16 years old and pregnant

hellopanda · #1 10-06-2009, 01:59 PM

Dear Sammyboy big brothers

Thank you for your time. I'm nearly 16, and i accidentally got my gf pregnant, shes few months of 16 already, at least 2 months before pregnancy.

She miss her period for one month already, supposed to be due 5 weeks ago. But sometimes she will miss her period one, and recently shes been rather stressed so we were praying it was not pregnancy.

Haven test yet, can i go buy? will shopkeeper dulan ask for anything?

If she is pregnant, we had a long talk about this. we would like to go for an abortion. Judging from previous threads it costs from 300 in some threads to even 1500 in others so we're really not sure how much it costs.

Can anyone help with a location,price and reliability.

Will they get parents involved, we hope to be able to keep this within ourselves.

Please help us, as we're still schooling. I really love her alot

Jintian · #2 10-06-2009, 02:19 PM

Being a father myself, I would advise you to talk to your parents.

daggerboy · #3 10-06-2009, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Jintian

Being a father myself, I would advise you to talk to your parents.

That is right. Speak with your parents and you wont go wrong.

viewpanel · #4 10-06-2009, 02:25 PM

as both of u are under the age 21.... I guess it is better for either one of u to let ur parent know first... cos eventually they will know... the clinic will tell them also... btw prices is around 500 SGD...

slutwen · #5 10-06-2009, 02:27 PM

Speak to your parents before you act. Going to clinic might land you with the police. Parents will definately be called in. Parents prefer to hear from their children instead on outsider i.e. your doctor.

izerkudie · #6 10-06-2009, 02:27 PM

hi ts, i been thru this, when i was 18, even going to private one, below 16 they requires ur parents to come down and talk, so i suggest u talk to ur mum about it first before u make any decision

sleaguepunter · #7 10-06-2009, 02:28 PM

why dont u just buy a kit to test first? u buy one from Guardian, less than $20 have liao.

Want to screw, screw properly lah, wear helmet lor. Since u didnt wear helmet, then u better pray it a false alarm. If u realli tio beh biao, i can only say gongxi gongxi. i against abortion, will not give u any suggestions for it.

Gerald · #8 10-06-2009, 02:30 PM

You are too young to take such matters into your own hands alone. Listen to the bros here. You need to talk to your old folks.

LeMoN · #9 10-06-2009, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by hellopanda

... I'm nearly 16, and i accidentally got my gf pregnant, shes few months of 16 already, at least 2 months before pregnancy.

Since you are under 16, that will spell trouble for your gf. Your post got me confused. If you are not certain, go do a check. You are writing as though she IS pregnant.

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Haven test yet, can i go buy? will shopkeeper dulan ask for anything?

You can get from any pharmacies including Watsons. They won't ask but of cos they will give u the stare since u r so young.

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Can anyone help with a location,price and reliability.

Don't be lazy & Google online. Here's a link for u: TOP info

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Will they get parents involved, we hope to be able to keep this within ourselves.

You better talk to your parents about it. You are too young to decide anyway. Also since you are under 16, you can't accompany your gf as they will take down your particulars at the hospitals. Unless you go to private clinic which will easily cost over $1k.

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Please help us, as we're still schooling. I really love her alot

Since you love her alot, then quit school, find a job & get married.

hellopanda · #10 10-06-2009, 02:42 PM

Thanks all big bros for info so far.

If I don't go, or i go after my birthday in a month, will it make a difference?

Shes above 16 already, is she able to go through abortion herself?

beck7777 · #11 10-06-2009, 02:50 PM

Go talk to your parents lah...

Its not a decision that you can make...

Athenawishes · #12 10-06-2009, 02:51 PM

hi dude...

u r young...
u need to tok to ur parents first..
this is serious..

is either u quit sch.. which will affect ur future..
den get married with her.. which i dono in future how u handle ur marriage..

or u go for abortion with the consent of ur gf's parents' consent..
den get her upset - emotional prob
but since u love her.. cont to stay by her side... gif her ur support..

hope u can make the right decision.. take care..

Spurslover · #13 10-06-2009, 02:53 PM

TS,

Do it early. Let both side's parents know early.

You mentioned you love her a lot, rite?

So where is the love when you 2 make love?

Where is the love now that you want her to go through the abortion herself?

Do it early so that things would not get further out of hand.

My 2 cents worth.

hellopanda · #14 10-06-2009, 02:54 PM

really mustnt let parents noe.

she doesnt want to.

She wants to go for the abortion de, i want to go with her but she says she'll go alone

mystical · #15 10-06-2009, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by hellopanda

Dear Sammyboy big brothers

Thank you for your time. I'm nearly 16, and i accidentally got my gf pregnant, shes few months of 16 already, at least 2 months before pregnancy.

She miss her period for one month already, supposed to be due 5 weeks ago. But sometimes she will miss her period one, and recently shes been rather stressed so we were praying it was not pregnancy.

Haven test yet, can i go buy? will shopkeeper dulan ask for anything?

If she is pregnant, we had a long talk about this. we would like to go for an abortion. Judging from previous threads it costs from 300 in some threads to even 1500 in others so we're really not sure how much it costs.

Can anyone help with a location,price and reliability.

Will they get parents involved, we hope to be able to keep this within ourselves.

Please help us, as we're still schooling. I really love her alot

Go and get a kit to test if she's pregnant first.

If she is, talk to ur parents about it. Blame it on urself for not using protection.

"Shes above 16 already, is she able to go through abortion herself? "

What was that suppose to mean? If she's really pergnant, you are responsible for it, and u wan her to face it alone?

Ure only 16 and ure so freaking irresponsible.

And you said u love her alot, so by asking her to go for an abortion is call love her alot? OOohh.

If she's really pregnant, talk to ur parents. Its a life we're talking about here.
You are not old enough to decide for urself what move to make next.

Get ur guts going.