Athenawishes: to noe more abt "Seduction & Attraction"..

[Athenawishes]

Hi All,

i am new to this forum. have decided to start a thread.
simple introduction about myself.
i am a 20 yr old gal.. who knows abit abt sex..

have strict conservative family background so wasnt exposed to these things until recently.. knew some basic terms but wanted to more..
have secretly view "parts" of porns not being caught & find that guys get aroused to certain expectation of gals physically esp.

hope to learn more here.. like how to dress attractively or even to seduce a guy.. without being too initiative.. as i tend to be quite shy.. =X

hope to also hear abt wad ur gals did to u to make u hav the "urge"..
or even how gals~~ wear/dress themselves as well..
sorry if i seemed too "act innocent/pure".. pls dun flame me..
i am still learning..

Thanks alot =)
hope to see posts from you soon..

[Cheonging101]

Well, little sis...

For one thing, color coordination is very important. For instance, purple & dark green is a no-no. Basically, some fashion sense would be enough for the guys not to turn their heads away from the awful clashing colors.

Next is accentuation. Which part of your body do you like best?

1) Long legs? Then slip on those mini-skirts. A pair of boots to play hide-&-seek or net stockings to have that titillating effect would make guys look a little longer than needed. When that happens, we usually start to fantasise.

2) Perky butt? A pair of tight jeans or denim shorts would do the trick. When you're wearing that, never ever have any other pieces of clothing to cover your butt: meaning, baby-tees (or tuck in your regular length shirt) and lose that cardigan or windbreaker. Jackets reaching your waist are still acceptable.

3) Ample bosom? V-necks or deep plunge. Wearing a necklace that reaches your cleavage also helps to draw attention.

4) Firm abs? Bare those midriff of yours with a tight tee and a pair of low cut pants.

5) Graceful neck? Tie or clip up your hair.

6) Beautiful eyes? Wear contacts. You could even get those snazzy ones that would bring out your eyes even more.

7) Flawless complexion? Don't wear specs and have a hairstyle that does not cover your face.

8) Pretty button nose? Wear colorful specs. It would draw people's attention to it.

9) Luscious flowing hair? Let it cascade around you. Have fun with it. Experiment (without cutting and perming) all kinds of hairstyles to find the one that suits you the most.

In the event whereby you have more than 1 of the above and the advice clashes, the earlier advice takes precedence.

If you have all the above, you don't need to follow any advice. You'd look great without clothes.

Next is fragrances. I can't count the no. of times my head will turn on its own accord after taking in a whiff of sweet scent from a passing hottie. You can get those bottled ones like Chanel, Christian Dior, Guess and what-nots but nothing beats customisation. Plus you save a bundle.

I would suggest mixing your own perfume. A few shops in Arab Street have such products & services.

1) Floral: Made up mostly of flowers like lilies, roses, lavenders, tulips. This projects an air of innocence if that's the type of girl you WANT people to think you are.

2) Musky: Made from secretion from animal glands like whales, deers and certain feline & canine species. This aroma is strong and makes you smell wild and ready for sex.

3) Woody: Made from sandalwood, rosewood, cherry wood and many other types of scented timbers. This should only be used if you want to appear classy and elegant. It's definitely a more mature fragrance.

4) Citrus: Made from fruits like cherries, lemons, oranges and others. It's a scent to make you smell fun-loving and energetic.

Finally, make-up. Depending on the type of guys you want to hook up, you should have an idea of how you want to look like. That's the magic of make-up. Also a bane for guys (just like push-up bras).

All looks should start with a basic foundation to cover all blemishes first.

1) Sweet Schoolgirl Look (Target: Nerds, perverts who want to defile innocence)- Just use a light (no red or dark) colored lipstick, some very faint blushing and a little mascara to make your eyes look big and innocent.

2) Slutty Schoolgirl Look (Target: Bad boys, Dirty old men)- Use pink or red colored lipstick, don't scrimp on the blusher. Use fake eyelashes instead of mascara and use some eyeliners to make your eyes look mysterious. For eyeshadows, some cool colors (green, blue & etc.) would be fine. Add a dash of glittery powder to turn head.

