Wife having Affairs

[bart]

Threadster,

I know it must hurt like hell that your wife was cheating on you. But there might be an opportunity lying here. If you can get over the cheating thing and reconcile, you will always have the upper hand in the relationship from now on.

Read about Donaldduck's account here, he was the cheating party, but now his relationship is superb. So there's a chance things may work out well.

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[eugene8tan]

Originally Posted by Acerpac

Be cool bro. I'm having the same problem now. No evidence yet. But if she's doing with the other party, no my frz, she's for sure gonna do it raw as she's very anti-condom. She'll complain pain if bonking with condom and complain no "feel" also. That's what happened during our courtship time. sigh...

Look like your partner and mine have the same concept. Either raw or dont do it at all.....

[virginboy926]

Originally Posted by Acerpac

Be cool bro. I'm having the same problem now. No evidence yet. But if she's doing with the other party, no my frz, she's for sure gonna do it raw as she's very anti-condom. She'll complain pain if bonking with condom and complain no "feel" also. That's what happened during our courtship time. sigh...

If things are not working out. i have seen a friend of mine brought her gf to a gyn and test for sperm in vagina with DNA evaluation, which cost a few hundreds. But it must do within 20 to 48 hours from last sexual intercourse.

Ultimately, the girl was innocent , however, this practise was once prove several rape case.

Hope this help.

Regards
VB

Bro eugene..is she still staying with u or what? or is she out fooling again? sorry if my word is to rude..

[eugene8tan]

Originally Posted by labtec

Bro eugene..is she still staying with u or what? or is she out fooling again? sorry if my word is to rude..

She is staying at her mum now but came back occassionally to talk to me, which I ignored her. Sometimes when Im back from work, I found out that she had actually cook dinner. This had never happen before.

[BangBalls]

hi bros.. haiz.. i came across this thread yesterday.. and i really wish to say is wat has been said here is happening to me nw.. and really i tot i always cum in here to look for abit of fun n dun mind me sayin but i guess mayb its my retribution. juz last nite i found out my gf of so long & the 1 i reali love my whole 26yr of life hv been slping wif my best frend.. slping wif sum1 i call BROTHER!! sum1 that i meet up every2 day to drink.. everytime my gf n i gt arguement, i will always meet up wif my bro to drink n 4 the past few weeks he always rush off suddenly n i always tot he go meet gals coz he always hv many flings., till last nite another frend told me wat happen n i confront them n they admit. you knw hw painful it is?? im totally lost.. lost my gf n best frend.. i cannt understand y frends will do tis behind ur back.. i hv nv had any interest in my frends gf or wivies,,. reali v.un fair n they skpet nt onli once but many times.. imagine hw i feel nw when i realize that when my gf n i are ok, we group of frends meet up to drink n they are alrdy slping togther..
it reali SUCKS>.. im very sad n angry at the same time

[blackslayer]

Originally Posted by eugene8tan

She is staying at her mum now but came back occassionally to talk to me, which I ignored her. Sometimes when Im back from work, I found out that she had actually cook dinner. This had never happen before.

Does her mum knows about this problem? i think she is trying to salvage the relationship..did she still cries when u talk to her or what now? Give urself more time..bro..

[NathanG5]

seriously if she can betray u by sleeping with your friends...she might be thinking of something else now....
i think the only thing that is stopping her from doing anything stupid now is that diary..with that diary u can divorce n she wont get anything at all..
n i bet she knows abt it..its the only thing that can prove of her adultery..
im not sure if you are rich or poor..but its just one of the possibility..
maybe she just wanna get the diary back..thats y trying her best to woo u back..

ask yourself this question...do u still love her?

[giggz83]

Bro Eugene,

i think the best thing you should do, is for her to leave you.

sad to say .. it hurts, but, this too will past.

[Mr Banana]

Bro Nathan ther has a really gd point..wad if her intention is jus to get her diary back?
Eugene, i noe how u feel as i hv oso been thru something somewhat the same as u, only diff is, she was my ex gf n nt my wife. jus to share my experience wif u n wad i did, which was to leave her immediately..Althou she was in tears n begging me for another chance, no matter how, the heart cannot soft. Cos knowing her character, she wud hv oso left me like Beckham left MAN U if i had banged 1 of her frens behind her back..
tat incident took away alot of faith i had in relationships. it took me quite along time n alot of alcohol to finally get over her...Now, i m happy wif another gf n better still, she luvs me more than i luv her..best part is i post pics of wads happening in my life in my frenster ac cos i noe my ex sometimes will come n beo my profile...reason cos like wad u said....showing her tat u r happier n living a better life than u were wif her, is the best revenge...

cheers n stay strong...

[eugene8tan]

I think all bros thinking are the same as mine. Maybe she is out for her diary, or maybe she really regretted her doings. But her diary is now at the safe place.

She cried last night when she came home asking for forgiveness. I just told her I still need some time on my own. Haiz.....I know I can forgive her but it is really hard to forget.....

Now I really dont know if I still love her.......

[hccheonger]

I think she cannot be a wife but only girlfriend. Unless you really dont mind or your are into something fetish and like your wife to to f*** by many others.

How will your kids react if they know that their mother is a loose woman and fuck raw with many guys.

I pity you for what had happened. My opinion is that you should find another wife. How to live with a wife for your whole life knowing that she has fantasy to sleep with other guys.

A new life with a new wife should be a better alternative.

Its just my opinion.

Cheers!

I think the main thing is that third party which is the best friend is the culprit of this relationship problem, sometimes couple do quarrels and they often each confide in their own friends. Friends of the opposite sex can sometime take advantage of the situation, not all friend i mean minority will do have that tendency to so call "comfort" their friend. So whenever some of my friend told me her gf is going out to new guy or guy friend too often i would say try harder go out with her often make some interesting dating or surprises like sending her gifts.....hope it help some of the brother

[HeadOn]

piece of advice for bros here..

if u have frens or so called buddies who are known to have flings, one night stands frequently, pls beware of them esp if they do hang out with u n ur partners in gp outings or so..cos they're the one likely to end up bonking ur partner..these kinda guys usually have weaker mindset n will do wrong things to u..

of cos not all are like tat..just tat u have to be aware..

[BangBalls]

Haiz...... really v.sian wan... cant slp cant eat cant work
the thought of it reali make me very angry.. i sincerely hope
it doesnt happen to any bros out there.. lost my GF lost my frends..
and the fact they slpt tog afew times reali make me v.v.v.v.piss off..
tot of gon out to have fun but gt no more frends.. tot of go find FLs but
when i tink of my gf i lost all the mood.. me n my gf use to stay tog nw im all
alone.. plus wat i heard yest was they r out tog almost everyday while im suffering here like hell,, going thru hell thinking wat the f23k when wrg.. for me is reali simple.. i will nv hv any tot on my frends partner to matter hw pretty of even if she offer cox its reali v.wrg but y sum guys cant think like tat.. nw reali reali v.v.sad.. any advice bro??