You study statistics would be able to back calculate.
Just go CPF website, find the contribution rate, do up an assumption of his age, and average salary with a certain confidence level and find your own answer.
My point was 37 years old then can buy first house? Isn't that a bit late?
When I said forced I meant cause I became age 33 with no savings due to bad career decisions and slacking on first or first few jobs, that's why I said I couldn't see a way out anymore and was thus forced to visit a ML or prostitute.
Think your priority now is to get a job, not temp or gig type but those with a career path.
Now with skill future there are many companies searching for trainees but mainly technical fields.
Get a job to build your saving then only talk about wife or gf. Take care of yourself first.
I had all along wanted to get a full time job upon graduation in 2014, but because my grades got sabotaged by army trauma that's why I didn't know what job to work as. Plus because I slacked in first few jobs plus a bad career choice led to today. I think if given a choice everyone would prefer full time income rather than keep trying and error for part time? Even if it's first job? No?
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Just my two cents worth - Apologies in advance first cos I am going to be very blunt.
The saying that "your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time" will not work if we are just going to sit there lepak until the gf magically pops into existence before us. The saying, as I see it, is meant to tell us that we shouldn't obsess over the pursuit/acquisition of a soulmate when there are a lot of other things we can do to improve our lives as a whole. Like building our self esteem, getting out of whatever funk that we are in, putting in place the foundation blocks that we can build our future upon.
I will go as far as to say that I feel that your priorities are quite warped, and that if you don't find intrinsic motivation to push yourself forwards then there is not much that any of us here can help you with.
As a person working in digital marketing, I will tell you straight up to stay away from social media. A lot of it is MeiTuXiuXiu in the sense that people glam up whatever they post online in order to appear more successful, when they actually aren't. Very easy to fall into consumption and confidence traps when you stay on it for too long.
Marketing yourself is not inherently wrong, but it is not what you should be focusing on right now. No matter how new and shiny a $2 note is, it will never have as much value and appeal as a crumpled up $50 note.
You mentioned in one of your replies that you are unable to get a perm job because your resume is bad. Try and find sometime to go do volunteer work. Explore the gig economy. Focus solely on building a resume for the next two years, if you don't mind the rejection, mass apply for perm jobs every six months. The first parts improves your connections, credibiility, consistency. Treat the mass application for perm jobs as scouting. Try to land as many interviews as you can - observe the kind of questions that the companies ask so that you know where you can plot next.
Don't need to apologize, I would rather you be blunt.
I had all along wanted to get a full time job upon graduation in 2014, but because my grades got sabotaged by army trauma that's why I didn't know what job to work as. Plus because I slacked in first few jobs plus a bad career choice led to today. I think if given a choice everyone would prefer full time income rather than keep trying and error for part time? Even if it's first job? No?
The gig economy suits you. You can be a grab PHV, work hard and earn decent.
Discipline and hardwork is key to turning your life around. Don't think about girls now la. If your attitude towards work is wait until the perfect job comes or you want easy job then no... you will be stuck in a rut.
The gig economy suits you. You can be a grab PHV, work hard and earn decent.
Discipline and hardwork is key to turning your life around. Don't think about girls now la. If your attitude towards work is wait until the perfect job comes or you want easy job then no... you will be stuck in a rut.
I want to hear curtains and moan beside, and not career coaching
Paiseh, no choice, I may need some advice in life. My life has been oppressed until the extent where I almost committed suicide, thanks largely to NS and its toxic culture.
Paiseh, no choice, I may need some advice in life. My life has been oppressed until the extent where I almost committed suicide. Thanks largely to NS and its toxic culture.
Paiseh, no choice, I may need some advice in life. My life has been oppressed until the extent where I almost committed suicide. Thanks largely to NS and its toxic culture.
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
No one gonna pity me, that's why I keng during the last 2 reservists lor. Since reservist not going to feed us also what. Of course I can't help myself that's why I posted here sharing and asking for advice?
Nus grad doesn't necessarily mean can get a decent job.
Lol I have been fapping to porn since 2011 almost everyday, so don't just speak without knowing or speaking like acting smart.
How is not wanting to work in dead end jobs with no prospects ai pee ai chee?
And no, my NS trauma goes beyond just meeting unpleasant people. Meeting unpleasant people does not cause suicide.
Why should cb be the last thing we worry about if you only had 1 hour left to live?
You think I don't want to work my ass off? I can't find a job which is not a dead end job. And no, the second best time to start was 1 second after 15 years ago.
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
You think if given a choice I wish to be 34 and still living and relying on my parents? It is shameful if a man can't walk out of his house you know? Who would choose this? Obviously things led up to this right? That's why know before you speak.
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