The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by monster.cookie

Hehe..bro, for me if i fall asleep beside her without making love maens the love is waning....

Ohhh and ouch....fancy you at the receiving end.....might be one hell of a ride. Tresure what you have now.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Ya man, stupid me not to know that your true intention is to be a pii chai stay at home and let your wife go out work in MP to feed you. No wonder you keep clamouring for the men's charter just in case one day your wife kick you out.

SC

LOL, there u go w your hallucination again. i didnt even say anything about eating soft rice, if i did, i'd have already followed your footsteps in the "buzzing" operations a long long time back.

men's charter? LOL... well, in a society where we're talking about gender equality, seems pretty fair i suppose. and i'm sure there're many around who'd 2nd the idea.

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this thread lasts so long man.. good to see so many experiences here!

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL, there u go w your hallucination again. i didnt even say anything about eating soft rice, if i did, i'd have already followed your footsteps in the "buzzing" operations a long long time back.

men's charter? LOL... well, in a society where we're talking about gender equality, seems pretty fair i suppose. and i'm sure there're many around who'd 2nd the idea.

Why not you go Saudi Arabia. There is no women's charter there. You can suka suka divorce multiple times as many as you wish there. Thailand also don;t have. You can also go there and divorce as many times as you wish. This is Singapore. Love it, like it, don't like it, or you don't love it. If you want to stay here, you listen. You don't like it, you think there is better place out there to marry the girl and throw her off or divorce her easily without paying her a single cent, go ahead there.

Stay here in Singapore, kaopeh so many things? I really pity your future wife. If you ever divorce her, and she has to depend on you, then she have to see your fuck face to get that paltry alimony that if you are ever gonna give her.


And you are the only one before marriage keep talking about divorce. Why not you start talking about buying a coffin and preparing for your funeral? Haven't married talk about divorce. You must have really forecasted how your life would turn into.

SC

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

.......... And you are the only one before marriage keep talking about divorce. Why not you start talking about buying a coffin and preparing for your funeral? Haven't married talk about divorce. You must have really forecasted how your life would turn into. SC

LOL, u see the difference between us now? given the stats of whats happening today, i dont see anything wrong in being prepared for the worst.

1. ppl get a job hoping to establish a career, but i'm sure are mindful to set aside reserves, in any case of retrenchment/ premature termination.
2. ppl get into a marriage hoping for eternal bliss, but i'm sure are mindful to set aside reserves, in any case of divorce/ premature death/ disability/ terminal illnesses of either spouse.
3. ppl buy insurance not bcos they're hoping to die tomorrow, but as a preventive measure of unforeseen circumstances as well.

nobody knows wat the future holds, watever it is... i'm just keeping my observations, and learning from other's regardless if its mishap/ misadventure/ misfortune, keeping mindful of the blindspots that may have been overlooked.

if this is not making any sense to u... it'd never make any sense to u for as long as u shall live.

and when the least expected happens, kena caught flat footed, and instead of doing self reflection on wat went wrong? its quite expected wat'll come out from you....

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL, u see the difference between us now? given the stats of whats happening today, i dont see anything wrong in being prepared for the worst.

nobody knows wat the future holds, watever it is... i'm just keeping my observations, and learning from other's regardless if its mishap/ misadventure/ misfortune, keeping mindful of the blindspots that may have been overlooked.....

Eh, don't eat fishball, because you might get choked to death.
Don't cross the road, because you might get knocked by a car.
Don't come out of your house, because you might get struck by lightning.
Don't walk under trees in case your head kenna hit by bird shit and you die from bird flu.

So in order to prevent all these from happening, any precautions boh?

Blindspots? So you kaopeh because of all these blind spots Learn from people's success lah, not learn from people's failure.

Will you want to learn from the Rich on how they become rich or want to learn from the Bankrupt on why they become bankrupt, so that you wouldn't become bankrupt?
Idiot read also know how to answer.

SC

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

And you are the only one before marriage keep talking about divorce. Why not you start talking about buying a coffin and preparing for your funeral? Haven't married talk about divorce. You must have really forecasted how your life would turn into.

SC

this kind of people will never become an entrepreneur or start a business. Havent start anything thinks about failure liao.

[JWNY]

"The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is "What does a woman want?" - Sigmund Freud

hey...we know most of the time what men want right?

JWNY

[Red_Tirak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Why not you go Saudi Arabia. There is no women's charter there.

Saudi Arabia women are treated worse than dogs....KNN rape victims also will kena jailed & whip.....what an upside down world

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Eh, don't eat fishball, because you might get choked to death.
Don't cross the road, because you might get knocked by a car.
Don't come out of your house, because you might get struck by lightning.
Don't walk under trees in case your head kenna hit by bird shit and you die from bird flu.

