How I got cheated by KTV girl

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by sidekick

Don't try to get into their head & know their background, don't talk about their hopes & plans.

Bro.... tell u their background.. even a single day of their life here is so packed and full of happenings that it boggles the mind. Everything that happens around them is at an accerated time when they are working here... nothing is constant.... It boggles the mind sometimes

[CibLover]

Originally Posted by naemlo

... It will be a never ending debates. I for 1 will always in the group against falling for WL. ..

Ehh...simi group? Kekeke...
Me also join your same group. The never fall for "toilet bowl group" si boh??

[banana]

Originally Posted by littleme

This ger is very funny.. she has rich suitors asking her to be the mistress but she keep falling for married man who gave false hopes to her... this singapore guy is not the first one, she wasted 8 years in china waiting for a prc married man to marry her...

in china society, it is diff from sg.

girls in the 20's prefer to marry man that are much older, may be 10 yrs older bcos they are matrue and financially established, thus know how to take care of them.

and in china, married man are better than single. china girl see single man as unwanted or outcast. still so old liao and not married give china girl the impression that something is wrong with this man.

if u are married, siginal to china girl that u r a good man that why u r married. good man meaning a family man, responsible, caring, know how to take care of girls, etc.

on the other hang, if u r married, and have no mistress, or no girls trying to seduce you, it mean that u r a lousy husband, no manly qualities. china wife will say u r a lousy man. having a mistress signify that u r successful and reliable to be with.

in china, girls take all these as indicators to prospect their "husband"

if u tell them u r divorced without valid reasons then u r the lousiest man. dont say i m divorced bcos i cant support my wife, i dont know how to take care of her, etc. also dont say my wife run away w another man bcos she will think tat u r so lousy that why she run away w another man.

an ideal answer will be, my wife find out that i have a mistress. ha ha... many gals will flock to ur embrace.

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by banana

and in china, married man are better than single. if u are married, siginal to china girl that u r a good man that why u r married. good man meaning a family man, responsible, caring, know how to take care of girls, etc. having a mistress signify that u r successful and reliable to be with.

Hmmm.... now this theory must really put to the test

[Eastpipper]

Originally Posted by banana

an ideal answer will be, my wife find out that i have a mistress. ha ha... many gals will flock to ur embrace.

wah u likedat teach us goot meh?

[banana]

Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

Hmmm.... now this theory must really put to the test

just sharing my life in china.

when i tell gals that i divorced, they are so concern with my reasons. if i tell them my wife run away w another man, i m history. the gals will not want me or we ended our relationship fast.

if i tell them i m married and still come out to flirt, is an indicator to them that u r rich, or better than average joe. reason is u have taken care of ur family and still got spare cash for flirt.

[banana]

Originally Posted by Eastpipper

wah u likedat teach us goot meh?

then why u roaming in this forum? obviously u are here for some tips and tricks right?

[DOM.]

Originally Posted by newbadass

PS. I'm not encouraging people to be a hero like this guy. I'm just saying that if you want to make a decision, be a man about it.

Did he mention to his family, close friends, relatives that his wife was a WL??

[banana]

another 2 cents, why are we so bothered KTV gal cheat? cheat them back lah! have we guys forgotten how we get cheated by them. how they rip us off, especially those uncles give their CPF dollars to these mm. why cant we strike back?

recently from dongbei back to the southern china and hear ppl bad mouth me among the gals why i dont pay gals, consider that i cheat them for free fcuk. also in some threads ppl are against free fcuk.

wat wrong w free fcuk? why do i have to pay? i have my charm, i have gals willing to bed with me. who are these ppl that against free fcuk? they look like Hunchback of Notre Dame or they dont have pick-up skills?

do u consider i cheat them for not paying? you mean when u first meet your prospective gfs and have sex before marriage, did u pay them?

why ppl keep saying me a cheater for cheating them for free fcuk, when in my early days they cheated my wealth. when i get cheated, ppl say i m stupid and now i so call "cheat" them why nobody say they are stupid and yet sympatize them.

i think the stupid ppl are really us, willing to be cheated and not allow ourselves to cheat others.

i m not saying i dont pay for sex...

