Now hia .. I where got no heart. I give my heart to the cewek - when I am with them ... hehehe.
ya, the medicine I prescribe might taste bitter but its good for him .. this kinda of thing no other choice 1 lah.
jun[ch]:
you may 1 2 PM collin_23 for his personal advise - cos he went thru some sort of same path as you.
i tried many times this week to end it calmly for both of us.She would just tell me not to do that and she wants me to go over.
will collin_23 entertain my issue??u know i kinda of soft spoken and not the thick skinned type to go talk to someone.. so indeed he went thru something like tat then...i was thinking if someone can shares his past with me
Well you have a good girl from the looks of it. Good luck brother. You can PM me if it's private stuff.
yah she is a good girl...and i had several gfs before in singapore but never felt so happy when i was with her during my first trip and the first time i saw her. She was really nice to me and everything. I "did" her without condom for the first night and every subsequent time. She wants to have baby for me thinking that will keep me with her as she knows i am very soft hearted.Sometime to share about her,she just made a buddha which her grandma gave her to "give" to her future man she loved which she claims is more than a hundred year old buddha which is very hard to get...perhaps i do not know..i am a newbie..and she made the amulet with gold and paid for it with her monthly wages and wants to have it when i come next time...when staying with me over the weekends she never asked me for money to pay her barfine and allows mamasan to deduct her pay.
Unless she can quit and find another decent job and you go over to BKK and get yourself a job.. i dun se any possibility that this will last long.
Getting a job in BKK is not easy especially with foriegners who can't speak Thai. perhaps setting up some business is more a likely solution.
either, I can't think of anything for you, cos I duin know what's your strength and situation. I always believe love can be true and can be false at the same time.. the line between true love and false is ver very thin... true love can happen even in whore house much less a gogo bar..
Wahhhh very the CHIM man, if kena this type of "love story" is worst then whatever sickness in the world, the heart always felt like got 1 big stone on it wan, haizzzz CHIM ahhhhhh cow also die ahhhhh
my friends and colleagues says i am a living zombie since i went for bkk...everyday seems so difficult to pass..
This tells us that we need to excel in ourselves by making more money. Not just for this kind of situation but for all sorts of emergencies as well. Family, medical, taxes, etc.
Some people gave it a try and move to Thailand. It depends on which route you want to take.
It's her job and being sleepless about it is no use. If she is truly the rare good ones. She can easily survive 10000B allowance given by you. Also this depends whether she has a family to support. Few details I can't get the whole picture. PM me is you wish to.
yah i do not have the money to stay in BKK...she does not have to support her family as her parents were divorced and stays elsewhere...she is staying with her grandma...i wish her to stop work but how is it going to solve the issue of not able to keep her by my side?just yesterday weekend for the first weekend i did not go over to BKK...because i am so broke now and my company holds back my pay cheque...i am a freelancer btw...she cried over the phone last two nitex tellin me she miss me so much...i feel so helpless..
.....she cried over the phone last two nitex tellin me she miss me so much...i feel so helpless..
this is your weakness i supposed. she could be playing with your weakness. tell her you are broke and has no time to go. If she is really that good girl, she will be understanding and I supposed she will wait for u.
yah i do not have the money to stay in BKK...she does not have to support her family as her parents were divorced and stays elsewhere...she is staying with her grandma...i wish her to stop work but how is it going to solve the issue of not able to keep her by my side?just yesterday weekend for the first weekend i did not go over to BKK...because i am so broke now and my company holds back my pay cheque...i am a freelancer btw...she cried over the phone last two nitex tellin me she miss me so much...i feel so helpless..
Money is the primary decision for her to work. If u can't afford to pay for her living, she will not be by your side. Love dun have to c each other everydays. My gf in BKK but still we only meet once a mth in BKK. My gf do tell me she miss me, but we r thinking adult. We dun cry, whimp n feel sad helpless.... Face the fact, money makes the world go round n round. If u dun have the money to support her, there is a chinese saying, long pain is worse than short pain.
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this is your weakness i supposed. she could be playing with your weakness. tell her you are broke and has no time to go. If she is really that good girl, she will be understanding and I supposed she will wait for u.
she knows i am broke and tells me to go over whenever i wish to...she will wait for me...but i do not know if i should let her wait...hope u understand what i mean...i feeling very confused...
Money is the primary decision for her to work. If u can't afford to pay for her living, she will not be by your side. Love dun have to c each other everydays. My gf in BKK but still we only meet once a mth in BKK. My gf do tell me she miss me, but we r thinking adult. We dun cry, whimp n feel sad helpless.... Face the fact, money makes the world go round n round. If u dun have the money to support her, there is a chinese saying, long pain is worse than short pain.
yah i am aware of that...i feel so useless on my part not able to provide for her..the reason why i want to break up now cos i am aware of that proverb...but she wants to make the relationship...perhaps she is not aware of the "real problems" we need to face....for example the immigration part...i cant stay forever in bKK doing nothing..??
yah i am aware of that...i feel so useless on my part not able to provide for her..the reason why i want to break up now cos i am aware of that proverb...but she wants to make the relationship...perhaps she is not aware of the "real problems" we need to face....for example the immigration part...i cant stay forever in bKK doing nothing..??
thats the underlying issue ... I suspect she knows you would bring her to Sg .. eventually .. given that you are soft-hearted and received so may 'goodies' from her, your last resort is to stay with her in Sg.
thats the underlying issue ... I suspect she knows you would bring her to Sg .. eventually .. given that you are soft-hearted and received so may 'goodies' from her, your last resort is to stay with her in Sg.
no offence, just my wild guessing.
Initially she wanted to come over and stay with me...but because I told her my parents are the conservative type and me being the only child of the family...my parents are alittle skeptical towards thai ladies.Being protective over me after all...she knows she cant come over and decides for me to go over to stay for her...so i think she is genuine in askin me to do so...
21-03-2005, 12:53 PM
so indeed he went thru something like tat then...i was thinking if someone can shares his past with me
given that you are soft-hearted and received so may 'goodies' from her, your last resort is to stay with her in Sg.
