Sexless Marriage...

[Xfactor]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Bro Xfactor
Is not a platoon, it is a Division by now.....
Try foreplay and not straight sex, try sexy massage and slowly, try finger her at 3am, ......i tried all these, it help most of the time...cos at 3am, wife is blur blur stage, and too blur to stop, so finger and strip her naked, has not been a problem, hehe.........

Some tips only lah, if others bro. got tips, pls tell also....

kekek Division, Oh yes, i did try those pointers that u mention, out of 5 times, only manage to score once & was even push away or showing black face by wife. I did wat i should do & i guess she's happy right now cos i totally leave her alone without talking about sex anymore.

So i guess life after being parents will be back to school days. PCC

[KingBong]

Have you guys tried foreplay. Here it doesnt just mean the kissing and touching before that, it is also the mental part which is important to women but not so much or even not required for guys. I personally agree in the sense that it doesnt take much for a guy to hard-on but for the opposite sex they require a lot more mental stimulations. However there are exceptions of women whom I come across who are just as horny or worst than guys. One even told me her r/s usually failed because the guy can't keep up with her sexual appetite. It's a fact that people change, so making it work is a 2-way process.

[Niceman]

.....guess ur wives rather conversative....i tot mine is conservative liao.....
So far, it work for me, about 70%..........

[Niceman]

I know a way liao.....email to Dr.Love, tell him all about all these problems and probably, hopefully, he could air it live and discuss about this "major crisiss" on TV so all our wives could see another side of the story, and not blame us, man, for having ECA.....

Education is the foundation. I guess...
How's the idea???

[analog539]

Gent:

I hear yah! We had our third and wife scared of pain....so playground closed.
Hit tits have swllen due to breast feeding and she looks damn hot, just no sex.

How?

Man oh man!


Jim

[sgpiggybank]

Hi Bro,

Not to be sad on this issue. I just have my first baby girl and I know from my wife that some women are scare to have sex after their first birth. This is due to a huge explosion below causing them to have such phobia. Maybe you should spent some time talking to her. This might helps.

[Kentn]

DIY lor! or go hunting

[InnocentBaby]

Originally Posted by KingBong

Have you guys tried foreplay. Here it doesnt just mean the kissing and touching before that, it is also the mental part which is important to women but not so much or even not required for guys. I personally agree in the sense that it doesnt take much for a guy to hard-on but for the opposite sex they require a lot more mental stimulations. However there are exceptions of women whom I come across who are just as horny or worst than guys. One even told me her r/s usually failed because the guy can't keep up with her sexual appetite. It's a fact that people change, so making it work is a 2-way process.

Well.. have to admit it sometime... As a gal (for me, I mean) When I'm not 'click' with the mood, thn I'm 'hardly' give my best performance. Is not the problem of 'Dun Wan to give', its the problem like... 'U aint making me happy (horny < tats the word i suppose), how am i gonna make u happy too?'
But anyway, tats just my comment. I guess every women do have the feeling of jealousy. For example, when thy find tat ur female colleague calls u (ur house number would be more 'Uhm!') or mayb saw some greeting sms msgs at ur phone? Make thm started to think, doubting... (not on the negative side) just let thm had a thought like > "I do have a Handsome Hubby, for sure alot of women admire him. Should i tied him up b4 other gals get to tie him?" < mayb tis can let thm try to 'tie' u up with the 'Bed KungFu'?

[kingdong]

Originally Posted by gent

I agreed that marriage is not all abt sex... And if I can choose, I would prefer to have sex with my wife(rather than pro).. The problem is I have not even touch her, kiss her for the past 18 mths... isn't it too long?? We are married, but it just simply look like a family of father, mother and kid... that's all...

btw, she dislike porn movie so much that I dun even dare to keep one at home...

Comforting to know that I'm not alone in this. I haven't had sex with my wifey for 3yrs and like many bros here, her sexual urges have dropped to ZERO after the birth of our son. I've more like seen over the horizon liao and try not to think about this issue cos it's upsetting.

