no sex services offered to women??

[Pineapple]

This has got to the one of the most refreshing threads here. Very very intersting.. at least we have a 'different' point of view.. for the longest time it's all guys looking for sex.. now we have females looking for commercial sex too.. kudos..

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by onion_rings

..after a hard day work we can sit back read the post & enjoy..Time to move on???It's going to be a very tough fight against myself looking for FL "AGAIN" will continue to fight on till the battle is finally won!!!

Take such things with a pinch of salt..err, better wasabi Steady la, liked your honest siggie.. careful, schizo (sorry if bad spell) arh. But this battle you enjoy even if losing hehehe

[onion_rings]

Originally Posted by tissue

Definitely Ms tissue...

Basically, my husband and me are putting in efforts to ensure we can come up with new varieties of the simple rice dish and so far, it has been fun trying.

Should the day come when I get sick of rice, maybe, just maybe will I consider something else..

Well though ur married, of course u still got the rights to be add as MS...

It's good that yr husband & ur putting efforts in new varieties...Most impt both of u enjoy the process...

Btw woman are too unfathomable...Like looking needle in the hay stack...Though men sometime they will stray outside once a while but most of them will still go back to their wife EVENTUALLY...But if once a woman stray den mostly it means the relationship is almost or shld i say it's over...

Hope u will stick to the regular rice u eat...Even shld u really sick of the regular rice ur eating...No need to look for any male FL as long as ur still attractive

Originally Posted by yinyang

But this battle you enjoy even if losing hehehe:

Hahaha this personel battle is to test my own determination...

[dirtyhairy]

Even when I told BOSS Ah Sammy that he's a nit
for his comments about having tongue in cheek instead of tongue in clit,
He could see the joke, and remained unprovoked, he did not zap to choke
but when I post here nicely but good humouredly of
my skepticism on saucy threads with no results that ought to be scoffed
I woke up this morning to find a nameless nit zapped me three pointies
leaving behind the following (n28-04-2007 04:29 AM Diam lah... +++ so much cock... )
Me think me have a good idea who had zapped me to curb free speech
for starters, it shows the unnamed zapper has no balls, which
I would further add, could also mean a female dog tat ryhmes with beach
it is most disappointing that a forum such as this should have members
who will resort to threats and zaps when they could not take the heat
still your friendly, horny DirtyHairy forgives thee even kenna zapped a 3!

[WillamSexsphere]

Originally Posted by TyLa BaBy
Answering your query, I would definitely not feel guilty if I was not married. I've cheated on my ex-bfs and there was hardly any guilt to speak of. But going by current circumstances, I would definitely feel bad for "eating outside" because being a woman, there is still that romanticised thought of having my husband being the only one man in my life from the day we exchanged vows.

But naturally if my sex life with him dwindles down to nothing, then maybe the guilt wouldn't be there at all, because it's only natural to be seeking satisfaction from elsewhere when I can't get it from him. But it's only a "maybe"... I'll let you know again when I get there.

I didn't intend to throw the qns back to you at all because honestly few men would feel guilty about using a sex service. Afterall, the service is there to be perused, so what's there to be guilty about? However, if you were married (I'm assuming you're not), would you feel any guilt at all? Just curious. [/FONT]

Thanks for your honest response. I had always believe women are the ones will have the greatest difficulty in letting go of someone they had surrendered their all to. Women are very faithful beings, but only to the one they LOVE, a thing we men often confused with lust.

Thus, women would be more emotional and will not succumb to LUST easily. The emotional journey of love, for those who had experience it before, is painful enough, but for her to go thru that journey on a regular basis with changing partners would destablise her mentality, creating a sense of low esteem for herself in her private moments leading to an inferiority complex inside but coated with a projected superior and intimidating exterior to protect herself, with all kinds of self justifications for her actions which would never measure up to moral or ethical standards of society.

Would i be wrong in this assesment? Again, i would freely admit it's men or at least my perspective based on observations. Fear not that I judge for who am i but just another man who had probably did more morally and ethically wrong doings than anyone else in my own lifetime.

