Ex wanting to get back together

BabyLyn · #1 29-10-2012, 12:58 AM

Well here to seek advice from bros here... My ex who I broke up with since a year ago started contacting me again since 2 months ago... Reason why we broke up? He brought another girl home to have sex and I caught them in the act. After that he even tell all his family members who knew that we were together that we were just friends and I was the one who thought we were together and stuck to him. We were together for more than half a year and his parents and close cousins all knew about us being together. Needless to say, I told him that we will never see each other again.

Lately he keep sending me msges via whatsapp saying that he miss me and all and he realized his mistakes, etc etc. Any idea what this guy is up to? Coming back to me hopefully to get some sex?

Some advice from fellow samsters and samstress here please....

Bangster · #2 29-10-2012, 01:01 AM

Was the sex good?

If so, just treat him as an fb lor.

Win-win situation. NSA

Winx · #3 29-10-2012, 01:03 AM

Hey,
Hope that I don't offend 'him' if he realizes this thread but I don't really sense his sincerity.. But do you still have feelings for him?

Steelshaft · #4 29-10-2012, 01:27 AM

Hi Sister,

The main thing is whether you still love or like his companion? If you still think that it is ok to hang around with him, I suggest that you could do that but hang him dry from sex and not even petting for half a year to test his sincerity.

This type of man, cant last without sex for half a year. Take my advice.

However if you have the urge, there is a forest of Cactus here in this forum.

sta1100 · #5 29-10-2012, 01:28 AM

Get back Togather NO, he will do the same again. Just treat him like a sucker or FB. Than dump him since BF not husband no big deal.

kittymae · #6 29-10-2012, 01:33 AM

No guarantee he won't do e same thing.id say move on find someone better...

kurios · #7 29-10-2012, 01:37 AM

For free sex, why not?

BabyLyn · #8 29-10-2012, 01:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Winx

Hey,
Hope that I don't offend 'him' if he realizes this thread but I don't really sense his sincerity.. But do you still have feelings for him?

Totally no more feelings. Told him over whatsapp that its difficult for us to even be friends again cuz of what he did to me. But that did not stop Tim from texting me saying he miss me and all I guess...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bangster

Was the sex good?

If so, just treat him as an fb lor.

Win-win situation. NSA

Sex wasn't good with him. He could barely last for 10mins.

geylangbonker · #9 29-10-2012, 01:48 AM

Hello babylyn,

Since you can post your words here , many of us can tell that your problem with an ex-flame is harboring you.You have mixed feelings...but if you are the kind can bury the hatchet , you can continue but if you are not the kind can forgive one easily , then forget it.
i give a scenario, just one scenario eg: Someone cracked your mirror at home , the mirror you always use in the morning to put on your cosmetic make-up , there,s a crack there , a very big crack there which results you cannot use it anymore.
1)Are you going to buy and get a new mirror or are you going to fix the crack there and re-use it again?
If you are intending to fix it, how are you planing and looking forward to fix the crack, get something fix that crack? Can it be use again , will it waste your time and effort to fix it if the final result which turns out to be negative?

You lie on your bed before you sleep and rest your arms behind your head and think about my words here...

rckc19 · #10 29-10-2012, 01:59 AM

Sis,

Not many ppl can forgive & forget her partner having sex with other gals, tat will made your life more diffcult. think carefully

Bangster · #11 29-10-2012, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Sex wasn't good with him. He could barely last for 10mins.

Why don't you and me get together, shoot a vid and send to him, of course with your face covered, and tell him

"No, I don't think it's a good idea to get back together as you can see, I'm definitely having a far greater time than you could have given me.

You are pathetic, by the way."

Bodyache · #12 29-10-2012, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Totally no more feelings. Told him over whatsapp that its difficult for us to even be friends again cuz of what he did to me. But that did not stop Tim from texting me saying he miss me and all I guess...

Sex wasn't good with him. He could barely last for 10mins.

Well...sex is no good, you have no feelings for him and he basically "screwed" your reputation before....

Hmmmmm tough decision to MAKE....

Maybe gently text him...just gently...dun hurt his feelings....jus sms to him....slowly....and gently....FUCK OFF! :-)

Stormz · #13 29-10-2012, 02:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Sex wasn't good with him. He could barely last for 10mins.

There, you have your answer, sayonara to him.

see see only · #14 29-10-2012, 02:34 AM

Hi TS,

Hope i did not guess wrongly ... you posting this thread suggested that you still have feeling for him ... if not you would not even bother to think about it ... less talk about starting a thread for "him"

BGR is something no one could help or advise .... especially serious r/s ... it is a gamble of your time and your emo (for most men include monies as well)

In casino ... before you place a bet ... most will look at friends around them, some even ask how much to bet and bet what ...

.... WHY???? Because if you lose ... those friends that suggested dare not say "see i told you before ... you no believe"

Is that what you have in mind ... when you started this thread ?????

Remember in all gamble ... Win, lose or draw ... you are the solely one that need to be responsible for the outcome NOT your friends .... including you gamble in a r/s ........

Hope the above could help you in this r/s decision .... just be responsible to your decision ... there's no right no wrong esp when comes to r/s ... regardless outcome

rexoanwong · #15 29-10-2012, 02:36 AM

Hello sista

Hear this sentence b4 , good horse won't turn back head eat grass

Can u let go or buried wad u saw or caught red handed ??
does he really the guy or man left in this world ??
Can u really take it one more time things gonna happen ??
Do u guarantee the feeling and love will be the same ??
Do u respect urself as a girl / lady , due to wad he say to his family ??
Will u really trust him after getting back ??
All human does eating outside , but noe how to clean mouth ...
U still have alot of choice out there , why would u wanna hurt urself again ??

Not even FB or anything to do wif him ... Not worth it ...
If u think FB , alot is much more better then him ... Think twices babe ...
Juz let him go and stop ctc each other for ur own pride and goods