Qn: will u tell ur possib le fling u r married?

[justwanadoit]

will u tell the truth or keep her in dark until u makan her already then tell?

will telling gal u married lessen ur chance?

[bonkster]

Yes i definitely will and yes telling her may lower your chance, but to me, it's quality not quantity that counts.

Flings who don't mind u being married r usually the "spiciest" and most comfortable, let alone the peace of mind that comes with it.

Would rather let some go and just focus on the ones with potential for greatness.

But of course, if the gal u r about to have a fling with is Jessica Alba, then just be what she wants u to be and disregard the above

[pussluver]

yes, may lessen chance. but if she knows u r married and still accept u, any thing happen, easier to let go.

also, if she knows u married, it is easier to tell her when not to call/ sms u at difficult moments.



based on my experiences on those knowing u are married and those that do not know

[naturegreen]

I will definitely tell. If she finds out you are lying, then good luck to you. At least if she is aware, then everything is still within your control.

[waaaaaa]

i will tell them, but i didnt tell my recent fling. in the end she knew it, but we are still fucking each other out. I unleashed her notti self and we are arranging for a 4some with another couple soon.

sometime it might be better to tell them, if they know and still fling with u. she cant blame u for anything and less likely to have trouble after it ends. so far my flings all ended well.

[Alf1977]

Since u said it's your fling, then u should tell her.. Coz if you tell her n she still be with you, you gain a spicy -no -string- attached FB ... N when u with your Fling also don't need to scare your OC will call u n she start questioning who called or make noise during your conversation with OC .. Even worst..when u tell her in advance, at least she knows what game she is playing with you.

It's a win-win situation.

[owl888]

If she never ask, why tell her?

If she ask, then juz tell her the truth. If she attracted to u, dunn think she'll mind if u r married.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

will u tell the truth or keep her in dark until u makan her already then tell?

will telling gal u married lessen ur chance?

Lying to advance your chances at sex is something that is likely to backfire. Why cheat anyway as it goes against the norms of SG society.

[MonteCristo]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

will u tell the truth or keep her in dark until u makan her already then tell?

will telling gal u married lessen ur chance?

Everyone deserves the right to honest answers, especially in this situation. Do you wish to risk hurting the girl with the truth after getting your way with her? Or hurting her slowly with continuous lies for fear that she might not be with you anymore? Your call.

[oszie]

I've got gf who know i'm married.
she told me she don't mind n willing to be my secret lover!
i'm stump at first but then.....

[Big2]

Be truthful... You never know how she will react when she finds out after getting laid.. may put your own marriage in red zone too if she gets pissed. You should know, these days everything is connected due to internet. Easy to get access to the wife.

[climaxguy]

Tell her that in the first place and it's better she found out later and will sure cause a lot of headache. If the gal accept that then ur chance is even more better

[SamDucky]

For all my flings and FBs, I would seriously tell them about being married so that there are no surprises. And I guess women nowadays are more open about being flings / FBs, we all have the needs and I guess the most important thing to these gals are that it's discreet and it is someone they can trust. Hence telling them the facts allows you and her to get away with the crime and be still happy about it. If you don't and the gal starts being clingy... you're in for deep shit with your OC... the replies here speaks for it!

[tsseng69]

Yes! Tell her..because women's sixth sense will call you out anyway! Better to be upfront and then enjoy the good times together. If she doesnt mind, then you are set...

[tomvoyeur]

Yes - FBs serve no purpose beside fking so there is no need to hide the fact u r married.