3) Librarian Look (Target: Nice guys, playboys who love challenges)- Use dark lipstick, low blushing. Use your mascara and eyeliners to obtain 'bedroom eyes' effect.

4) Naughty OL Look (Target: Matured guys, closet sex maniacs)- Use red lipstick, moderate blushing. Have some warm colored eyeshadows to make you look very approachable and curl your eyelashes really long with mascara so that you could bat your eyelids.

5) Fun-in-Sun Look (Target: Fitness freaks, beach bums)- Use pink lipstick and lip gloss, a little more blushing to give you that healthy glow. Use mascara only. If possible, use a darker shade of foundation to give you that tanned look.

6) Party Vamp Look (Target: Party animals, one-night-stands)- Use red colored lipstick and heavy blusher so that you don't disappear into the darkness of a pub. Use fake eyelashes; the funky type, and use just enough eyeliner to bring out your eyes. Go crazy with your eyeshadows but not too crazy to the point where people think that you ARE crazy. Of course, glittery powder to finish the touch.

Okay, this is just a very small example. There are still many variations on each type and there may be some categories that I forgot. But should be enough for you to get started. Anymore questions can PM me.

[rh8611]

wah, bro Cheonging101 really put in so much effort to reply this girl..

nice piece of information. Great job!

[ken ken]

Bro,Cheonging101 since u wrote so much maybe tell TS try u as Guinea pig
like that she learn faster.

[goodielecks]

Dress in a manner that you feel comfortable in, eg. don't show too much cleavage if you feel uneasy etc. You're 20 so I guess you feel like you're stuck in between? Don't try to grow up in a hurry and dress years beyond your age unless work requires you to. Contrary, showing skin isn't always the best way to attract. Remember, less isn't always more.

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by goodielecks

Dress in a manner that you feel comfortable in, eg. don't show too much cleavage if you feel uneasy etc. You're 20 so I guess you feel like you're stuck in between? Don't try to grow up in a hurry and dress years beyond your age unless work requires you to. Contrary, showing skin isn't always the best way to attract. Remember, less isn't always more.

Bro, does that apply to the amount of skin shown or the amount fo fabric used? I always forget.

[pewpew]

Write so much also useless...

Girl, post a pic of yourself, than we will dress u up...

[Athenawishes]

hmmm thanks all for helping & the guidelines..

hmmm i m kinda meaty..
now trying to slim down..
hope i can achieve back my poly-time figure..
which is 168-60.. =)

when i achieve that .. guess i will look kinda nice..
right bros.. hehe..
perhaps i am similar to nat's size.. frm her pics i see in her thread.. =(

also.. something to add..
i dun hav flawless skin.. sad..
my back is full of scars cus i tend to scratch them when i was much younger..
i regret wad i did.. now even if i hav bog boobs & fair skin..
i cant wear spag/sleeveless/halter-neck clothes.. sobbs..

does tat means when the guy see my back he will get turn off?? (T.T)

[Athenawishes]

Originally Posted by goodielecks

Dress in a manner that you feel comfortable in, eg. don't show too much cleavage if you feel uneasy etc. You're 20 so I guess you feel like you're stuck in between? Don't try to grow up in a hurry and dress years beyond your age unless work requires you to. Contrary, showing skin isn't always the best way to attract. Remember, less isn't always more.

goodie~~ hehe seems like u r really a goodie boy.. >.<
thanks for your piece of advice..

hmmm usually i dress to cover those unsightly parts of mine..
err i agree not to show too much cleav.. its like FOC to all..
anyway my parents also dun allow me to dress to "sexily".. keke

hmmm i m 20 in my IC.. but i look more than tat personally..
mayb because i am bigger in size.. =(
heard ppl mention before: big is beautiful..
but dun think BIG at the WRONG places is beautiful.. =X

[Oralcraz]

