[Advice Needed] Girlfriend

[binggabanga]

Hi everyone here,

I know this maybe the wrong place to post this question, but i really need everyone's advice or comments.

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for more than 2 years, and sometimes we do have sex occasionally. But she doesn't seem to like it as much as i do. Well, yes i do have a very high sex drive but she doesn't. We've talked about this many a times but apparently its bringing us nowhere.

Recently, she told me that she don't wish for me to talk cheekily, or anything about sex. Nor does she want to have sex anymore. She just tells me she wants a pure, clean, innocent relationship, where its just about love.

I love her, a lot. And I don't want to leave her. I know that both of us love each other so much and never wanted to break off.

I don't want to find any other girl to satisfy my needs because i love my girlfriend too much and i don't wish to do anything to hurt our relationship. But i really have no idea how i can ask my girlfriend about sex.

We're both 21, and i really need sincere advice from people here.

I appreciate it alot. Thank you

[erectile]

If you really love her then you should respect her.

[IBCBen]

This forum is all about sex.

So if ya gf cant give u sex, time to change a new one.

[tomcat007]

Get a new car..

[BonBonWin]

Originally Posted by binggabanga

Hi everyone here,

I know this maybe the wrong place to post this question, but i really need everyone's advice or comments.

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for more than 2 years, and sometimes we do have sex occasionally. But she doesn't seem to like it as much as i do. Well, yes i do have a very high sex drive but she doesn't. We've talked about this many a times but apparently its bringing us nowhere.

Recently, she told me that she don't wish for me to talk cheekily, or anything about sex. Nor does she want to have sex anymore. She just tells me she wants a pure, clean, innocent relationship, where its just about love.

I love her, a lot. And I don't want to leave her. I know that both of us love each other so much and never wanted to break off.

I don't want to find any other girl to satisfy my needs because i love my girlfriend too much and i don't wish to do anything to hurt our relationship. But i really have no idea how i can ask my girlfriend about sex.

We're both 21, and i really need sincere advice from people here.

I appreciate it alot. Thank you

What is more important to have sex or your relationship with your gf ?

[DreamOfLust]

Respect her dude... she is your girlfriend


Not fb or fl.. maintain a platonic and.healthy relationship with her if that is what she wants.

[alan0338]

standby to change a new gal liao ... maybe she is seeing someone else ...

[IBCBen]

Originally Posted by BonBonWin

What is more important to have sex or your relationship with your gf ?

Originally Posted by erectile

If you really love her then you should respect her.

All these are the "correct" advice. But seriously, if your gf (your wife-to-be)refuse to have sex with you, dont tell me you going to PCC for the rest of your life ?

If she is not going to be your wife-to-be, might as well break off now ?

[freezetheDB]

most women need to be pampered. Sex is natural and ought to be natural and instinctive and women dislike it when everything you have done for them has to lead to sex. It is an anti-sex factor for them.

They prefer romantic dates, and if it leads to sex, it will be a passionate one.

My OC dont like to give blowjobs if I ask for it. When the chemistry is right, she auto goes down on me (usually to my surprise), and I can CIM if I want and she will swallow it all up (just so it doesnt get messy). But if I CIM I have to work harder to get the 2nd round coming in order to return the favour.

My advice is just relax abit and work on the relationship and if nothing improves maybe its time to move on as she might have another guy, or if she has become a hardcore xtian (which u should avoid marrying if u r not one too)

[curiouslala]

my advice is dont make it like sex.
bcos you're in a relationship, make love to her..

for guys maybe its not different between sex and make love..
but for gals, its different..

with sex they feel like its something that they should do to make u happy..
but with make love, she will be a willing partner(like me)..

i wish you're not like a jerk that i used to know..
who just kiss abit then touch abit then want to go inside her so soon..
you're not paying a pros to hv sex to you..
she's your gf..

kiss her in her lips, cheek, face, neck, body, everywhere..
make her hot, high and horny all over her body..
make her feel u loving her thoroughly..
make her beg for u to fill her bcos she cant tahan anymore..
and this foreplay isnt something that u can do within 5-10 mins..
spend more time la..

the more she enjoy it, the more she will want u to repeat it..
then she will crave for it..

i dont know whether this trick would work to ur gf..
but it does work to me..

[SharkAttack]

i 2nd ice n freeze comments. Basically if u ve the cash n skills to create n work hard for thar romantic atmosphere, then sex is a reward for your hardwork.

I prefer a lot of guys out there at your age just enter the r/s just for the thrill of sex. Hit n run. But if you're in for the long haul be it married like other old timer samsters or a playboy wanna be like the hk actor, you need to know the do n donts, create more pull then push factors and be the right lady's man.

Soak in the experience, fine tune it to your lifestyle and have the balls to go for it, just like one samster who post the link on why we shd approach a pretty lady if we see on the streets of sg!

Cheers

[muscleboi]

Dude,
women almost always contradict what they say. she said she just wants a pure, clean and innocent relationship for a while maybe...I'm guessing the reason she said that is because she wants you to think about sex as part of the relationship but not the core of the relationship so probably by saying that she wants an innocent relationship, she wants you to take sex off your mind for a while, not eternity. either that or she may be interested in someone else..just a possibility but not an absolute.

think about it. if you have high sex drive and she's getting less interested in sex, don't you feel you are torturing yourself being with her? I'm just saying...food for thought.

or maybe she got this female ego thing...she knows you have high sex drive and she purposely don't want to have sex with you..women...just show her your world isn't revolving around her and she MAY show more affection toward you..again its a possibility not an absolute..

[lordstriker]

You are the one at the driver seat, so guide her through the process, you will be like a teacher, think of something to make your lesson more interesting and can excite the student. she will ask for more lessons and will be a hardworking student automatically. Remember woman will be forever a woman, she wants you to take initiative in sex Come on!

[DreamOfLust]

This thread has attracted many golden advices from sbf bros

[MoralEpitome]

My take is if she doesn't want to have sex with you means she don't love you anymore, time to look for a new gf. When my gf and I were in love, we want to bonk everyday. When the love is gone, you won't feel like having it.