PM
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Personal experience & quote from the newspaper once said,
"...it's the gals out there that needs to know that they're married & not the men..." (quote referring to SG gals though... , me now pending divorce) You think guys are "eating" behind their back? Gals are enjoying their life after marriage much to your surprise... Like bro Suteerak1099 said, they only live for & look forward to that Wedding Day... the rest is really depending if you meet the right gal. (Guys who met their right gals, bless ya'all. Those didn't or have not, dun lose heart... we will somehow, someday... the right tree to shelter our hearts )
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#1083
19-01-2006, 08:37 PM
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#1084
21-01-2006, 10:22 AM
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finding the right tree... hmmm, in singapore the "trees" we find are those that uproot/fall during storms - just imagine what happens when monsoon comes along. lately, its also fast becoming a trend that they dont bear fruits.
i know some might disagree, but i suppose to have that right tree for a shelter, might require alot more hereon forth... and that is to sow the seed & wait for that tree to grow. sad to say, when its in full bloom, some cheapskate probably comes along to find shade under the same tree you've painstakingly pruned/groomed. either that, or to settle for 1 that's still standing but badly battered from the storms, to prune & groom it to be the shady fruit bearing tree. meanwhile, there's plenty of trees out there.. and i dont see why we continue searching in local soil (for what we may never find - knowing very well that they topple during wet weather), when there's plenty of well rooted shady and/or fruit bearing trees out there in foreign soil... perhaps even virgin forests. seek and you shall find. 
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse
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#1086
21-01-2006, 11:09 AM
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#1087
21-01-2006, 11:26 AM
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indeed.... at this stage of my life, i have already started thinking..maybe when its time to get married, a vietnam tree might be good...local trees...not say dont have good trees la...but its getting lesser and lesser....
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#1088
21-01-2006, 11:51 AM
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sigh last nite oso damn pissed wif gf...go to a pub in orchard gf ask drink wad since got 1 for 1...i told her beer...she go order 2x lychee margarita...den play pool ask me to teach her...ask me which ball to shoot...told her which but she die die go shoot other ball...den when she ask me again i dulanz...tell her that she ask i tell her but she got other ideas in mind den ask me for wad...
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#1089
21-01-2006, 06:25 PM
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They depreciate through the course of time. Not necessarily prettier, but to become either more understanding or excessively prone to uncalled for acts of hostility. I still remember one bro saying this in the same thread. ie, if you pamper the dog too much, you can't stop it from wanting more and can only choose to put down the dog. But, for a woman, if you pamper her too much, she demands for more and you cannot choose to put her down. Yet, one can certainly put her aside. (can't remember the bro's name and the exact wording) The word "feeling" is so often used by women as a convenient instrument to accept a guy and to reject him minutes later. I have seen "good" trees before, but they were never mine. Its always because of timing or just that the girl don't have "feeling". AFAIK, the only "feeling" I get these days is throwing money into a new car or PDA. Satisfaction is immediate, but just different from getting a gf. One high school girl I met said that relationship is about the guy who is most aggressive and competitive winning the girl. Perhaps, this is what the modern girl wants a man to be able to do. IMO, her perspective was nothing more than one about a pack of hungry wolves dashing for a piece of the lamb's flesh. To each his/her own, I suppose. I think girls are just like guys, in the sense that the former long for mutual respect from the guys as well.
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#1090
21-01-2006, 07:19 PM
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After reading the news of a SPG who had just divorced her Brit husband and getting away with more than half his assets, you (and the rest of the Sammboy guys) think twice, cos' marrying a Viet means minimising the legal risk exposure of the $200,000 worth of assets and you are comfortable with the Viet wife, knowing well that, in all likelihood, she will not run hit you with the Women's Charter. Good local trees are mostly "chopped" already. Like one day, I saw my friend's friendster testimonial. She is quite sweet looking and mature. But, this testimonial from her friend stated that he is already in the "queue" and the rest of the guys should wait after him. Oh well....
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I'm not an idealist, but one who had an irrevocable contract with faith. Being cynical is not a choice, but a result of idealisms which had failed man too often. A lack of faith is not only due to failures, but caused by man's decision not to have faith, as well.
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#1091
24-01-2006, 03:42 PM
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse
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#1092
24-01-2006, 03:47 PM
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they ask for the sake of asking, in other words.. they're being polite in doing so. want to make us feel like 大男人，but in they end... they want to have their own say.
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse
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#1093
24-01-2006, 03:52 PM
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they cause the man to lose heart in giving her attention, yet all the more becoming irritating as she demands for more TLC. always on the receiving end, and giving is hardly in their agenda
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse
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#1094
24-01-2006, 03:57 PM
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Give her bank account to so many men when she ORD from Cat40 Geylang. Then u come in forum to say your thanks to these sponsors for sponsoring her monthly without her being obligated to return the favour with sex. Then come in here and advised the sponsors to stop sponsoring her as she don't need the money anymore. And I really think she made u feel like a 大男人, by telling u that the sponsors send her money but she never return the favour with sex. If this case is quoted on a SG girl, u sure say aiya, sure tio bao one, where got no sex. This world, only your gf is angel. hahaha SC
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#1095
24-01-2006, 04:05 PM
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in ages past, when marriages were arranged by the parents, guarantees virginity and little or no unnecessary overhead for courtship, prior to the wedding.
decades ago, during the economic strains & recovery, courtship & dating were conducted with mutual respect, either payments going dutch, or taking turns to foot the bill. today, most gals expect the man to pay, expect the man to shower her with love gifts...etc. giving in return is absent from her list of agenda. and so, she relents to intercourse when the guy requests... (bear in mind, intercourse is suppose to be mutual consent)... and when the relationship fails. she claims the guy to be a "BASTARD"!! the question then comes to place... who was the BITCH all along?? IMHO, gals these days are becoming more like those in the flesh trade. the only difference is; most in the trade are doing it for the sake of family vs poverty... whilst material gals are doing it for personal gain. and for that, i reckon those in the flesh trade command better respect, as their primary basis of taking on the job, is bourne of sacrificial love.
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse
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