Different man has different liking with regard to being "seduced and attracted" by a lady. For myself, I get seduced and attracted by a lady fitting the profile below :
1) Plain without make-up but with a sweet smile (no pimple).
2) Average physical body make-up with a little fleshy (don't like too skinny).
Boob size B with very fair complexion.
3) Most important, nice proportion legs.
4) Dress : Fitting V-collar single piece mini-skirt dress.
5) Hair : No preference as long as appear matching.
Honestly, if you really want to seduce a guy without being too open and want to behave like more discreet, I have a suggestion. If the guy is driving and if he open the car door for u and if are in mini, enter the car seat and sort of expose yr "colour" to him (am sure u know what I mean). He sure get an immediate "hard On". Good luck.

[Athenawishes]

Originally Posted by Oralcraz

Different man has different liking with regard to being "seduced and attracted" by a lady. For myself, I get seduced and attracted by a lady fitting the profile below :
1) Plain without make-up but with a sweet smile (no pimple).
2) Average physical body make-up with a little fleshy (don't like too skinny).
Boob size B with very fair complexion.
3) Most important, nice proportion legs.
4) Dress : Fitting V-collar single piece mini-skirt dress.
5) Hair : No preference as long as appear matching.
Honestly, if you really want to seduce a guy without being too open and want to behave like more discreet, I have a suggestion. If the guy is driving and if he open the car door for u and if are in mini, enter the car seat and sort of expose yr "colour" to him (am sure u know what I mean). He sure get an immediate "hard On". Good luck.

hi OC,
thanks for the feedback..
1) i dun make up to wrk =) no pimples but.. hmmm those "pores" frm far cant notice la.. (failed)
2) my body is OVER-fleshy (failed)
3) legs.. kinda carrot - wear levi jeans is L-32 (considered pass?
4) dress.. wears denium OP skirts.. plus tube tops & cardigan.. (OK anot?)
5) hair.. Black rebonded hair tat drops behind my back - V shape =)

abt the sentence: expose yr "colour" to him, i really dono wad u meant..
u meant my bra or my undies?? haha~~
1 more thing.. i dun know any guys who drives.. cus they r usually ard my age or dun even hav a liscense.. =(

[Recast]

U want to know how to seduce a male? If purely for sex, just wear sexily can liao. Show half ball, give a bit of hint u wont reject the guy, any normal guy will immediately on u.

If for romance, it not the dressing that attract the guy ( but it help a bit), it the character and the feelings the guy get from u. But u must understand, many guys (including me) confuse the term lust and love. they may tot intially they love u, but will dump u once the lust is gone.

[Athenawishes]

Originally Posted by Recast

U want to know how to seduce a male? If purely for sex, just wear sexily can liao. Show half ball, give a bit of hint u wont reject the guy, any normal guy will immediately on u.

If for romance, it not the dressing that attract the guy ( but it help a bit), it the character and the feelings the guy get from u. But u must understand, many guys (including me) confuse the term lust and love. they may tot intially they love u, but will dump u once the lust is gone.

hmmm thanks for the views..
i understand wad u mean..

so from your point of view..
what kind of gals attract u to take a second look??

do u guys prefer those tat dress sexily? or those tat are guaiguai type??
under wad circumstances will you smile at her.. feel like toking to her & know her more??

does showing half boobs meant they only wan sex?
how will u sterotype these gals?? cheap??

[goodielecks]

Originally Posted by Cheonging101

Bro, does that apply to the amount of skin shown or the amount fo fabric used? I always forget.

Less fabric.

Originally Posted by Athenawishes

goodie~~ hehe seems like u r really a goodie boy.. >.<
thanks for your piece of advice..

Me goodie boy? hmm...

[ChiefBandit]

in order to seduce a guy~ first of all~ must know what type of girls the guy like. Example : some prefer petite girls to plump~ so no matter how hard a plump girl try, it will never be able to get the guy~ *it stills happen in about i would say 4%* Seduction is all about mind games. A lady might be able to dress cover up but which is good in flirty which gets most guys into mood~