mistress wants to bear baby

[korean]

Hi bros,

Anyone come across any stories where mistress chose to bear your baby and bring up the child herself?

[cocky1234]

hell no.. way.. you better dont give ur sperm to her.. else hv baby she come look for you to give money. she want baby can go geylang stand get fuck n get pregnant.. call me when she offer her service

[sg571958]

u use the word "mistress"

There are difference between how you perceive this person(girl)

(1) GF
(2) Lover -> you love her more than your wife?
(3) Mistress -> just for Fuck job purposes? No love involved?

Since you already use the word "mistress", what else of advice you want?

Is she your GF or Lover..etc?

[korean]

Awaiting real stories to share

[Ember]

Had a friend in army who had a gf already but went on to have a long-term affair with another girl, ended up getting her pregnant and she wanted to raise the child on her own. Despite my friend's objections, being the one pregnant she had the ultimate say to deliver the baby.

Up till now it may seem fine because my friend hasn't heard from her for a few years but anytime the girl wishes, I believe she can claim monthly fees from my friend as the law seems biased towards single mums (even if they are foreigners). Which brings me back to my point, do NOT let a mistress/gf have your child unless you are prepared to be tied down financially.

[korean]

Originally Posted by sg571958

u use the word "mistress"

There are difference between how you perceive this person(girl)

(1) GF
(2) Lover -> you love her more than your wife?
(3) Mistress -> just for Fuck job purposes? No love involved?

Since you already use the word "mistress", what else of advice you want?

Is she your GF or Lover..etc?

Lover who the only one I love as I don't love my wife

[korean]

Originally Posted by Ember

Had a friend in army who had a gf already but went on to have a long-term affair with another girl, ended up getting her pregnant and she wanted to raise the child on her own. Despite my friend's objections, being the one pregnant she had the ultimate say to deliver the baby.

Up till now it may seem fine because my friend hasn't heard from her for a few years but anytime the girl wishes, I believe she can claim monthly fees from my friend as the law seems biased towards single mums (even if they are foreigners). Which brings me back to my point, do NOT let a mistress/gf have your child unless you are prepared to be tied down financially.

Thx for sharing.

[subidowa]

Dun be silly bro.... Dun believe girls words...
They are bullshit. Girls aren't worth anything. If she says that and honour it, make her sign a contract. Arbo next time she will come back and break ur family or ask for money. With a contract, it protects u even from the monthly allowance since she said she will raise the baby up herself. In the event she will break ur family, u can even sue her.

[Triple70]

No matter how much love there is between a couple, a baby = aunty maker.

It will take tons of tolerance and patience to accept the issues of a naggy frustrated, possessive, and jealous chiobu.

No matter how much assurance the lady gives that she won't be an aunty, once the hormonal changes occur due to the pregnancy, there is no turning back. I am not saying don't do it, just be aware of the challenges ahead.

Personally, I wld assess the personality of the woman first. If she damn steady, mature, no roller coaster emo issues, walk the jiang hu before, then high chance she will be a wonderful companion even with kid. Watch out for third party baggage like parents that may cause this whole union to fall apart.

There are many nice attractive single moms out there, but I realise most are nice after having gone through hell with others and can now appreciate a good man.

[korean]

Good piece of advice, thx bro!

Originally Posted by Triple70

No matter how much love there is between a couple, a baby = aunty maker.

It will take tons of tolerance and patience to accept the issues of a naggy frustrated, possessive, and jealous chiobu.

No matter how much assurance the lady gives that she won't be an aunty, once the hormonal changes occur due to the pregnancy, there is no turning back. I am not saying don't do it, just be aware of the challenges ahead.

Personally, I wld assess the personality of the woman first. If she damn steady, mature, no roller coaster emo issues, walk the jiang hu before, then high chance she will be a wonderful companion even with kid. Watch out for third party baggage like parents that may cause this whole union to fall apart.

There are many nice attractive single moms out there, but I realise most are nice after having gone through hell with others and can now appreciate a good man.

[surbana]

Dont trust what woman tell you. They will twist and turn their words. In the end they will always win. They are the most unreasonable creature.

[maxsee]

Woman charter will be against you once baby is born...If I am not wrong even without marriage, you still got to foot the bill to raise the kid...

[korean]

Originally Posted by surbana

Dont trust what woman tell you. They will twist and turn their words. In the end they will always win. They are the most unreasonable creature.

I guess I cannot trust my wife also Wait, how come women also comment us men the same?

[Greendevil]

Let get the logic right first. Mistress, every month you pay her an agreed sum in exchange of her sex and etc. So there no such thing as she want. She got no say on what she want. The only thing she has right to is end the business deal. it not a bf-gf relationship.

[korean]

Originally Posted by Greendevil

Let get the logic right first. Mistress, every month you pay her an agreed sum in exchange of her sex and etc. So there no such thing as she want. She got no say on what she want. The only thing she has right to is end the business deal. it not a bf-gf relationship.

Ok. I don't pay her allowance, so is considered bf-gf relation according to your definition.