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Anyway time cannot turn backward. I'm suffering due to whatever I did wrongly previously or karma from past life. I accept my fate but it does't stop me from considering other options, especially now I'm not alone anymore.
I guess her parent knew about her condition since she was young and they just want to condone with it and expect someone to inherit her condition. Hopefully I am not wrong to pass such comment, I am sorry if I am wrong.
You may be chosen one in this life. Looks like so long as she don't mess around and you can roam relatively freely, I guess that's all you can do at this present moment.
Nothing is perfect in life and yours may be worst of than others, that's all.
I guess her parent knew about her condition since she was young and they just want to condone with it and expect someone to inherit her condition. Hopefully I am not wrong to pass such comment, I am sorry if I am wrong.
You may be chosen one in this life. Looks like so long as she don't mess around and you can roam relatively freely, I guess that's all you can do at this present moment.
Nothing is perfect in life and yours may be worst of than others, that's all.
Cheer up Bro.
No, her parents n my parents dunno our condition as she didn't want to disclose, and asked me not to. It will be better than winning sweep or Toto first price if she mess around, then divorce should be easier. I couldn't mess around freely as she controls my movement, and I always believe she will find out one fine what I've done outside, just a matter of time.
No, her parents n my parents dunno our condition as she didn't want to disclose, and asked me not to.
I am referring to her condition. If based on what you described is true then she is mentally not in order somehow somewhere. She is afraid of loosing you.
Take care, guess that you are just waiting for the time bomb to trigger then see how many people survive the explosion.
I am referring to her condition. If based on what you described is true then she is mentally not in order somehow somewhere. She is afraid of loosing you.
Take care, guess that you are just waiting for the time bomb to trigger then see how many people survive the explosion.
Thx! I believe in most marriage, there is be a few explosions, be it big or small. Now I'm just collecting the info/opinions/suggestions while anticipating the day to come.
Thx for the sharing bro! I tend to agree with ur statement "no human lives should be involved i.e abortion, suicide etc etc", at least for now.
Yes if i divorce with my wife n she is not commiting suicide, that will be ideal situation for me. But at the moment the odd seems very high, so I dare not make the move yet.
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Originally Posted by old_yet_horny
The whole saga really sounds familiar with my very own encounter... Had a lover in China and a wife in S'pore. Lover was with me for 3 years until i get my posting back to Singapore.
Seperated with my lover in China but I was lucky as i played the cards right in the very begining. I told her I am on expat package and contract is 3 years and depending on performance, extention is not promised. So company posted me back to s'pore after my contract and I bid her a gentlemen farewell. Took her few weeks to stop crying over our relationship...
Towards the end of my 3 years relationship with the lover, she wanted to bear my baby and even said the same thing like ..no need to bear any responsibilities over the child etc etc... Even though she is the making of a good mother (as I seen how she took care of her nephews and nieces) I am compelled to not a;llowing pregnancy to happen as I am not god and I cant predict the future, what will happen to her and the child if I am not around to support.
So summary is that... Just too bad, we met the right people but at the wrong timing. For now...as and when I go China for short visits, I will still meet her up for dinner and passionate sex if i happens to be near her.
Bro Korean... My opinion is that go with your feelings... and most importantly, no human lives should be involved i.e abortion, suicide etc etc.. Karma is double in your next life if these kind of stuffs happens.
If you have no children with your current wife and no more love in her.. move on. Both of you will be better without each other and if she dun commit suicide, or go mental, she will get over it in time, maybe years.. believe me.
As for your lover, i suggest you hold your horse until your current marriage is settled or over.. Reason being that you may just bump into someone who is really the right one for you later on in life.
looks like nobody is going to suggest me anything regarding disappearing act, and I got an urge to run away tmr as something happen today and I really cannot tahan.
looks like nobody is going to suggest me anything regarding disappearing act, and I got an urge to run away tmr as something happen today and I really cannot tahan.
You cannot tahan most likely because you already have someone else in your heart so as to speak, otherwise you wouldn't tahan for so many donkey years and until last two or three years then suddenly cannot make it.
Whatever you do, take good care of yourself others as well.
looks like nobody is going to suggest me anything regarding disappearing act, and I got an urge to run away tmr as something happen today and I really cannot tahan.
Disappear for a short holiday to take a break from the mundane routine .. is reasonable. Disappear to run away from the problem is just a temporary fix. Confront the problem is best.
You cannot tahan most likely because you already have someone else in your heart so as to speak, otherwise you wouldn't tahan for so many donkey years and until last two or three years then suddenly cannot make it.
Whatever you do, take good care of yourself others as well.
I don't deny that someone else has an impact to this. However even long ago before I met someone, I already had this in mind that I may disappear n rather lose everything n be alone than stay on, probably be monk or whatever.
For the past year till date, she stepped on my privacy, e.g. Forcing me to show her my hp, check on my message, we chat, email, browser history, contacts, phone record, open my letters, and even quietly steal my password list!
Disappear for a short holiday to take a break from the mundane routine .. is reasonable. Disappear to run away from the problem is just a temporary fix. Confront the problem is best.
I have this in mind too just to warn her not to disturb me again. But it may ruin my opportunity to disappear again in future. Also I dunno what will happen to her so the bullet cannot anyhow shot out
For the past year till date, she stepped on my privacy, e.g. Forcing me to show her my hp, check on my message, we chat, email, browser history, contacts, phone record, open my letters, and even quietly steal my password list!
This is really getting serious. Looks like she is suspecting something and getting to be a paranoid. As if you have done something wrong behind her back in the past or lately that causes her to feel insecure.
This is really getting serious. Looks like she is suspecting something and getting to be a paranoid. As if you have done something wrong behind her back in the past or lately that causes her to feel insecure.
U r mostly right. Long before I have any affair, she did check on me sometimes especially during quarrel (eg got woman outside, contact my first love). After she found out something on two occasions, things getting more serious. Recently I got threaten again when i hinted that I don't deserve her love to test her response.
Recently I got threaten again when i hinted that I don't deserve her love to test her response.
Then you better keep quiet and not speak more. You know when love turn into hatred, it's beyond normal understanding.
Again on the separate note, do take time to under the second one, no doubt you are very confident in the next happening but again do not allow history repeat itself in your future life. Drive slowly and carefully, not only patient and listening ears also observe and vigilant to whatever happening in front of your eye.
Then you better keep quiet and not speak more. You know when love turn into hatred, it's beyond normal understanding.
Again on the separate note, do take time to under the second one, no doubt you are very confident in the next happening but again do not allow history repeat itself in your future life. Drive slowly and carefully, not only patient and listening ears also observe and vigilant to whatever happening in front of your eye.
Take Care.
Thx for ur words. Yes looks like I gotta keep quiet for time being.
Yes I will take my time, as there is no return when the decision is made. I still dunno what is good for her thought, as it is another complicated matter. She is willing to give up everything in china to be with me, but she knows my problem.
05-02-2015, 10:28 AM
Re: mistress wants to bear baby
