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#1561
16-10-2009, 11:02 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
Well, after reading this topic, i just asked myself if i did married the one i loved most. Thinking back all the things that had happen over the years, ya i think i did.
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#1562
17-10-2009, 10:03 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
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#1563
17-10-2009, 10:12 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
The one that I married is the one I love most.
I admit there are ups and downs all these years between us, she is still the best and most I love. She could have opted the far wealthier and better looking, yet she chose me.
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#1564
17-10-2009, 10:13 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
people... please don't quote the whole post unnecessary.
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#1566
18-10-2009, 01:50 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
WOW.. to those Bros who replied that they had married the one they love most.. I would say Congrats.. It not really easy to end up marrying the one u love most..
But end of the day.. marriage is a partnership between 2 parties and both play equal part in making it work.. Love is a powerfull ingredients in making this partnership successfull but it is not everthing..
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#1567
19-10-2009, 01:44 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
Cant agree more. Love is more hard work than anything else. To make a relationship work, both parties must pull equal weight. Understanding and faith is very important, you might not always buy her what she wants, do as per her fancy or say the right thing, but end of the day, the other person should always know that what matters most is your sincere love for her.
Being appreciative of even the most simple of things can help one treasure the people around you more. Never take anything for granted, which i believe all of us are guilty of in one way or another. Even for things you believe, you should be "entitled" to in a relationship (e.g. flowers, paying of meals etc). I hate to say this, as it is so cliche but yet poignant to me, " you never really miss it, till its gone forever". Take time out and show your loved ones how much they mean to you by just being there, its never too late. For all of us who had the agony of going through failed relationships, what i feel is if its not meant to be, then its not meant to be. People change, feelings change, nothing stays forever. C'est la vie. But a failed relationship should not be a deterrent to one's courage to give/receive love again. Good luck!
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#1568
25-10-2009, 02:21 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
Feelings can be misleading.You love her or rather you feel that you love her, because she had left, and you know that she is forever just a memory.
It can be just a nostalgia. Y late MJ's album sales surge like a bull run after his mishap? I mean, doesn't the album 'Thriller' sounds the sames b4 and after his departure, does it .
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#1570
25-10-2009, 02:45 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
i can only envy men that have
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#1571
25-10-2009, 04:25 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
Surprised that I will reply this thread again.
Dunno if this gal is for me. For days, I can be very caring and loving and think of many things to do for her. Pick her up from work and etc. I was very sure I want her to be my wife. Someone that I can look to and smile with, till old age. Then, when I sit back and think about some of the stuff she said... a bit inconsistent. She seemed to have lied many times. Once she said she was bz with work, then on another day she let slipped that she went somewhere else. Too often, I caught her committing the same nonsense. I dunno whether to forgive her. I'm tired. Am I suppose to pretend she had never lied? On some days, I cannot tahan, but to go gl to see other gals and tell myself that this gal is just a blardy whore. y people want to jepardise everything with stupid lies. I can't help but feel that she just making use of me.
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#1572
25-10-2009, 08:05 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
marriage is really hard work. Sex is just a small part of it, admist bigger problems.
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#1573
08-11-2009, 11:26 AM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
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#1574
08-11-2009, 01:05 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
Believe me...never divulge ur dark life with her. Cos once she knew ur past sins, she may forgive but never forget!
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#1575
09-11-2009, 06:57 PM
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Re: The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?
A woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life to be thankful for a good one....same goes for man i guess....
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