Price to pay for helping Matters of the Heart

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by colins

I think its quite different bro. 慧能's words show that we shouldn't bring worldly objects into our heart as reality is always subjected to what human can sense and cannot sense.

Whereas bro randi candi's liner is more towards telling his friend, if he can't forget about the poor state which the girls are in, desirable as they can be, he should just avoid the scene and dun worry about being able to NOT think so much after seeing such 'sufferings'.

YES Grandmaster for your wisdom.

[colins]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

YES Grandmaster for your wisdom.

I think the grandmaster is 慧能. Next is randi candi, hahaha...
I din say those words, only seek to understand and learn from them.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by colins

上的山多终遇虎...bro longwinter your situation also quite worrying, hope you haven't really spent too much. Well hope you can live thru it if she comes back.

Not to worry, bro..l didnt really spent much on her also. She too didnt ask much from me either.

Ya, that is why l hoping she never come back lo.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by ekemono

I did that before too. Tried a few times dialling her SG nos. then one fine day she called me from China. I was at JC having a good time and her call took me by surprise. One would have assume the joyful and chatty conversation but actually, I dun have anything to talk to her. So it was lip service for the next few mins. Hmmmm, maybe she is looking for someone to sponser her trip here. Never called me since and I also didn't note down her China number.

Haha, if there was a call from her or if she come back, actually l do have alot of things l wan to talk and tell her.

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by Randi_Candi

I always like to kaypo.......

a samster used 2 tell me, say beh tahan leh, they all look so 楚楚可怜, yet so pritty.......cant just bring myself 2 go n pat my backside n go hm 4get it.

So my siggy was intended for him. But he is not the only 1 whom falls into such category

人在江湖，身不由己。 不入江湖， 何来“身不由己”？

Hmmm... But...

不入红尘，如何 “看破红尘”

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

人在江湖，身不由己。 不入江湖， 何来“身不由己”？

Hmmm... But...

不入红尘，如何 “看破红尘”

Agrees bro.....everything has a price!
Life...oh life hahahaha
Well said bro....

[colins]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

人在江湖，身不由己。 不入江湖， 何来“身不由己”？

Hmmm... But...

不入红尘，如何 “看破红尘”

Wah lau eh...simplistic sia! While anyone can choose not to enter 江湖 (and save the troubles of getting KCed), not everyone can enter 红尘 and yet 看破. Fact is, most of us are still in 江湖/红尘 waiting to 看破! hahaha

[DO_YOU_BJ]

破了。。。。。什么都破了！呵呵

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by do_you_bj

破了。。。。。什么都破了！呵呵

空即是色,色即是空!

[EtherC]

I haven't mastered the art of fucking air.

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

空即是色,色即是空!

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by EtherC

I haven't mastered the art of fucking air.

Good one Bro EtherC.........it doesn't mean fucking the air lah......but I like your interpretation, whahahaha

[Wooden_Handle]

Allowed me for simple thought on the meaning: to me it means sex alone in relationship is empty.

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

空即是色,色即是空!

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

Allowed me for simple thought on the meaning: to me it means sex alone in relationship is empty.

Well, whatever you feel it is, it is

Whatever you feel it is not, it is not.

[shanshen]

u all really sibei good! can turn into buddha chant...ornitorfu....

when a couple in love and have sex, its lovers sex
when a couple not in love but have sex, its obligatory sex
when a couple force the other unwilling into sex, its force sex
when one drug the other and sex her, its rape

so when one pay $ for sex, its commercial sex

so what type of sex is most fun?

i guess most will choose the first one. tio bo?

so most guys after loosing the touch and feel in marriage, tends to seek back the wonderful feelings that they lost by hooking up a lover and seeking the revive the wonderful feelings again... or even if the feeling is still there in marriage, the excitment of "tao jiak" with a lover is also darn sexciting..and too powerful to forgo...i shold say all men love this type of feelings..
whether they admit it openly or not..

[Wooden_Handle]

Thank you Bro for input, as it is a buddhist phrase, I think we must look for heavenly pleasure instead of bodily pleasure..

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Well, whatever you feel it is, it is

Whatever you feel it is not, it is not.