My attempt at sharing my experiences...

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by EnigmaofSorrow

Haha.. I am wondering why you are openly flirting with her here...

But I'm fine. It's Rose I'm worried about... She said she hasn't smiled for awhile. Which is a real pity as she has a really nice smile.. One of the things that attracted me to her anyway...

Yes Kitty... what is your plight? Do share!

Of course I flirt with her lah ... I dun suppose it would go well for our reps if I start flirting with you and you reciprocate ?

Ms Shinxx has spoken ... hope it hits home ? Security Blanket for hire ... hehehe

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by MrShinxx

2) I can totally relate to Rose. Because I was in a similar plight as her. One year ago, me n my 3-year bf was having a rough period and we broke up. So I turned to a male friend and he DID TEMPTED ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM BUT I REJECTED. Almost gave in to my temptations,.. simply bcos I WANTED TO FEEL LOVED AND BEING WANTED BY SOMEONE. Thats what Rose want from you. Imagine if YOU are able to give her what she wanted (commitment), I am sure she would divorce her husband just for you. REALLY

Girls just hope to find a shoulder to lean on, someone to love us, the rest doesnt matter. But are you really into her? Or you just love the sex? RUN like kittymae has said. Her husband is meeting another girl, so of course she'll come n meet u?

Ms Shinxx! Another female that echoes what I feel! *muacks* sista! (Dun worry, I'm straight)

Girls understand girls best

Bro E, to add on, the entire time u she didn't contact u, did u wonder why?
Put it bluntly, she didn't need u.

If this isn't obvious enough that she is just stringing u along, I don't know what is

Her actions speak more than any words she says

Oh yeah, add on, she seems to be deluding herself u are interested in her...
Ure niceness is being misinterpreted by her owing to her emotional state.. Ure only encouraging her delusions
I tink between Ms Shinxx & me , we have laid it out pretty clear fr the female side.
it's up to u to make the decision.
Not R.

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

Of course I flirt with her lah ... I dun suppose it would go well for our reps if I start flirting with you and you reciprocate ?

It might drive the readership up? Lols...

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Originally Posted by kittymae

It might drive the readership up? Lols...

Well, it would certainly generate interest. And may drive readership up. But our rep will drop to the negatives. Haha. But interesting idea. Story on brotherly love... Haha.

[ludwig19]

Reading feedbacks from sis kitty and shinxx and other readers, guess all we wish for bro enigma is to be happy and a life without all the drama and complications (though thats wat got us hooked to this thread in the 1st place haha). but that would mean and end to this thread together with all the juicy details and drama that even the taiwanese would hv been proud of haha. Whichever way it goes, ur faithful readers are fully behind u bro. (though a sick part of me wishes it will go on hahaa).

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by kittymae

Bro Sen5e, 越描越黑 u know? Lols!
Hello Kitty fan club? U volunteering to be Prez? Takes quite a man to be a member of it yea? ;D

Ehhh..kitties don't like that. Lols.
Just wanted to,contribute fr a female viewpoint hopefully it can help shed some insight

Crap, spotlight on me again?! *scampers off to hide*

Hello Kitty Fan Club Prez ? If I'm Prez then you'll be a sexy Hello Kitty Mascot ? All dressed up for Comic Con yah ? hahahaha How would you know kitties don't like that if you haven't tried scratching their fore-heads and chins ?

Thanks for Sharing thou

You enjoy the spotlight more or the open flirting?

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by EnigmaofSorrow

Well, it would certainly generate interest. And may drive readership up. But our rep will drop to the negatives. Haha. But interesting idea. Story on brotherly love... Haha.

Originally Posted by kittymae

It might drive the readership up? Lols...

Readers here are generally main stream type ... Bromance of the other "Kind" might not be appreciated so openly ... on the other hand, Kitty sharing that smooch with Ms Shinxx would do the opposite and skyrocket the readership to infinity and beyond ... double standards ya ? hahahaha

Bro E - You get stringed along but you're still sober/not hooked yet right ? Everything still in their proper place I hope ?

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

Bro E - You get stringed along but you're still sober/not hooked yet right ? Everything still in their proper place I hope ?

Actually i'm wondering. How did i get strung along actually? I think we both wanted it, the sex i mean, so i didn't really get strung right? But i'm hooked of course. Haha.

[Sen5eS]

well ... i'm just wondering Emotionally how badly are you hooked

Doesn't look like you were affected in anyway ?

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

Hello Kitty Fan Club Prez ? If I'm Prez then you'll be a sexy Hello Kitty Mascot ? All dressed up for Comic Con yah ? hahahaha How would you know kitties don't like that if you haven't tried scratching their fore-heads and chins ?

Thanks for Sharing thou

You enjoy the spotlight more or the open flirting?

