mistress wants to bear baby

[korean]

Dear bro/sis,

what u've adviced me n what u friend did are quite in sync with what a wl told me.

She mentioned got friend with 3 wife's, played mahjong together and mentioned if I'm not married with one of them actually both woman can talk to each other. Don't ask me y can only do it if I'm not married to one of them but I definitely no guts to see that happen if u ask me. So how ur friend make it?

Yes u understand gal quite well, they will think of the good thing u done to them n find excuse to forgive u. R u a lady? Sorry if my guess is wrong.

She did tell me similar thing, life is short, do whatever u deem happy, n chose the one I love most. I asked her how if bad things happen, she couldnt answer me...

Originally Posted by angelinspiring

Dear bro korean,

Its been quite sometime i haven't browse this forum. somehow your story intrigue me. I believe you are having difficulties with your marriage and your mistress. To be honest, one of my best friend actually have the same situation like you. An emotional clinging girlfriend that wants to kill herself if they want to break up and another girlfriend that quite mature and understanding.

I just want to make it simple and short. What he did was..... He married both of them....simple as that.... and somehow they are happier...less dramatic and just got a baby boy....

You see, girls are just girls.... start to think what you have done to them rather always feel guilty what's gonna happen if u take a different action. All I'm saying, you have done your part during your relationship with both of them. Yes.... you are a great man....!!!!...it takes guts, mentally, physically and even financially to have two great women in your life....

So now is time to think about yourselves.... The truth is....whatever decision that you gonna take or do...in the end, the other party (both girls) will say its a fucking bad decision... so make decision based on your happiness and stick to it... it is your time brother....i repeat your time....to be happy!!!

sincerely,
fucking angelinspiring

[loneyheart]

At time to b a bad guy to end a relationship which headed nowhere is the best thing to do . That the only way for her to search for her futures happiness .Never bring a new live to t world to suffer if u cant even give him a basic complete family care n love ... sorri tats only my shallow IMHO

[nikeguy]

May be it can be known as friend with benefit. (one level lower than Mistress rite?) no money involved.

[korean]

I would like to ask for opinions/suggestions which is not related to the topic of this thread. In order for people to relate back why I gonna do this, I decide to post it here.

Is there a way for me to be away from singapore and no body can find me or get me back to singapore? Reason is I cannot divorce so I can only make myself dissapear from singapore.

[porscheclub]

Alive or dead?

Bad joke on your stupid idea. So, you chose to escape from wife & give up everything from your homeland for an ex-yellow card WL?

To answer your question. If China doesn't have restriction for long term stay then u can parachute yourself there. Cut off everything here & shift Base. Wife will put up a missing person notice of you & after some years insurance may even benefit her.

My question for you. You live for yourself or women? Because of wife you destroyed yourself & for another woman you risk everything.

Love indeed blinds....

[korean]

alive

I have this idea even before I met this ex-WL. But it was just a thought and never think deeper. You can say this idea has nothing to do with another woman, it is purely for myself. Since I will destroy myself due to wife, basically I have nothing to risk anymore

I guess with valid visa in china (if possible to get one), my whereabout will be easily traced?

Thanks for your concerns n opinions

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Alive or dead?

Bad joke on your stupid idea. So, you chose to escape from wife & give up everything from your homeland for an ex-yellow card WL?

To answer your question. If China doesn't have restriction for long term stay then u can parachute yourself there. Cut off everything here & shift Base. Wife will put up a missing person notice of you & after some years insurance may even benefit her.

My question for you. You live for yourself or women? Because of wife you destroyed yourself & for another woman you risk everything.

Love indeed blinds....

[a2014]

Originally Posted by korean

Is there a way for me to be away from singapore and no body can find me or get me back to singapore? Reason is I cannot divorce so I can only make myself dissapear from singapore.

So serious ??? guess your wife need to go counseling, maybe yourself too. Disappearing act especially your identity is not going to be something you should ever consider.

