Getting laid the hard way?

[v4lkyr3]

Apparently there are some samsters here that NEVER got laid at all the hard way. I am writing this thread not to belittle those that get laid with money, NO~ In truth I believe just paying for sex is less troublesome, less time consuming and more efficient than getting laid the hard way.

I am writing this threads to tell samsters that thinks they are a big loser as they can only depends on money not to be disappointed. Getting laid the hard way requires plenty of preps and luck onto play.

Imagine you are average looking guy with average money. There is almost no way in hell you can get laid the hard way. When all being said charm, personality, and attitude makes difference, it is when you combine with good looks and deep looking pocket at least.

In my personal experience, chatting up a lady through the night in a bar is something I can waltz in in seconds, ignoring the failure rate of course (which is of course always exist). Getting them laid down the bed however is ridiculously tough. You can get lucky, the lady just too drunk to care whoever she is going to sleep with, or just so horny and just grab the first guy with the gut to walk to her first. Yeah, there are simply those stuff.

What recently happenned to me also happenned by pure luck. I got lucky with Bar escort lady. For those that misinterpreted the meaning of escort lady, its just ladies you paid for having drink with you. To tell the truth, I was at first not interested as I was not looking for company. The promoter however was very insistent shoving the lady to me. I gave in when the lady actually whispered to my ear some lewd stuff and I thought maybe not bad to have someone to talk some lewd stuff through the drinks for a bit.

What unexpected later was her offering herself to me. In total, I paid less than 100 bucks for more than three hour worth of fun (including drinks). I got her phone number to boot for a chat up or more if she feels like it (she said she likes me, oh well).

Though the story did not happen in Singapore, you can bring those Escort ladies to a hotel for a flat fee of 200 bucks excluding drinks and hotel fee etc.

Yeah, so I am a winner. I got a model looking lady to bonk, I got her number for the next time and I save my bucks for next bonk.

Like I said again, just luck on that one. Anybody can get laid the hard way. Just try long enough and plenty of times enough. You will eventually hit it at least once. Question that should be asked is whether it is worth it?

Zap me or reward me, up to you. This is however the bare truth. Enjoy.

[unsung80]

I know where u getting, just a fact..

[v4lkyr3]

wah~ meanie with sense of irony LOL~
True ei. I get the fact that says this is boring stuff you already know

/cry

[lhhuy1]

I don't think you are a winner yet, buddy. You started off good with your mighty words, but then you got "shoved" with an escort lady was just too easy and boring. She was an escort lady, just for "having drinks", made it all too easy for you or even for anybody to get her to bed as she was probably used to it after "having drinks".

Try chatting up a total stranger and getting them to bed in one night, then that story might be more interesting.

[v4lkyr3]

well, in all I would say that you are right. Though she claimed that she doesnt do free many times, lets pretend thats her 'after service'.

Sadly in all honestly I never got to sleep with strangers though I chat any strangers very easy in bars. But well, cant help it. Most of the time my reason to chat up strangers is not to get into their pants, but to have drinking companion to talk with while enjoying the drink.

Will share if I ever somehow got such experience. Thanks for mentioning it. You are sort of dead on. Indeed it sounds rather boring LOL.

Wish I remembered to took her picture to show that she was really worth the time spent.

[orionix]

i'm actually surprised not many bros "got laid the hard way".

the problem is, the ladies can smell desperation from a mile away, and just a small tip, if they are not comfortable with you, there's no way in hell you're gonna get them in bed with you even though you were able to chat them up.

it's how you play the game, and no, even though you have good looks and money, you're still going home alone if you dont play your cards right.

and you didnt really win, since you paid for it.

[sbduckz]

haha.. maybe getting married to get laid the hard way is the best option .. free bonk for life.. but only lady to bonk lah haha

[Johnston]

Thats the cold hard truth. Money is the great equaliser. You could cook a good meal or make a vase but why bother when you can just pay for it.
Likewise the emotional/time/money spent on getting laid the hard way is something that is very taxing to say the least.

Dont you all remember the days of coaxing the young (14 - 17) girls with sms them hourly, call daily, and meet weekly? and if u dont call or msg due to work, you is fucked because they will send "You dont luv me animore issit? fine break laH?""

and so on, and so on. When you get to older age, u really dont have time for these.

[v4lkyr3]

Bro Johnston obviously never felt love..... LIKE ME~

Yeah. I agree with what he said. The point of this thread starting has indeed becomes blurry. Its not to boast that I can do it. Its to say anyone can do it if they try.. and got lucky.