LOL... in that case, there's no meaning in life altogether. everything has its cause n effects, so before even putting food in the mouth, stepping out of the house or crossing the road... 1 has to be mindful of the consequences.

scared to choke on fishball, then chew when u eat (nobody ask u to swallow it whole)
scared cross road get knocked down, then check both directions while crossing, use a pedestrian crossing to minimize the risks (nobody ask u to cross blindly)
scared to be struck by lightning when going out, then check weather forcast & use sheltered paths (nobody ask u to be gungho walk in the open)
scare kena bird shit under the tree (nobody ask u to stand under the tree)

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Blindspots? So you kaopeh because of all these blind spots Learn from people's success lah, not learn from people's failure.

Will you want to learn from the Rich on how they become rich or want to learn from the Bankrupt on why they become bankrupt, so that you wouldn't become bankrupt?
Idiot read also know how to answer. SC

LOL... learn from the rich, is 1 thing, but doesnt mean that when u get rich, u wont err like those who've gone bankrupt. if really must learn, then learn from both. i really wonder wat kind of idiot will buy your 1-sided analogy.

[Yomun aka Vin]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL... in that case, there's no meaning in life altogether. everything has its cause n effects, so before even putting food in the mouth, stepping out of the house or crossing the road... 1 has to be mindful of the consequences.

scared to choke on fishball, then chew when u eat (nobody ask u to swallow it whole)
scared cross road get knocked down, then check both directions while crossing, use a pedestrian crossing to minimize the risks (nobody ask u to cross blindly)
scared to be struck by lightning when going out, then check weather forcast & use sheltered paths (nobody ask u to be gungho walk in the open)
scare kena bird shit under the tree (nobody ask u to stand under the tree)

If you are afraid that you will be disadvantage by the women's charter, better dont get married in singapore or else marry somewhere else. (sounds familiar?) dont have to keep bitching about it here saying it's not fair to the men. (no one asked u to get married here.)

once again, you never fail to hit yourself with your own dick. *lol*

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL... in that case, there's no meaning in life altogether. everything has its cause n effects, so before even putting food in the mouth, stepping out of the house or crossing the road... 1 has to be mindful of the consequences.

scared to choke on fishball, then chew when u eat (nobody ask u to swallow it whole)
scared cross road get knocked down, then check both directions while crossing, use a pedestrian crossing to minimize the risks (nobody ask u to cross blindly)
scared to be struck by lightning when going out, then check weather forcast & use sheltered paths (nobody ask u to be gungho walk in the open)
scare kena bird shit under the tree (nobody ask u to stand under the tree)

eh I think you can do better than that. because

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

given the stats of whats happening today, i dont see anything wrong in being prepared for the worst.

you should prepare for the worst. that is why siamcutey gave you those suggestions.

remember, the key point here is "prepare for the worst" (not take precautions). so if you afraid of getting aids or std, just stay celibate or masturbate (prepare for the worst). which is what you should do, not wear a condom or have safe sex (take precautions)

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Yomun aka Vin

If you are afraid that you will be disadvantage by the women's charter, better dont get married in singapore or else marry somewhere else. (sounds familiar?) dont have to keep bitching about it here saying it's not fair to the men. (no one asked u to get married here.)

once again, you never fail to hit yourself with your own dick. *lol*

LOL... i already said there's alternatives to the woman's charter liao leh... go back a few pages n read lah... i said no need to play by the "rules of the game". i also suggested alternatives of marrying elsewhere, or get lawyer to draft pre-nuptial... etc

u never read, u come her n echo like a parrot, waste bandwidth... now who's the 1 slapping himself with his own dick... LOL...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Cyberspace Nerd

....... remember, the key point here is "prepare for the worst" (not take precautions). so if you afraid of getting aids or std, just stay celibate or masturbate (prepare for the worst). which is what you should do, not wear a condom or have safe sex (take precautions)

LOL... being prepared for the worst is a process, and there's means n ways for precautions & preamptive measures.

eg: u got urge (knowing at the back of your mind, STD can be transmitted via sex), so u go for bonk. during the course of it, u used the condom as preventive measure. afterwhich, u go for check up.
1. clear, no traces of STD - congratulate yourself
2. sorry, kena STD - can't blame anybody, cos u already took preventive measures

i think your piece of advice is more apt for the fella who has issues with thai women. he should abstain himself from all thai women, since he persistantly thinks them all to be after his pockets.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL... in that case, there's no meaning in life altogether. everything has its cause n effects, so before even putting food in the mouth, stepping out of the house or crossing the road... 1 has to be mindful of the consequences.

LOL... learn from the rich, is 1 thing, but doesnt mean that when u get rich, u wont err like those who've gone bankrupt. if really must learn, then learn from both. i really wonder wat kind of idiot will buy your 1-sided analogy.

You are the one who started to talk about thinking for the worst. Marriage is such a happy thing, you start to talk about the girl going for your assets in the event of divorce. If so chum for you, you should go find a prostitute better than getting a girl to marry you lah. Why think about marriage when in your head is all the divorce and alimony issues.

Have you ever asked your dad when he got married, he ever thought of the day when he will divorce your mum and think of how much alimony to pay your mum? You see how your father answer you lah.

The way you talk, hahaha, please continue to peng your prata.

SC