[banana]

... i m not saying i dont pay for sex. i like to pay too.

but there are times we cannot pay. like i mention just now, we dont pay our prosepctive gfs for sex before marriage. doing so, we will only hurt their feelings.

my recent case, i got to know a ktv gal abt a yr ago. we met quite often for lunch or when other bro took her out. and sometimes she dont felt like working, she would come over to my place and stay overnite. we had been sleeping together, without sex, for quite sometime liao. although she foreplay me a few times, we only hug each other to sleep.

our last bed time, she initated to have sex with me but i did not allow. as far as i could go was kissed her and squeezed her tits. she pulled off my shorts many times but i did not allowed it. in the end she stopped.

the next morning, i decided to fcuk her and i did it. after that i paid her and she did not want the money. it was a veri embrassing moment for us when we come to the money issue.

two factors to fcuk her, one is because she will feel lousy if i dont do it. second, i have to keep this platonic relationship going.

i got another KTV gal that will not sleep w my friends bcos this gal like me too. of course i have another one tat will not sleep with me but can bed with all my friends.

so in this love-sex game, sometime paying is not the right move...

[banana]

... so in this love-sex game, sometime paying is not the right move.

i posted in the other thread, recently i got a KTV mummy that co-habited with me for about 15+ days before i kicked her out. during her stay, i did not fcuk her bcos i wasnt sure wat her motive and her expectation for me.

so not every gal that offer herself to me i fcuk. this is how we shld be thinking with our heart and mind. we have to use both to think not just our small head.

recently i got to know another girl too and she was feeling down bcos of some personal matters and every nite came over my place for sex and my companionship. she will call me every nite to see if i m free and at home so that she can come over. did i cheat her?

in this love-sex game, there is no who cheat who but how u move your chess to check-mate.

in my experience, not every gal is payable. i did get scolded by them for paying them. i have learn my lesson. the lesson is, pay if u have to pay.

[banana]

dont be disappointed if u get cheated by KTV gal.

let me share with u how to get consolation out of it.

few years back, i learnt from here from a reputable bro. he taught me one of the greatest skills of a player is to let the gal dump you. to expand further we can also say it in a way the gal tat we are cheated by them. or potrait it that we are loser in this love-sex game.

by letting them dump us, it make the gals feel good and we are not the one that let them down. so they will not say we cheat them but more like we get cheated or fooled by them. but in fact, we are the one that dump them.

to take advantage of this "loser" situation, telling her friends that u got dump or cheat by the gal and her gals friends will take sympathy on you alothough they also cheat other men. (not to worry, this is the game) being a loser, u work ur way to find a comforter from one of her friends and u can bingo with one of them tat may become your next gf or a ONS. if gf, usually is quite short term from such case, but ONS is more likely a better and preferred choice.

just sharing my 2 cents tat accmulated by my years of experience.

so nowsaday i like to get dump by my gf and prey on her good friend.

after all we are all winners. she is happy to dump me and i can change target.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by banana

just sharing my 2 cents tat accmulated by my years of experience.

Brother,

From you postings, I am convinced that you are indeed very experienced in this game. Thank you for the sharing.

Concerning FOC Bonks, it is not that the brothers here are against them. It is just that many of us are not sure what follows after the FOC Bonks. Unlike one is as experienced and as knowledgeable as you, I would still say that we should be careful before accepting something FOC. I did have my share, but am always careful, like you have said about the Mamasan, if I do not know what she has in mind.

Thank you again and with best regards.

PTR

[banana]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Brother,

From you postings, I am convinced that you are indeed very experienced in this game. Thank you for the sharing.

Concerning FOC Bonks, it is not that the brothers here are against them. It is just that many of us are not sure what follows after the FOC Bonks. Unlike one is as experienced and as knowledgeable as you, I would still say that we should be careful before accepting something FOC. I did have my share, but am always careful, like you have said about the Mamasan, if I do not know what she has in mind.

Thank you again and with best regards.

PTR

yup u r right. not every FOC is FOC. i do choose who i sleep with. i have many gals that ON and sleep beside me but not every one i put my banana in their batu cave.

have a nice weekend.

[newbadass]

Banana, Banana...

You keep talking about love-sex game. Now I have a few questions for you:

Why waste time with stupid games, specially with WLs? What do we get out of it? Maybe just an overblown sense of self-worth? Aren't mind games beneath us as mature and responsible adults?

But really I must come to the conclusion that this so-called "FOC fuck" is really a big fuck thing. Even those noble people who claim that they are against getting free fuck will hastily add "but it's not that I cannot get free fuck OK! It's just that girls offer me but I don't want!"