As for would i had feel guilt if i am married and seek sexual satisfaction outside, i readily admit i would. There were times when i lost my patience when faced with home and work stress. But what stopped me from breaking my vow of faithfulness was the sweet memories of times that were good with my wife, now my ex. I am probably a loser and sucker of love to many, but then i know the meaning of contentment and appreciation of another life shared with me. Marriage is more than just sex. A man's worth is judge by his bond to his vows.

That's just me, but for other married bros, i believe there are extenuating circumstancesthat made them broke their vow of faithfulness to seek WLs. But then, i cant and wont speak on behalf of married brothers on this issue, for i am not qualified, being single again.

I sincerly hope that you may not get there ( seek male FLs), but share a great marriage with your hubby. Cheers!



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[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by WillamSexsphere

As for would i had feel guilt if i am married and seek sexual satisfaction outside, i readily admit i would. There were times when i lost my patience when faced with home and work stress. But what stopped me from breaking my vow of faithfulness was the sweet memories of times that were good with my wife, now my ex. I am probably a loser and sucker of love to many, but then i know the meaning of contentment and appreciation of another life shared with me. Marriage is more than just sex. A man's worth is judge by his bond to his vows.

That's a very honest response from you, and it is well-appreciated indeed. A man's sincere point of view. Thank you.

As for your deductions on a woman who swaps partners, I must agree with you that it is very true indeed. I was in that phase for some years in my life, and it was just like how you described you. I must say you are very intuitive indeed. That's why now that I'm married, I try and fight the urge to stray towards having "fresh cocks" in my sex life, because ultimately sex is sex no matter how good it is. There's a bigger picture to life, and marriage is a big aspect of that as it consists of a life partner and a family of your own for LIFE.

Marriage is definitely more than just sex, but we can't deny that sex is quite a significant factor to having a blissful marriage as well. It's a route to bonding, mutual pleasure and (of course) procreation. So if the delicate balance of things get upset, marriages end up less than satisfactory and both partners suffer. Which is why I choose to be very honest with my husband about my needs, be it sexual or emotional. If we keep quiet about what we want, how can we expect our needs to be fulfilled? Partners aren't mind-readers.

[techienator]

everyone has his/her point here.. for me personally, marriage is an important stage in life where you and your partner will be stepping into.. its a journey that you and your loved one will travel down for the rest of your lives.. taking care and loving each other along the way, spending your lives together as one..sex is only part of the journey.. most importantly, marriage is to affirm your loved one as your soul mate and life partner.. this part is not an easy journey as two persons from different backgrounds will have to bond together and live together from there on by giving in to one another at times.. that will make up to a blissful marriage life.. i agreed with sis tyla_baby that partners are not mind readers.. imagine if your partner can read your mind like an open book, will you be comfortable with this partner around?? it just seemed that you might have lost your privacy and comfort zone..

just my two cents worth on this..

[Pussy-Licker]

Hi TyLa_BabY,

For me, I'm married but my sex live with my wife is not satisfaction and fulfilling as my wife is a very low sex drive woman and i only have sex with her about 2 to 3 time a year.

I don't feel guilty if I eat outside.

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

If I would ever have the need to "eat outside", then of course he would be the first to know, since it's BECAUSE he didn't sex me that's why I need to "tabao" mah... And as a woman, it is natural that I would complain to him about the lack of sex first. If he's clever, of course he would sex me good good before I start to "tabao"...

Honesty is the best policy when it comes to relationships, don't you agree?







Answering your query, I would definitely not feel guilty if I was not married. I've cheated on my ex-bfs and there was hardly any guilt to speak of. But going by current circumstances, I would definitely feel bad for "eating outside" because being a woman, there is still that romanticised thought of having my husband being the only one man in my life from the day we exchanged vows.

But naturally if my sex life with him dwindles down to nothing, then maybe the guilt wouldn't be there at all, because it's only natural to be seeking satisfaction from elsewhere when I can't get it from him. But it's only a "maybe"... I'll let you know again when I get there.

