Relationship turns sour with a massage gal

[BigNose]

hi bros, as some may had read what i wrote at certain spa, thinking i was the boss but actually i had a complicated relationship with one of the massage gals.

well it all began a month plus ago when my body aches because my last job was a storeman ,,, then read one spa is a decent place to be and no hank panky there known, so went for a try., all prc.

one the first visit, i was served by this not so pretty gal, YU XIAO YUN, after the massage, which i enjoy, i kinda of taken a liking to her.

thinking of her for the next few days, then a week later, cant tahan liao.
mus see her ... there she enter the room, and we hug like no tomorrow, there i told her how i feel abt her and was the start ...

following late nights calls and i will go to her spa and buy her food, massage by her then go chit-chat. really loved her.

april came, and i was forced to resign, whereas out of work, i got more time to sms her and meet her after her work if not during the massage time.
usually got to wait for her to finish work, and that will be past midnight often, chat liao, see her finish all the food i bought for her to eat, delighted but sad to leave, took a $25 cab home. this occurs at least twice a week.
on the contary, i would also buy extras to treat her colleagues, therefore know all the 'stay-in' gals quite well.

such things went on further ... xiaoyun is somehow like a chill padi whom quite open gal. as i thought we were a couple, i would wish to be love by her too by kissing her ... gana rejected!

she said love is not abt affection etc etc, dun where she got the idea from, maybe from her past relationship. she wans to enjoys the love but no sex nor kisses ... werid, but i loved her so much, stupid me i lan lan carried on.

then few days back, she suddenly disappeared !!! off day ! which i wasnt inform and tried calling her, but got scoldings by her.

worried abt any thing happen to her, since i cant sleep anymore, i rush down to her workplace ,.,,, and was embrassed when her fellow colleagues asked me " xiao yun is off today, how come u are here ? u dun know meh? "

i waited till nearly midnight, and there she is ... she apparently still angry over some matters, i tried to coax her and tell her how worried am i but got scolded by her, saying things like who am i to her and why shld she reports her movement to me and she went out with a fellow country person, but dun wish to tell me if its a male or female, etc.

pissed off, and sad, i left ..... on the way, happened to met 2 of her colleagues and i ask if i can join them for a meal. the gals are Nan Nan and a new gal Jiao Jiao.

reached bugis after midnight, we opt for steamboat, chating gossiping and try to console the gals why singapore is like that, weather is hot and stuffs, and consoling me that i had jus had a big quarrel with xiaoyun thus ending of everything.

suddenly, halfway the meals, xiaoyun and her buddy hai yen (aunite with specs), pass by us and giggled and left without saying anything.

the next 2 days later, nan nan called me and tell me that xiao yun and buddies has been saying nasty things to both of them for the last 2 days because i had a meal with them. things like why nan nan picked up a man (me) whom she (xiaoyun) dun wan .... etc gals kind of accusations.

then i was upset that because of a simple meal, caused so many problems for the 2 gals, i was still hoping a attachment with xiaoyun, [ u cant say bye bye to someone whom u really love that easily, takes time]. so i call xiaoyun and kept telling her that, that was jus a meal, nothing else, and i still hold a torch towards her.

Last night, we planned to go to zouk as she likes dancing and i decided to take her there, hoping things will be the same again without comments on what had happened the last few days.

i bought macs and walk to her work place like many nights before, upon reaching there, she ironically started to sneer at me and begin to pickup quarrels, i was pissed. i left ... went downstairs for a smoke, then went up again to settle the stuffs once and for all.

she still sits there commanding me this and that, asscuse me of having relationship with nan nan .... i am angried! i started to rise my voice and scolded her for being such a nasty person and etc etc, telling her to go die!

then, piss off, i went Geyland for a fj then went home.

late afternoon, while sleeping, tired from last night bonk, nan nan called me and told me that she had a fight with xiao yun and her face is temporarily scarred and marks on her breasts ..... i ggigled [ thinking of 2 women fight indirectly because of me]

nan nan plea to me that i mus come down to the spa and explain to both xiao yun and their boss. as a friend to me, need my help i be there. she wanted to make a police report but dun know how, so got me then better as at least i know where's the police station is and etc.
and morever nan nan was beaten up partially by my fault. so i changed and rush down.

when i reached there, more quarrels arrived too, indeed nan nan face has lots of blood marks and i ask if she wanted to make a police report and she say no ... funny.

then xiaoyun was further pissed that upon a call from nan nan, i came.

what was xiaoyun thinking? me and her still a couple after she pissed me so many times? siao.

later i call jiao jiao to see how things there, apparently she got into the fight too! wow!

now, not sure yet, but at least 3 or more gals fought because directly or indirectly of me .....

