Gers Are Still Gers

[OceanEleven]

There is no much satisfaction derive from a local gal, perhaps unless she herself had went thru sufficient relationship to truly understand the definition of what is involved in a relationship. Many a time she had failed to realize the need and the emotion of a man. We need our own space and have our own downs as well. We need time to lick our own wounds too and not able to tender to all her needs all the time.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

I have seen "good" trees before, but they were never mine. Its always because of timing or just that the girl don't have "feeling". AFAIK, the only "feeling" I get these days is throwing money into a new car or PDA. Satisfaction is immediate, but just different from getting a gf.

To each his/her own, I suppose. I think girls are just like guys, in the sense that the former long for mutual respect from the guys as well.

“Good” trees are aplenty. Till the time we manage to find one, we have to continue assiduously to search for it. Even when we found one, we still have to put in the effort and time to groom and nurture her.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Aiya, your Thai Gf also same. 脱裤子放屁

Give her bank account to so many men when she ORD from Cat40 Geylang. Then u come in forum to say your thanks to these sponsors for sponsoring her monthly without her being obligated to return the favour with sex. Then come in here and advised the sponsors to stop sponsoring her as she don't need the money anymore.

And I really think she made u feel like a 大男人, by telling u that the sponsors send her money but she never return the favour with sex. If this case is quoted on a SG girl, u sure say aiya, sure tio bao one, where got no sex.

This world, only your gf is angel.

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SC

SC, again i say.. you assume too much. by the way, your contribution seems quite personal and little or nothing to do with the thread topic. suggest you have this post removed...

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

in ages past, when marriages were arranged by the parents, guarantees virginity and little or no unnecessary overhead for courtship, prior to the wedding.

decades ago, during the economic strains & recovery, courtship & dating were conducted with mutual respect, either payments going dutch, or taking turns to foot the bill.

today, most gals expect the man to pay, expect the man to shower her with love gifts...etc. giving in return is absent from her list of agenda. and so, she relents to intercourse when the guy requests... (bear in mind, intercourse is suppose to be mutual consent)... and when the relationship fails. she claims the guy to be a "BASTARD"!!

the question then comes to place... who was the BITCH all along??

IMHO, gals these days are becoming more like those in the flesh trade. the only difference is; most in the trade are doing it for the sake of family vs poverty... whilst material gals are doing it for personal gain.

and for that, i reckon those in the flesh trade command better respect, as their primary basis of taking on the job, is bourne of sacrificial love.

Is that why the other time your Cat40 girlfriend told you that this customer was a "bastard" due to the reason that their relationship failed?

So who was the bitch all along? Your gf?

If you want to love a WL, go ahead, but don't give us thousands of reasons that you deemed justifiable to substantiate your stand.

U want to say girls in flesh trade command better respect is okay, but look at what kind of girl you have before you come and tell us to give them respect. WLs got many kinds. There are many who don't need to cheat and con, these are the ones that deserved respect hor.

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[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

SC, again i say.. you assume too much. by the way, your contribution seems quite personal and little or nothing to do with the thread topic. suggest you have this post removed...

Sorry hor, I don't take back my words. If you are not happy with what I say, kindly use the report post command at the right hand corner and report to Sammyboy.

SC

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

today, most gals expect the man to pay, expect the man to shower her with love gifts...etc. giving in return is absent from her list of agenda. and so, she relents to intercourse when the guy requests... (bear in mind, intercourse is suppose to be mutual consent)... and when the relationship fails. she claims the guy to be a "BASTARD"!!

the question then comes to place... who was the BITCH all along??

It is always the case, no matter what happens in the end. Men tends to be the culprit for most failed marriages......

[t123]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

It is always the case, no matter what happens in the end. Men tends to be the culprit for most failed marriages......

I agreed xiao mian yang.

Its not that nowadays girls always want their guys to buy this or buy that.... Just that you guys fuck us girls... Whats wrong if we ask you to pay for stuff when we are out? If you cant afford a girl, then dont think of bonking one mahz!

[vesfreq]

Guys, you should read today's Urban.

The two ladies in their 40s are results of them being tao and stuck up when they were younger. It also shows that even if a girl is sweet, she is still an unwanted fabric once age exacts its toll on her.

Historically (and even now), guys will always go for younger girls with fresher looks. This applies regardless of age, for the guys. And, this is where there is true fairness between the sexes.

Just imagine a group of bachelors in their 30s in the pub. And, compare that with what you can imagine about a group of spinsters in their 30s loittering in the pub. Yea, its an evil thought. But, the truth is apparent. Girls become ladies and eventually aunties.

For the bunch of guys in their 30s, there is always time to play (of course, assuming unmarried. ) I'm sure plenty of guys here are in their 30s and still playing.