Whooa. Mascot eh? For u bro, can la. Lols...
How many kitties u scratched foreheads n chins for! Heheh

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

Readers here are generally main stream type ... Bromance of the other "Kind" might not be appreciated so openly ... on the other hand, Kitty sharing that smooch with Ms Shinxx would do the opposite and skyrocket the readership to infinity and beyond ... double standards ya ? hahahaha

Bro E - You get stringed along but you're still sober/not hooked yet right ? Everything still in their proper place I hope ?

why? U want one too? Lols..

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by kittymae

Whooa. Mascot eh? For u bro, can la. Lols...
How many kitties u scratched foreheads n chins for! Heheh

why? U want one too? Lols..

I adore pussy cats ... I spend half my time fingering them

Readership ? Your shoulder to cry on Or are you offering me an indecent proposal ?

I like option 3 please !

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

well ... i'm just wondering Emotionally how badly are you hooked

Doesn't look like you were affected in anyway ?

i'd like to think that i'm emotionally unavailable right now. But physically available. But i don't think there's any reciprocation of anything now, whether emotional or physical. Hence, nothing much to write about.

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

I adore pussy cats ... I spend half my time fingering them

Readership ? Your shoulder to cry on Or are you offering me an indecent proposal ?

I like option 3 please !

MeoW?
Hahhaha...
I'm sure u have more of option 3 than u can handle. Leave some for the rest lehz... Lols

Originally Posted by EnigmaofSorrow

i'd like to think that i'm emotionally unavailable right now. But physically available. But i don't think there's any reciprocation of anything now, whether emotional or physical. Hence, nothing much to write about.

U'd like to think?? Lols
Bro ure so hooked.
How easily u think fishes get off the fishing hook? Only when the fisherman (or fisher woman in this case) does it herself. The fish is then ends up as someone's dinner, or, thrown back in the sea but injured and in pain cos of e hook and can't survive long

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by kittymae

MeoW?
Hahhaha...
I'm sure u have more of option 3 than u can handle. Leave some for the rest lehz... Lols

U'd like to think?? Lols
Bro ure so hooked.
How easily u think fishes get off the fishing hook? Only when the fisherman (or fisher woman in this case) does it herself. The fish is then ends up as someone's dinner, or, thrown back in the sea but injured and in pain cos of e hook and can't survive long

Wow ... I didn't think you're that generous and willing to share with the rest (who're they? hahaha) furthermore, i'd like to Quote Bro E's words as well : i'm emotionally unavailable right now. But physically available !

Think Men should be able to "snap" out of it easier than you think Mae Mae ... He sounds like his mind/heart is still in 1 piece.

[EnigmaofSorrow]

I sent her home before heading to work for another day of being a zombie.

Many thoughts ran through my mind.

If she was so unhappy, why was she still holding on? Surely everyone deserved a chance at happiness.

It did not make much sense to me. Or perhaps I had not grasped the concept of love yet.

I started to wonder about what I was really after by being with her. Was it just sex? She was, after all, good in bed, and she made me feel good about myself. Mind fucking aside, there was so much about her that made me want to be with her.

I reached camp, took a cold shower to wake myself up and proceeded to the canteen for coffee. My phone beeped.

R: Thanks for spending time with me again. You didn't have to.

Me: But I wanted to.

R: Please don't tell me you like me.

Me: Why not?

R: If you do, then this has to stop.

Me: Why?

R: I'm married.

Me: Aren't we friends? Can't friends like each other?

R: Friends don't sleep with each other.

Me: Friends with benefits do.

R: We're not that.

Me: Why sleep with me then?

R: I wanted to.

Me: What's the reason?

R: I don't know.

Me: You said it's not really for revenge right? So what's the reason?

R: I really don't know.

Me: What are you afraid of?

R: I'm not afraid.

Me: Maybe you're afraid of admitting that you've fallen for me?

R: No.

Me: I was there for you at the lowest point of your life.

R: I don't want to talk about this.

Me: Why not?

R: I don't want to hurt you.

Me: How exactly are you hurting me?

R: If you like me, and I don't, then you'll be hurt if I dot return the feelings.

Me: And if I don't like you?

R: Then everything is fine.

Me: Is that the real reason?

R: What?

Me: You think I like you and the feeling is mutual?

R: No.

Me: Then?

R: My life is messed up right now. I need to have a clear mind to sort things out.

Me: So what's wrong with continuing to sleep together? Does that confuse you?

R: I already said we should stop having sex. Maybe next time when we can do it legally.

Me: Meaning?

R: Forget it. You're a nice guy. Don't make me change my mind.

Me: I thought you were happy with me.

R: I was. You treat me well. That's all.

Me: How about the sex?

R: You torture me.

Me: But you liked it.

R: Yes.

Me: Then what's the problem?

Maybe I should have stopped when she asked me to stop. She did not reply to that last SMS, nor has she replied to the email I sent to her to apologize.

Oh well, I guess I screwed things up again...

I don't know why but even though we were not together, it felt as though she had just broken up with me.