Many years back:
1) sex is like 1 time a week
2) bj is like once in a blue moon
3) catbath and hj quite frequent
4) french kissing and cuddling yes

As of 12/1/2006:
1) last time had sex with her was like in Feb 2003
2) bj is like over her dead body
3) cannot even kiss her in the mouth cos she said her friends also liddat
4) cannot touch or cuddle her when sleeping cos combined body heat, too hot.
5) she won't even touch my didi now so we forget about hj.

The best past is when I tell her about all this, she suggest I go GL to release my urges ( but I believe she's not speaking from her heart)

Forget about what advises ppl give, I've already tried. Creating that atmosphere, go back to like when we were still dating, watch porno, ALL HAVE FAILED.

I do love my wife and I believe she loves me too, but it's this obstacle here thats a pain in the ass!
But because of my son no choice cos he's innocent or else I wouldn't rule out divorce.

[ricardo]

me after 1st kid think waited 1-2 month but during pregnancy got abit actions.

2nd kid waited 3 months coz she had some complication

3rd now 1 month old. still waiting to score. 2 nights ago plan and agreed to have some fun after kids sleep. but my son (2nd one) didn't by staying up late. by the time he sleep oredi 2am liao. go and check out wife slept like dead meat so decide dun disturb coz the baby took all her energy away.

hopefully can score by end of this week coz she bought some sexy underwear recently but body still a bit out of shape but i m too horny liao

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by kingdong

Comforting to know that I'm not alone in this. I haven't had sex with my wifey for 3yrs and like many bros here, her sexual urges have dropped to ZERO after the birth of our son. I've more like seen over the horizon liao and try not to think about this issue cos it's upsetting.

Many years back:
1) sex is like 1 time a week
2) bj is like once in a blue moon
3) catbath and hj quite frequent
4) french kissing and cuddling yes

As of 12/1/2006:
1) last time had sex with her was like in Feb 2003
2) bj is like over her dead body
3) cannot even kiss her in the mouth cos she said her friends also liddat
4) cannot touch or cuddle her when sleeping cos combined body heat, too hot.
5) she won't even touch my didi now so we forget about hj.

The best past is when I tell her about all this, she suggest I go GL to release my urges ( but I believe she's not speaking from her heart)

Forget about what advises ppl give, I've already tried. Creating that atmosphere, go back to like when we were still dating, watch porno, ALL HAVE FAILED.

I do love my wife and I believe she loves me too, but it's this obstacle here thats a pain in the ass!
But because of my son no choice cos he's innocent or else I wouldn't rule out divorce.

U have my utmost sympathies, looks like we are sailing in the same boat and it always the guys that take the rap when we have no choice but to seek our sextisfaction elsewhere..as if the wives did not play a part in drivng us to sexparation...

[Niceman]

Sad...
I think is time for all of brothers to be frank and open to it.
Time to tell our wives, we NEED SEX and sex is part of marriage, without, is like a marry and be handicap.

Actually, lots of misunderstanding can dun need to talk, once sextified, both parties will give in.

Sex actually can bridge gaps and dissolve misunderstanding, create more understanding environment.

[InnocentBaby]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Sad...
I think is time for all of brothers to be frank and open to it.
Time to tell our wives, we NEED SEX and sex is part of marriage, without, is like a marry and be handicap.

Actually, lots of misunderstanding can dun need to talk, once sextified, both parties will give in.

Sex actually can bridge gaps and dissolve misunderstanding, create more understanding environment.

Well, so sorry to heard about all Bro's problem. But i do agree tat SEX is part of the marriage. Even my dad also tell me the same thing. Erm... Do u agree if i say : Satisfaction give Happiness ?

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by InnocentBaby

Well, so sorry to heard about all Bro's problem. But i do agree tat SEX is part of the marriage. Even my dad also tell me the same thing. Erm... Do u agree if i say : Satisfaction give Happiness ?

now you know why most gold digging prc women got one up over our local women..cos they know that the way to a man heart is thru his dick...

[Niceman]

lol, Bro Frank.
Well said, lol heehee...
Sillyporean ger cant compare on this ground.
Even in China, wives normally dont reject their hubby whenever they need sex. Is a fact. Is part of their duties, actaully, to sextified their husbands.