Wife don't like sex

[predator314]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine
Bro at least you still get it once a week..for me it could go for a couple of months and then also like buay gam guan to do....painting forget it, she won't even bj me for the same reason that she thinks the mouth is full of germs...for that matter no fingering too...even try to rabba her boobs a bit she say not showing her any respect...so i ask you how to turn her on in the first place?? Bro, spot on!!! Row row row your boat.......

[missyrach]

wa~ ... i really should show my husb this site man..

he should feel lucky!!!

but if ur wifey give u guys all the sex u want, bj and all, u guys will also eat out wat!!!

excuse being bored with the same thing everyday wat... no meh??

*can never satisfy guys man*

[fullofrubbish]

Originally Posted by kiko

Yes , I believe what brother Samboys said : sleeping in separate room is a beginning of a big problem.

In my Opinion , I feel that as a marry couple, we should learn to give and take . Trust is very important. I remember there is another post by another bro's wife said no sex you will not die right . Bro , don't feel discourage, try to understand your wife. Maybe she is tired and too stress after her work . Try to understand her needs. If you initate sex to your wife , your wife say no , don't force her. Be sensitive to her. If she becomes angry after u say want sex from her, just say Dear : Hold her hand and say, I am Sorry , from now on I will be sensitive to you, and won't force you anymore.

I believe from then on relationship between your wife and you will get better. Communicate more with her , and understands each other needs and emotion. Let nature take its course, and then i believe your wife will have sex with with you.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant.
Once a while , you surprise your wife with a romantic dinner at a hotel, buy flowers for her , i believe when romance comes , naturally sex will also follows. Good luck Brothers!

Wow kiko you seemed to be an authority on marriage and trusts. What about the poor ktv girl whom you pay her back months later after she had rendered her services to you . Do you call that trusts ???

[fullofrubbish]

Originally Posted by HCKing

u reading too much mills and boon story books liao ah???

That is because he still living in his own world.

[kue19xx]

Originally Posted by missyrach

wa~ ... i really should show my husb this site man..

he should feel lucky!!!

but if ur wifey give u guys all the sex u want, bj and all, u guys will also eat out wat!!!

excuse being bored with the same thing everyday wat... no meh??

*can never satisfy guys man*

Missy..you may be right...even if sextisfied by wifey some guys still eat out. but maybe not so frequent. maybe your husband already a member of SBF??

I have been thinking again..my situation is not I asked for it and wifey not give. I realised for me, it is we never talk about it before. or we never initiate.

Both of us working and reach home late. Our toddler sleeps with us in the same room. By time our head hit the pillow..we are dead tired. All our time spent on housework and kids on weekends..since kids borned..we hardly have time for outself.

Last night, our kids with parents and we finally alone. My wife wear sexy laced lingerie to sleep..it aroused me..after she knew Im horny..we had a great session last night..I was wondering..did my wife join SBF and read all the thingd in here??

Shoot all my load into her and she ask wat happen to you?? seems like u had turn into a "bull"...anyway I have been a good boy for almost a month already as no extra cash in hand to eat out, as all spent on CNY.

How I wish this can happen more often..maybe this will make me stop thinking of eating out..maybe!!

[couplelim]

Peeps, thought I was alone with this problem.

It's even more frustrating cos my wife is a MILF. Imagine laying beside her every night, admiring her figure in her mostly sexy nightie... But cannot touch. Kiss also cannot. 1001 excuses... Sian. We ML like her period. Once a month.

I also cannot bring myself to eat outside. Love her and the family too much to bring shame.

Thank goodness for this site.

[benxmanda]

bro couplelim,

Take sexy pix of yr MILF wife and share with us lah

[couplelim]

If only she allowed me!

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by kiko

Yes , I believe what brother Samboys said : sleeping in separate room is a beginning of a big problem.

In my Opinion , I feel that as a marry couple, we should learn to give and take . Trust is very important. I remember there is another post by another bro's wife said no sex you will not die right . Bro , don't feel discourage, try to understand your wife. Maybe she is tired and too stress after her work . Try to understand her needs. If you initate sex to your wife , your wife say no , don't force her. Be sensitive to her. If she becomes angry after u say want sex from her, just say Dear : Hold her hand and say, I am Sorry , from now on I will be sensitive to you, and won't force you anymore.

I believe from then on relationship between your wife and you will get better. Communicate more with her , and understands each other needs and emotion. Let nature take its course, and then i believe your wife will have sex with with you.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant.
Once a while , you surprise your wife with a romantic dinner at a hotel, buy flowers for her , i believe when romance comes , naturally sex will also follows. Good luck Brothers!

pal, maybe you are not in a position as bad as most brothers here. some tried a few times, but their other half is just a dead fish

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by missyrach

wa~ ... i really should show my husb this site man..

he should feel lucky!!!

but if ur wifey give u guys all the sex u want, bj and all, u guys will also eat out wat!!!

excuse being bored with the same thing everyday wat... no meh??

