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[gentleman]

Today i break off with my gf. She is my 2nd gf so far.

Yesterday she opened my laptop , she intended to reorganize last december trip photos. Some how she not able to find photos in my laptop. She figured around my laptop and found some initimate photos inside my laptop. Those photos were taken when i was with WL and some were my FB photos. Even she discovered make love photos with FB.
She went nuts and hurt herself. She cried from morning till night. She not able to forgive me for betray her so long time. She loves me more than i do. I very upset and not able to convince her to forgive me.

This morning she calls me and she not able to forgive me and break off with me. I am very sad now. I very disappoint with what i did because we planning to get married this year......
I born in "Horse" year, this year is very difficult year to those people who born in "horse" year. I make mistake of putting photos inside my laptop and never lock it with password. Now is no turning back....

[tnb1206]

sorry to hear that...

my comforting remarks....if no turning back..then move on...but then give it some times..maybe when she cool down..you can try again...meanwhile..think of ways you can get her back if you really love her alot....Good Luck.

anyway....do take note no matter how open minded the woman is..women is a creature that doesnt take betrayal very lightly...so do keep that mind...

[hotsoup16]

Bro,
what's done cannot be undone. just live on and dun look back. in real life, there are many out there who are even worse than you. take me for example, I never slept for 1 week and stay drunk when my ex-wife popped the word "divorce". In the end, i was relive by my closest friends around me.

My advice, talk to yr friends and move on

[corsiar74]

sorry to hear tat bro...anyway life still go on...try to call her and apologize to her after she's cooling down, if she's still love u she will probably forgive you after some times....

[ANOA1]

Even if you make up, the scars will be there and takes a long long time or never get erased. Maybe better get over and move on.

[bangbangben]

Move on brudda... Move on...
Even if everything is back to normal. This scar will be in her head forever. Can you take it that next time she makes a mistake, she says "Last time u fucked around as well".

On top of that, you got to learn to cover your Sh|t hole after Sh|tt|ng. If not... this would be a cycle again and again and again

[unsung80]

Don't blame it on the Horse Year. Since you initially play all this game you should be prepare for it. If you love her better try your 120% to win her heart. Is not easy to start a relationship all over again.

Bro TS, hope you will get over it. Actually even if come back together she will not trust you anymore. Maybe its better the breakup I mean. But anyway hope the best for you.

Personally I dont beleive in keeping any pics in HP or PC, you never know when somebody see it. Maybe you can consider putiing in yahoo groups ...

[otamay]

Originally Posted by ANOA1

Even if you make up, the scars will be there and takes a long long time or never get erased. Maybe better get over and move on.

Yes agreed with you Bro ANOA1, time may heal but no matter how the scar will never be gone. Life goes on and becareful next time. Since you knowthat you are wrong so just accept your consquences and hopefully can find someone better....

[gentleman]

Thank you for all advise here.. I very sad as my two love cannot last happily..

I doing well in my career, but lust is my weakness. I feel that i'm not suitable to engage in marriage as i easy attracted by pretty girl. It's all my fault to spoil this relationship.

I am so stupid. Chasing short term shiok, end up with losing my gf. Its hurt me, and i hurt my gf

[obnoxious]

Bro TS, go look for a third one, but exercise extremke caution especially pics of you in sexual intimacy with other gals .... I am sure you know what to do in future already

[Eroticalic]

Always store sensitive files to external storage devices

[sammyboyfor]

Hi there. Please contribute those pix to the private picture forum. It will be much appreciated by all.

Originally Posted by gentleman

Yesterday she opened my laptop , she intended to reorganize last december trip photos. Some how she not able to find photos in my laptop. She figured around my laptop and found some initimate photos inside my laptop. Those photos were taken when i was with WL and some were my FB photos. Even she discovered make love photos with FB.

[colins]

Originally Posted by gentleman

Thank you for all advise here.. I very sad as my two love cannot last happily..

I doing well in my career, but lust is my weakness. I feel that i'm not suitable to engage in marriage as i easy attracted by pretty girl. It's all my fault to spoil this relationship.

I am so stupid. Chasing short term shiok, end up with losing my gf. Its hurt me, and i hurt my gf

bro, hope you are alright. I think the signs (keeping photos in laptop without security, easily attracted elsewhere, a well-developed sex life beyond ur relationship) tend to show that you're either very careless or you've taken her for granted. You're doing well in your career, so I guess its the latter.

Have you ever ask yourself why you are so sad? Is it because of your mistakes in leaving everything bare and ultimately went exposed or because you've lost someone important to you. If you're sad because of your mistakes, then learn to protect your secrets better next time. If you're sad because she left you, do whatever you can to get her back, probably exiting the current extra-relationships 'affairs' as well.

One of the most important things we do after commiting a mistake is to learn from it, though that requires self-reflection on why you think it is a mistake. Different people have different priorities in life, if yours is to satisfy your lust and urge whenever you meet a new syt, then maybe you're meant to be that kind of man and only someone who is similar to you, will suit you better.

While I'm not trying to judge you (actually there is nothing wrong is being playboyish), I hope you be honest to yourself and do the judgement.

Hope you dun take this negatively, I am going thru something like this myself now and feel for you. As to the interim period, lots of alcohol helps, at least to sleep.

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Hi there. Please contribute those pix to the private picture forum. It will be much appreciated by all.

knn, u really cb ! ppl so cham already u still talk like tat.

wan to contribute contribute here mah. like tat everyone can see.