But, what about the girls? For the spinsters' league, its time to step aside. Yea, its sad. Thats where humility is important. If the auntie was tao when she was young, people won't remember that.

Yes, the saying goes like "bad things always spread faster" and usually gets to stay around longer. But, wait a minute, the reason why people (especially guys) won't remember is because there will be more prettier young things coming up every year, not just during the festive seasons.

While the same group of bachelors drinking away for the past 1 or 2 decades are accumulating more wealth, experience and becoming more eligible.

[OceanEleven]

Man, like a good old wine, he mellows with age.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by chioer

Its not that nowadays girls always want their guys to buy this or buy that.... Just that you guys fuck us girls... Whats wrong if we ask you to pay for stuff when we are out? If you cant afford a girl, then dont think of bonking one mahz!

intercourse has always been something mutual.. and if it costs something, be it gifts or whatsoever.. then... what difference is it to the transactions in the commercial sex scenes??

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

intercourse has always been something mutual.. and if it costs something, be it gifts or whatsoever.. then... what difference is it to the transactions in the commercial sex scenes??

U mean what, if your birthday your friends buy u a present means they want to "fuck" u?

Or if your birthday, your gf buy you a present means she wants you to service her?

If you think that by buying a gift for your gf insinuates that she is no different from a prostitute who gets money from customers, I suggest you just go fcuk prostitutes instead. SG girls don't need men like you. They are self-sufficient. Or you can try targetting your scope on Thai Prostitutes instead.

If you can marry a girl (irregardless of Prostitute or non-prostitute) without forking a single cent in gifts, wedding presents, presents, ceremony, maintenance etc, kindly please come and tell me.

I send you a flower wreath on your wedding day congratulating you on being a Gigolo.

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[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by chioer

Its not that nowadays girls always want their guys to buy this or buy that.... Just that you guys fuck us girls... Whats wrong if we ask you to pay for stuff when we are out? If you cant afford a girl, then dont think of bonking one mahz!

We are not talking about the sex, sex is nothing but just part of the package that comes along with a relationship. So far I have not come across a relationship that excludes sex. So from your reply seems that buying things is like a form of barter trading for sex. If yes then perhaps you got the wrong point here then. This is not what we a belting out here. No one complain anything about the sex they have with their love ones but rather sometimes the lack of it or simply the strenuous emotional and mental side of the relation they are having now.

“If you cant afford a girl, then dont think of bonking one mahz!”

So can we conclude from your point that your sex group is nothing but a commodity except with the choice to choose to go for the highest bidder? Affordability? I guess many of us here can more than “afford” but sometimes the “returns” are far from pleasing if you allow me to put it in your “terms” of “affording” a girl. All of us here are with someone who we are willing to care, commit and love but it is just that sometimes the emotional tantrums that comes along are overbearing and hence the much complaint we had. Views been posted here and seems that we are not solo singers in this case but so far I have not come across anyone who neither treat his complained target with grievances and hatred nor take them as some barter trade commodity where even casting her away is deem as waste of effort.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

U mean what, if your birthday your friends buy u a present means they want to "fuck" u?

Or if your birthday, your gf buy you a present means she wants you to service her?

there you go again... incompetence in comprehension, by all means, please disclaim it. clearly, its not that you dont read, but simply cant read.

my sentiments on the gals mentality on the receiving end (these days): she expects gifts & all the attention, but when its her turn to reciprocate.. she's most likely to give flesh - assuming that its what the guy deserves.

hence, now the growing trend: i'd give you sex, only if you give me what i want.

not ruling out the fact that there are cheerful givers and goodwill presents too, except that the gals simply reciprocate inappropriately...

[asjer]

Frankly, when the guy have tons of "fertilisers" (money, not sperm), he won't have to worry about getting a good tree cos the trees will be flocking to him instead. That's the reality of living in a 1st world society where everything boils down to dollars and cents. Of course the other side of the arguement would be some trees can provide the adequate or expected shade but they are rare and far apart with most standing on other man's properties. Local or foreign soil, the trees are all the same, just up to us as men to decide what kind of trees we really wan to have for the rest of our life cos most trees are deciding already what kind of man they wan to shelter but bottomline is still the same, the one with the most fertilisers gets the most shelter from tree/trees. Hence, what we sow today is what we reap tomorrow, can't blame anyone else except ourselves.

My personal experience was, when i was down and out going after trees on a 2 wheeler, am classified as thick skinned, now when am on my BMW 5 series and ignoring trees cos i have my own tree, am classified as arrogant and proud.

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

meanwhile, there's plenty of trees out there.. and i dont see why we continue searching in local soil (for what we may never find - knowing very well that they topple during wet weather), when there's plenty of well rooted shady and/or fruit bearing trees out there in foreign soil... perhaps even virgin forests.

seek and you shall find.