*can never satisfy guys man*

to me, if u can dry him, he will not eat out, always have different ways of doing it, sex is intimate and u can also be creative

least enough of quality physical intimacy, chances are much lowered of eating out, the relationship will also be better

i would say man click when there's sex with their other half, woman needs to click before they give sex

men give sex for love
woman give love for sex

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by kue19xx

Missy..you may be right...even if sextisfied by wifey some guys still eat out. but maybe not so frequent. maybe your husband already a member of SBF??

I have been thinking again..my situation is not I asked for it and wifey not give. I realised for me, it is we never talk about it before. or we never initiate.

Both of us working and reach home late. Our toddler sleeps with us in the same room. By time our head hit the pillow..we are dead tired. All our time spent on housework and kids on weekends..since kids borned..we hardly have time for outself.

Last night, our kids with parents and we finally alone. My wife wear sexy laced lingerie to sleep..it aroused me..after she knew Im horny..we had a great session last night..I was wondering..did my wife join SBF and read all the thingd in here??

Shoot all my load into her and she ask wat happen to you?? seems like u had turn into a "bull"...anyway I have been a good boy for almost a month already as no extra cash in hand to eat out, as all spent on CNY.

How I wish this can happen more often..maybe this will make me stop thinking of eating out..maybe!!

this obviously shows kids is in the way and when its with in laws, she has less thing to worry and more relaxed

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by couplelim

If only she allowed me!

well secret spy shot, and censor her face will do

[aksj]

sian. been with my gf for 3 years but after reading this, i'm scared of getting married already.

she always talk about shelf life and wanna get married, i dunno what to tell her. had a narrow escape with my ex already, now need to do it again.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by fullofrubbish

That is because he still living in his own world.

i read he gt multiple clone nicks here - Cunty, Kunti and others. wonder wat he is up to nw.

[Cunt-Sucker]

Just a quick update on my status:

Just had a "great" session with my wife on Feb 14 (ok, in comparison with my greatest fucks in life, this has gotta be of just mediocre standard, but when you've been starved for too long, even a stale bread is gotta be a delicacy! )

Did the usual rituals, flowers, gift, dinner, then went home & gave massage. After that, managed to build up her mood & quickly struck when the iron's still hot! Haha! After the act, continued with some cuddling and small talks with her. Trying to encourage her for more of such actions etc ... Ended up "discovering" that her resentment towards sex is more of her own formated opinion of what sex means to her. God knows since when, she was always of the opinion that sex is dirty, both male & female genitals are disgusting etc etc ... BUT she did it with me even prior to our marriage as she knew that SEX IS A POWERFUL WEAPON TO KEEP ME WITH HER !!! & damn! Was she so right! I was initially so damn attracted to her 'cos I thought I had such incredible sex-connection with her! But all the while, she was using it as a bait to trap me for life !!!

In any case, after I "confessed" to her about my constant needs and that if she is always so adamant in giving in to my needs, I may have no choice but to "da bao" outside, but I seriously don't wanna do such things to jeopardize our marriage, guess what she said to me? She kept silent for about 5 minutes and said the following to me: " Sometimes, you do not have to be so frank with me. Just make sure you're taking all necessary precautions, AND DO NOT LET ME FIND OUT ANYTHING .... " I was like: "WTF !!! My CO ACTUALLY GIVES ME THE PERMISSION TO EAT OUT !!! I only need to take care & don't let her find out!" Waliao! What kind of answer is this !!! But of course I pretended that I will not do such things lah & instead tried to sweet talk her a bit more ... but inside my heart, I was telling her: OK lor! Since u know ur own problem & now u also "officially" give me permission to eat out, there goes my past guilty feelings!

But seriously, I don't think I'd want to eat out so much. Rather, I want to share with all the suffering brothers here this point: perhaps, we should try finding opportunities to make our wives opening up to us with their fears and concerns, and we may need to be very very patient to induce their change of mindsets before we can score with them again huh? Having read through all the posts by the brothers here, I am confident to say that, though most of the brothers are quite pissed off with their wives depriving them of sex, but deep down their hearts, the brothers are still truly in love with their wives, and I'm sure they'll be willing to do whatever possible to re-ignite the love & passion with their wives. So brothers out there, don't give up, and as long as you're still in love with your wives, I'm sure you'll find it worthwhile to persevere through the journey! As for me? I'll try to devote more time to my CO despite her approval (ok ok lah! Once in a while I may still Da Bao if I still can't convince her) to slowly change her mindset on sex, and hopefully, I don't have to wait too long to re-ignite her desire to truly make passionate love with me again!

All the best to all brothers here, & Happy CNY !!!