Personal honest opinion. I would skip all the headache and just go straight for the fun like Bro Johnston. But then, there are certain times you feel that you are melancholic and just for a couple hours want to believe what it is to be a romantic, well, I got lucky then. End of story.

Thanks for mentioning it bro John

Its sort of bugging the hell out of me thinking I am the only person I know that is someone that dont believe in romance LUL~.

Cheers for the post.

[phallusman]

Well, it''s a matter of different strokes for different folks la.

There are those who think that it is all worth the effort to make that effort to get it and feel the personal triumph in achieving the target. Making that guy a winner. And some of these gals are just playing hard to get la.

There are those who spend their time making money, concentrating in their business and career. This crazy little thing called sex is just a small part of their life. Just to release from time to time, just to test fire the weapon regularly to release toxins and clear arms and have some comfort after all the hard work.

Money and time and effort spend - likely not to differ that much la.

[scunt]

The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money costs less."
Brendan Francis

[Johnston]

The title said it all. The HARD way.
You could do anything the HARD way like going up to your flat/condo by climbing the stair or maybe climbing up like mountaineer.

Take it from me, when u reach a certain age, you dont want to go to the trouble of wooing. Thats just for us ordinary people.

Likewise there is a market for social escort/high class FL because the richer people cannot afford the time/effort/being caught wooing other girls. Resulting in a market for high money exchange for their company, house call, among other things.

[LianLover]

very nice thread....very insightful...and very objective arguments....

heres my share of it...

1) to the TS...as mentioned by another bro....touche

"I don't think you are a winner yet, buddy. You started off good with your mighty words, but then you got "shoved" with an escort lady was just too easy and boring. She was an escort lady, just for "having drinks", made it all too easy for you or even for anybody to get her to bed as she was probably used to it after "having drinks".

Try chatting up a total stranger and getting them to bed in one night, then that story might be more interesting. "

2) to Johnston....yes money may offer a simple solution to many of life's gratifications...however where money is placed in each persons viewpt is different...and hence the defination of HARD deviates again....

if it takes me 2 days of manual labour in the sun to earn $100 to partake in paid sex vs 1 night of chatting up girls in the clubs to get the same result (lets also assume that i ooze with charisma lol) which will be considered the HARDER way?

yet on the other hand to the majority where paying is considered the easier solution...i believe in another element that keeps them going in this context...."the thrill of the hunt"...

yes as we all grow older we may choose the easier alternative....yet there are "artists" amongst us who believe in building their patio from scratch, painting a landscape purely for decorating their home, baking a cake to share with friends etc...

if u are just concerned witht the end result...everyone will find the easiest route

on a seperate note....loved ur posting....."and if u dont call or msg due to work, you IS fucked because they will send "You dont luv me animore issit? fine break laH".....how apt.....lol.....great memories...

[Johnston]

Originally Posted by LianLover

very nice thread....very insightful...and very objective arguments....

heres my share of it...

Try chatting up a total stranger and getting them to bed in one night, then that story might be more interesting. "

2) money may offer a simple solution to many of life's gratifications...however where money is placed in each persons viewpt is different.......

?yet on the other hand to the majority where paying is considered the easier solution...i believe in another element that keeps them going in this context...."the thrill of the hunt"...

on a seperate note....loved ur posting....."and if u dont call or msg due to work, you IS fucked because they will send "You dont luv me animore issit? fine break laH".....how apt.....lol.....great memories...

Money is the great equaliser. Cant hack it in the clubs? Pay for it.
As it is, those with a lot of money have the time and inclination to do things by hand, and those without are primarily concerned about getting it.

If i *CAN* get it for free in the clubs and such, why should i pay? However the art of getting it for free isn't easy and some may spend a life training/improving oneself and still not succeed.

Its the same argument with drugs/alcohol/tobacco. We KNOW they are bad for us. But you ingest the substance and you get the result.
Rather than working your ass off trying to worm yourself into a woman's heart and spending loads of time to bonk her, you pay for a FL/WL and you get your result which is sextifaction.

I concur with you that chatting up a total stranger from step zero is far more difficult than chatting up a hostess/stripper/shot girl. It must be frankly admitted that such ladies are propositioned daily and they are likely to be mentally predisposed to getting bonked.

Lastly, the classic "dun love me anymore" sms still survives but it justs gets upgraded....

[Lumix]

Well interesting comments , keep them coming i would love to see them