:O !!!!!!!


key word of the day, dun me like me so stuipd to fall in love with a prc massage gal......

shall learn more from them and report here..... :+

[sammyboyfor]

You're in a relationship with a WHORE??

[BigNose]

yup!

wasnt i foolish but .... i am foolish, i deserve it.

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You're in a relationship with a WHORE??

What's wrong with having relationships with whores?
I have many relationships with whores too.... sexual and business relationships

[simple2kee]

bro BigNose, what's the moral of the story?

[justl00king]

Bro BigNose,

These WL/FL are here for the money..period.

When they meet someone like you who shows a fancy to them, they will just play along so you can take care of them either in $ or other ways.

I strongly suggest you try to control your feelings for her, or else very soon you will be in deep shit!

[JoySeeker]

Originally Posted by simple2kee

bro BigNose, what's the moral of the story?

i think he is asking for comments

[Panamera]

Bro Bignose, forget about this relationship or whatever memories associated with it, you just got laid off, go find a job and stable yourselves 1st. Got money, got honey, your painful memories will become happy memories.
Good luck!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

If u read your own post thoroughly, you can already see the SIGNs of her telling u she isnt yours but u still say couple this couple that!
The moral of the sorty here is not about PRC gals, its about you THINKING you're in love wif a massage gal who clearly doent tink so at all!!!!!!!!!!!
So, the moral of this story, which in nottin new in this section of the forum is, WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO TO KC MYSELF!

Bros, pls advise with direction, no consoling is really required.
This person, whom i have no grudges wif, is building castles in the air and living in LaLa land.......
Dude, you gotta get a life before you dwell into the domains of whores.......else you'll be more screwed up than u ever tot.
Oh, and when a gal, WL or not, if off & doesnt even tell you, it is absolutely obvious that YOU'RE a NOBODY to her liao.
So, who's the prob here?
The PRC or the TS?

[mike1304k]

Bro TS,

I agree wif Bro DYBJ's comments. I have considered your comments very carefully and will say it carefully so as not to seem like I am stabbing a man when he is down.... You met the lady twice... and you felt something for her... You hugged and kissed her and that felt like love... But as in many other threads, you lost your head... How can you love someone after seeing her twice? It may be love at first sight, but then you should have used your other head a bit more.

You are lucky she did not KC you deep deep and not to a point where you could not dig yourself out. Though she may have been cold and not want sex, how do you know that she was yours? Her actions and all does not seem like she loved you. And you should thank your lucky stars she did not use that as another weapon to dig into you.

Perhaps she disappeared because she felt that you were becoming over pressuring and needed some space... but you hung around and the other girls saw that you were vulnerable... So they were also starting to sharpen their knives.... You were really like a lost lamb asking a hungry wolf for help and directions.... You should not even be happy that 3 girls were fighting for you because it was most probably who had rights to carve you up.... but maybe because you were out of a job and that was why nothing to carve.

Bro.... please learn from this lesson.. I will not even call it an experience because you have yet to learn from it.... They played their cards wrong and you were lucky to survive! And you did not lose tonnes of money... But I think that the thrust behind your post is that you are sad that nothing happened during your tryst with the girl.... But you better thank your lucky stars and all the other stars you can think of that nothing did happen.... Or you would most probably not be here whining about it...

Jus my personal read on this... If there are any flamers and zappers.. pls be brave enough to leave nick...

[NewandLost]

bro, listen to the seniors on the board. they got war stories and have been in the abyss. step back and see reality. you were falling for a gal that massages dicks for money and she was kind enough not to strip you of your financial assets. be thankful man. please live a normal life and dont fall into these traps. lots of nice chicks around but you choose the danger zone. its not smart.

[Spencer]

Bro BigNose, I think you are asking for trouble from the very beginning...good luck...

[Absolute]

This is aptly termed the super chee hong syndrome. Don't feel bad. Many Singapore men are like that too. But they refuse to admit it and will proudly continue their hongster way. But a hongster need not be a cheongster. He exists in both the commercial sex (such as Tuinas and massage parlours) and non-commercial sex platforms (such as in schools, churches, workplace, etc).

Happy hongstering, Mr Super Chee Hong.

[cunt_search]

simple
juzt go visit other joints
certain PRCs juzt 2 muc, ask dis ask that n no return
tin their lip make of gold or cunt make of platinum?
i find KC money mo den just straightforward screw;
so nex time jus screw n the response is oso better
we dun owe them anythin!

[meimeiwoyao]

Actually, not only spore men only. Alot of men and women liked to b kc. So the stronger will b able escape fr it. And the weaker 1 will always b kc loh.