Going counseling could be a way out, if you are in good book and all the authorities are on your side, lets not look at what is in the WC. You should be able to settle your differences.

Your other encounter is a different issue so don't mix them, get one thing clear up at one time. Your future is in your own hand. Act wisely.

Take Care.

[korean]

Originally Posted by a2014

So serious ??? guess your wife need to go counseling, maybe yourself too. Disappearing act especially your identity is not going to be something you should ever consider.

Going counseling could be a way out, if you are in good book and all the authorities are on your side, lets not look at what is in the WC. You should be able to settle your differences.

Your other encounter is a different issue so don't mix them, get one thing clear up at one time. Your future is in your own hand. Act wisely.

Take Care.

Long time I already told her so. She just told me I'm the one who should go for counselling n start the battle again. Frankly I got no confident that counsellor can improve the situation.

I didn't mix.them that's why I wanna be free first then see how if still alive.

[a2014]

Originally Posted by korean

Long time I already told her so. She just told me I'm the one who should go for counselling n start the battle again. Frankly I got no confident that counsellor can improve the situation.

Well, you are not those that go round talking about others therefore we just assume your situation as we all got no info as what had happened to you that cause her to feel as such.

Looks like you have only two options, either split up which according to you no way, or stay put and wait for opportunity which still have some hope. Disappearing act I guess is not a good answer at all.

[korean]

Originally Posted by a2014

Well, you are not those that go round talking about others therefore we just assume your situation as we all got no info as what had happened to you that cause her to feel as such.

Looks like you have only two options, either split up which according to you no way, or stay put and wait for opportunity which still have some hope. Disappearing act I guess is not a good answer at all.

Then back to the square one I suppose. Option one I gotta take risk to see her dead in front of me, option two at present situation gotta wait long long until she dead or I dead n in between I gotta suffer long long too

[a2014]

Originally Posted by korean

Then back to the square one I suppose. Option one I gotta take risk to see her dead in front of me, option two at present situation gotta wait long long until she dead or I dead n in between I gotta suffer long long too

Indeed you are in a square now, all sides are the same no matter which direction you go.

Wait long long still have to wait. There is nothing you can do other than you feel that you are suffering.

Take good care of yourself, tomorrow will be better.

[porscheclub]

KNN, bro korean. I cannot tahan you but felt compelled to write again.

File for Separation. You need lawyer's no?

Just pack up & move out. Go to parent's place or rent a room out there. 4 years later automatically chop & split. No quarrel, no counselling, full stop. The lawyer will start the clock the moment you move out & serve her the paper.

You're just running away from your troubles by doing the disappearing act & it'll haunt you wherever you go because the problem actually lies in you! Go think about it.

I saw a picture today of an old couple hugging together after 65 years. People asked them how they did it & the wife said, "We're born in an age where we fix things and not throw them away"

[korean]

I used to step out of the house, and before I really went off, she was trying to suicide to threaten me.

There was once I ignored her threathen, n she called up my family n as my parent are soft kind of person, I lose the battle.

If I take ur advice, probably suicide incident may appear in newspaper. I'm not as cruel to see ppl die in front of me yet. If yes I will follow ur advice.

If I disappear, probably she got higher chance to stay alive as without seeing me live or dead. I dunno, that y need u guys opinions.

Originally Posted by porscheclub

KNN, bro korean. I cannot tahan you but felt compelled to write again.

File for Separation. You need lawyer's no?

Just pack up & move out. Go to parent's place or rent a room out there. 4 years later automatically chop & split. No quarrel, no counselling, full stop. The lawyer will start the clock the moment you move out & serve her the paper.

You're just running away from your troubles by doing the disappearing act & it'll haunt you wherever you go because the problem actually lies in you! Go think about it.

I saw a picture today of an old couple hugging together after 65 years. People asked them how they did it & the wife said, "We're born in an age where we fix things and not throw them away"

[firejalan]

Serve e D paper then disappear...

[HappyBuddy]

wow this is tricky