Let's discuss this....sex partially related.

Rof|maoxz · #1 03-01-2006, 01:40 PM

Godd afternoon brudders.... After reading a local news on a local singaporean man "being played out" by his PRC wife. I feel aghasted & appalled for him. Although his story may not be 100% true, I'm still standing from his point of view. Sometimes such sorrowful stories surfaced up after it has happened. Is there really no tale signs that it will happen?

Lastly, just to ask bros here.... "Men fall in love easily, but are unfaithful. When women love their men,they dedicate wholeheartedly. But they become hard-hearted when betrayed"

Do you support the above saying? Please give your views.... Tks~

Rof|

yanki1 · #2 03-01-2006, 01:45 PM

hmmm quite true

aikoN79 · #3 03-01-2006, 01:51 PM

It's these kind of women who run away after getting PR or refuse to give sex, unfaithful, refuse to do household, il treat mother-in-law that give those PRCs a bad name.

Even when the hubby wan sex she demand him to write on a piece of paper and pass it under the door !!! If she agree, she will jus shout from inside the room "Wan sex ? ok lor" if not she will open the door, go to the kitchen and burn the paper ~!!!!

And then cannot divorce these kind of wife cos need to pay maintainece..... Guys are always at the losing end when it comes to divorce. Damm those women rights group.

solidwoody · #4 03-01-2006, 02:03 PM

This is my 2 cents of my pt of view. Firstly I believe part of the fault must lie with the guy. Who would in their right mind would offer their own sister for marriage to him just after a few days especially when he has nothing to offer this china gal. He cannot be so naive as to believe that such things do happen. He must have heard abt other china women who have caused havoc with their so call marriage. He must have been thinking with his dick obviously.
After all the rules imposed upon he can still take it lying down? Which one among you in their right mind would?There must be another side to the story.
I think he might have promised the gal so many things before marriage and when after marriage when he cannot deliver things start to unravel for him.

Rof|maoxz · #5 03-01-2006, 02:14 PM

I think as a whole, we, men can't give up (放不下) or treasure their love relationship when threatened or unrecoverable state. You can notice in those "Ask Aunt Agony" thread, male just wanna retain the stained relationship no matter how the ger's refusal, knowing that this is only a temporarily measure....

Rof|maoxz · #6 03-01-2006, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by solidwoody

This is my 2 cents of my pt of view. Firstly I believe part of the fault must lie with the guy. Who would in their right mind would offer their own sister for marriage to him just after a few days especially when he has nothing to offer this china gal. He cannot be so naive as to believe that such things do happen. He must have heard abt other china women who have caused havoc with their so call marriage. He must have been thinking with his dick obviously.

After all the rules imposed upon he can still take it lying down? Which one among you in their right mind would?There must be another side to the story. I think he might have promised the gal so many things before marriage and when after marriage when he cannot deliver things start to unravel for him.

solidwoody, Tks~ for da input. As you noticed, the story of the STD part does have it's grey area. I think this story is a love-and-hate incident. The guy obviously do not want to give up, despite his parent's violent objection that his wife has secretly sterilized years ago.

t0kc0k · #7 03-01-2006, 02:25 PM

Boro Rof|maoxz
Side track a bit...do u have any updates on +++-kong.com or not?

Rof|maoxz · #8 03-01-2006, 02:43 PM

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Bro Rof|maoxz
Side track a bit...do u have any updates on kong.com or not?

Still gg strong. Under intensive conditioning.

t0kc0k · #9 03-01-2006, 02:49 PM

Brudder
dunno but I cannot log in to +++-kong.com...any ideas?

xen0n · #10 03-01-2006, 03:33 PM

Well, only one side of the story is revealed, so I can't really comment on it. But I believe its a one-off case. For men around his age, I don't think it would be that easy to look for real love or companionship. The only asset he would have is his money, and to realists, an attractive attribute.

Both genders would suffer one way or another. In this scenario, the woman chose to gave him the hard way out by walking out of him. But who knows if he had been battering his wife? This is just my assumption, and it might not be true. At least she didn't take all her money and ran away. So there's a rainbow at the end of the tunnel.

#11 03-01-2006, 05:47 PM

Yes, i kinda agree with you. When my ex-gf was with me, she was 100% devoted to me.
Alas, afte 3 years together, i fell in love with another gal and for a couple of months, was 2-timing her.
One fine day, she found out as she read my sms from her. That's it. Of course we broke up after I confessed and after that we cant even talk as I had wanted to continue being friends with her.
Didnt really regret breaking up with her as I love my current gal very much....

Rof|maoxz · #12 03-01-2006, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by xen0n

Well, only one side of the story is revealed, so I can't really comment on it. But I believe its a one-off case. For men around his age, I don't think it would be that easy to look for real love or companionship. The only asset he would have is his money, and to realists, an attractive attribute.

Both genders would suffer one way or another. In this scenario, the woman chose to gave him the hard way out by walking out of him. But who knows if he had been battering his wife? This is just my assumption, and it might not be true. At least she didn't take all her money and ran away. So there's a rainbow at the end of the tunnel.

Let's say the man's story is a fact, we also can't do anything. Reason being that he is a forgiving man, one time after another, till he contracted STD and the wife MIA for quite sometime. This really leave a big question mark of the wife's side. So does she really infected with STD? That's why she choose not to have sex as regular as the husband wants? Or she has already achieved what she has wanted.... Singapore PR. This is worse than those undertable marriage with the foreigners women whereby the "fake husband" still get a handsome reward after the PR application has finalised.

xen0n · #13 03-01-2006, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Let's say the man's story is a fact, we also can't do anything. Reason being that he is a forgiving man, one time after another, till he contracted STD and the wife MIA for quite sometime. This really leave a big question mark of the wife's side. So does she really infected with STD? That's why she choose not to have sex as regular as the husband wants? Or she has already achieved what she has wanted.... Singapore PR. This is worse than those undertable marriage with the foreigners women whereby the "fake husband" still get a handsome reward after the PR application has finalised.

Its possible that the wife cheated on the chap and even to the extent of infecting him with STD. If that is true, then the marriage was bogus from the onstart as the objective was just to obtain PR. But frankly speaking, its kind of difficult to have sex with somebody u don't like, unless we are talking about commercial sex. It just mounts on the bad reputation PRC wives have.

aikoN79 · #14 03-01-2006, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by xen0n

. It just mounts on the bad reputation PRC wives have.

I am going to get myself a Vietnam wifey

Rof|maoxz · #15 03-01-2006, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by xen0n

Its possible that the wife cheated on the chap and even to the extent of infecting him with STD. If that is true, then the marriage was bogus from the onstart as the objective was just to obtain PR. But frankly speaking, its kind of difficult to have sex with somebody u don't like, unless we are talking about commercial sex. It just mounts on the bad reputation PRC wives have.

Maybe the man just want to get married for the sake of marriage. And he wanted to have sex just to upload his position of "husband status".

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I am going to get myself a Vietnam wifey

Unless you stop gg BS? The chinese magnet is just too stong.