erotic massage for your partner

[Fun69real]

has anyone here pampered their partner with a hot oil massage, candle light, wine etc. with no motive to satisfy yourself?

[rototime]

I believe should be more of a regular thing for mature couples. sometime can start off with no motive to satisfy myself, but many times, ended getting motivated while doing it.

I am a mature guy, and sometime feels orgasm is not the only outlet for satisfaction, and will sometime give my wife a sensual oil massage, minus the wine as she don't drink. and I use coconut oil with mixed drops of ylang ylang and lavender to spice things up for her, as she's no longer in the mood for sex, and hardly have the chance to orgasm when we do have sex, hence will very much appreciate a good sensual erotic yoni massage to help her to relax and release if she ask for it.. and for me. if turn on, just ask her to suck, or hand job, otherwise, I'll just end it without feeling frustrated, but with a feeling of having achieved something.

Very different when doing when we're younger.. For young couple, it may start off as just a massage, but considering the nature of erotic massage, young couple 100% of the time cannot resist ending the session with rough sex. LOL!!..

[superstiffy]

the last time i do that i kenna rape in the end...

[thedevil666]

Usually never last over 10mins.

[Stiebel]

Originally Posted by superstiffy

the last time i do that i kenna rape in the end...

Is this a bad thing?