I didn't intend to throw the qns back to you at all because honestly few men would feel guilty about using a sex service. Afterall, the service is there to be perused, so what's there to be guilty about? However, if you were married (I'm assuming you're not), would you feel any guilt at all? Just curious.






Which part of my initial starting post contained any "cum-ons"? I was simply asking a question. It's up to the reader to interpret my obviously straightforward post. There was no intention to "seduce" or even "tease" anyone. Where else should someone ask a question regarding FLs if not here?

I can't blame anyone for thinking that it was supposed to be a "come hither" post. This is a sex forum afterall, but please do not mistaken my straighforward question as an open invitation requesting for sex.

Hope this clarifies my intentions.

Originally Posted by Pussy-Licker

Hi TyLa_BabY,

For me, I'm married but my sex live with my wife is not satisfaction and fulfilling as my wife is a very low sex drive woman and i only have sex with her about 2 to 3 time a year.

I don't feel guilty if I eat outside.

So how may times per month do you have sex with WLs ???

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by Pussy-Licker

Hi TyLa_BabY,

For me, I'm married but my sex live with my wife is not satisfaction and fulfilling as my wife is a very low sex drive woman and i only have sex with her about 2 to 3 time a year.

I don't feel guilty if I eat outside.

2-3 times a year?!?! U sure or not? That one is not called "low sex drive" anymore, it's called "no sex drive"!! Pardon me for my curiosity, but do you have any children? I don't know how you guys going to make babies when you only have sex 2-3 times a year lor...

And in your situation, I think it is very understandable when you "eat outside". How can anyone with a normal sex drive survive with that measly amount of sex?? Let alone you are a guy...

[tomvoyeur]

I always feel that the sex industry catered for women is underserved....looks like I should seriously look into building a biz in that area..hmmmmm....

Any partners???

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by tomvoyeur

..sex industry catered for women is underserved....looks like I should seriously look into building a biz in that area. Any partners???

You mean working partner? Enjoy fruits of your labour and get laid.. err, sorry paid

[justwanadoit]

doesn't happen to u la, i also even b4 married already start to feel sian, but though i still manage to get hard in CO [presence , i feel my hardness dwindling down to peeled banana as oppose3d to cucumber liao. i tao jiak outisde with FLs as i dun wan emotional attachment. but think i am losing it as 'the feeling' seemed to be wearing off, i am supposed to get married soon and already invested $ liao. guess i got nbigger probs here.

[tissue]

Originally Posted by onion_rings

Btw woman are too unfathomable...Like looking needle in the hay stack...Though men sometime they will stray outside once a while but most of them will still go back to their wife EVENTUALLY...But if once a woman stray den mostly it means the relationship is almost or shld i say it's over...

Not necessary..I have girl friends who had flings outside their marriage and they still went back to their husbands after the affair ended.

Originally Posted by onion_rings

Hope u will stick to the regular rice u eat...Even shld u really sick of the regular rice ur eating...No need to look for any male FL as long as ur still attractive

I guess the reason for me looking for male FL is why guys look for FL..I don't want an ONS as there is no guaranteed orgasms and no FB as I may get emotionally attached. Thus, the next logical step is to look for a FL.

Maybe, with money involved, I will not feel so guilty as it's just another transaction to me..

I think I'm still lookable but then again, one man's meat is another man's poison so my husband may think I'm the loveliest woman alive on this earth, another guy may think I'm the ugliest women since Patricia Mok went on TV.

I still love rice, even though the carbohydrates are killing me. I guess moderation is the key here

Cheers / tissue

[Niceman]

Sister Baby,

I think that bro is facing a tough one... i dun think is no sex drive, is really low sex drive cos happen to me too.....

With Children and works stress, my wife felt uneasy whenever I touched her, given all kind of excuses, such as, too sensitive, headache blah blah blah... all nonsense. I got pissed off and went to sleep in the living room

Nowadays things improves, duno why , but seem she now enjoying my touch these days.

Bro Pussy,

There is already a tread on this issue, go read up.