The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by HCKing

sounds good but IMHO not possible, as everything in this world will change.

feelings will change, ppl will change, nothing stays forever.

even if u dont change, doesnt mean she wont change, which is y i still believe that love is fated.

agree with this phrase..

But sometimes, it's fated to pass us by, or it comes into our lives too late...

[deathnitez]

Same I didn't even proposed to my wife she just wanna get married cause she loves me and she feel her age is ripe or maybe the other way round. Sometimes i abit regret do.... but i feel like what some say when they love you more then you love them they are more willing to compromise on a lot of things. So hmmm give and take....

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by kittymae

agree with this phrase..

But sometimes, it's fated to pass us by, or it comes into our lives too late...

sad but true as we hv no control over fate. just gotta try to see open whatever happens and live a happy life.

[pfingo]

Originally Posted by deludedgal

define love?

Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment. It is the greatest feeling in the world to love and be loved

[LovePotion]

em... i truely agree... becos i believe no matter how strong ur love is as times goes by it would still fade

[deludedgal]

Originally Posted by LovePotion

em... i truely agree... becos i believe no matter how strong ur love is as times goes by it would still fade

hmm.. but i don't think the love for my parents and siblings will even fade..

[royalblood]

Originally Posted by deludedgal

hmm.. but i don't think the love for my parents and siblings will even fade..

love with parents won't fade. it is the only kind of love that is eternal.

siblings might fade. there are instances where siblings sue each other for inheritance etc.

love between lovers/partners/marriage will fade also. there are billions of people in the world, there is a possibility if meeting a better one than your current. but some people just stay with the current one because they're used to it and they don't want to risk not being able to have a companion when they break up and woo the new target.

[pfingo]

The Marriage Zone
 
Most men – average men – can only begin enjoying life at age 29 the way women do at
age 19 because it takes them that long to gain the resources women find attractive. The
point in life where men’s and women’s access intersect is the marriage zone. She has to
get him to commit in that zone before he realizes that his life is really just starting. My
recommendation: she’s enjoyed her “wild and free” days, so avoid marriage and go enjoy
yours. Travel. Sex up a variety of women. Explore your hobby now that you have both
the time and resources to do so. In short, live life with the access of a carefree 19 year old
party girl.
 
Ages 15 to 19: The chart starts at age 15. Here women are at an access level of 8, which
means they can pretty much do whatever they want whenever they want. By the time
she’s 19 and has a fake ID, she soars up to a 10 which means the world is her oyster.
Your average man in this same category is lucky if he gets a bl0wj0b from the ugly chick
in 2nd period, and feels truly fortunate if he can keep a steady girlfriend and get laid on a
semi regular basis.
 
Ages 20 to 25: Women are at their peak during most of this time, and even though their
access starts to decline, it declines only because they themselves are being more selective
while staging for marriage. Men during this time are steadily learning how to deal with
women and are increasing their earning potential, so things are getting slowly better. Still,
they haven’t reached the level of access that their female counterparts have enjoyed since
age 15.
 
Age 26 to 28: This is the start of the marriage zone. Women’s clocks are ticking, and
men have finally turned a job into a career. Though women’s access is still at a very high
8, she notices the men around her have more choices. They’ve reached an access level of
7 and are steadily rising. Though she gets roughly the same amount of attention from men
that she used to, she notices the men are far less likely to catch oneitis in her presence.
Men are getting smarter and they have more options because of their increased access.
She has to get him to commit as soon as possible before he realizes just how numerous
his options really are.
 
Age 29 to 30: This is a superb time for men to be alive. The tables have now turned.
She’s finally learned that while finding d1ck takes very little effort, finding *committed*
d1ck isn’t as easy as she was told it would be. Even though she screwed up in the
marriage zone and wasn’t able to secure a partner, she’s going to stay on the prowl and be
“in it to win it”.
 
Age 31 and up: As her sexual and marriage market value slowly decreases, so does her
access to committed d1ck. Meanwhile, the men who were smart enough to avoid her in
the marriage zone have a long and happy life ahead of them. Even at age 40 – if they are
successful and have stayed in shape – these men can find a 28 year old woman to bear
their children if they want. The men have nothing to lose. The women continue to slowly
decline until they settle for a beta or convince themselves that being a career woman in
Cougarville was really what they wanted all along.
 
After men avoid the marriage zone, their access soars. They can enjoy a series of
fulfilling monogamous relationships with women who are on their best behavior since
they’re desperately trying to get married, and fill in the time in between these
relationships by banging easy targets such as single mothers, divorcees, and rabid
feminists who are second guessing their decisions. So gentlemen, stay in shape. Focus on
your career, build a stable financial portfolio, and keep your access soaring. If you
absolutely must have a child, do it in your late 30’s or early 40’s with a hot little number
in her 20’s. It can happen. If you’re like me and children aren’t in your future, the
possibilities are endless.
 
Avoid the marriage zone!

[soothHerOnlyIf]

good points. looks like sillypore need to work really really hard to increase our population before it gets to the point of no return. imo, just enjoy.

[naan1974]

It's all about timing... you are lucky if you meet the one you love when you are ready to get marry.

[Iluminati]

wow good article pfingo!

[VoltaRedonda]

Originally Posted by kengohchien

love fades after marriage.

if you marry someone you dont love, you have a lifetime to learn to love the person. and in the end, love just fades off to a mutual need for companionship.

Maybe we should all not marry the one we love for fear that marriage erodes the love.

love doesn't last forever.

If you fear that marriage erodes that love, then you shouldnt love at all. You marry the one you love so at least both parties know they are willing to commit to that love. If love doesn't last forever, our human race will corrode.

[pfingo]

Originally Posted by Iluminati

wow good article pfingo!

Thank u bro a lot of truths in it

[Chilloutsex]

Based on the research studies, women are more unhappy after marriage than before marriage, and man tends to be more happier after marriage. This is because women plays more social roles in a marriage such as mother, housewife and career woman. Thus studies have shown that lesser women these days are willing to settle down comparing to guys. Higher percentage of married women and single male tends to have depression comparing to single women and married males.

Women these days rather concentrate on career cos career is Able to give higher financial rather than just depending on guys. I know many females friends who rather remain single.

Just my 2 cents opinion.

[Fanglee]

Great sharing on this article!!

Originally Posted by pfingo

The Marriage Zone
 
Most men – average men – can only begin enjoying life at age 29 the way women do at
age 19 because it takes them that long to gain the resources women find attractive. The
point in life where men’s and women’s access intersect is the marriage zone. She has to
get him to commit in that zone before he realizes that his life is really just starting. My
recommendation: she’s enjoyed her “wild and free” days, so avoid marriage and go enjoy
yours. Travel. Sex up a variety of women. Explore your hobby now that you have both
the time and resources to do so. In short, live life with the access of a carefree 19 year old
party girl.
 
Ages 15 to 19: The chart starts at age 15. Here women are at an access level of 8, which
means they can pretty much do whatever they want whenever they want. By the time
she’s 19 and has a fake ID, she soars up to a 10 which means the world is her oyster.
Your average man in this same category is lucky if he gets a bl0wj0b from the ugly chick
in 2nd period, and feels truly fortunate if he can keep a steady girlfriend and get laid on a
semi regular basis.
 
Ages 20 to 25: Women are at their peak during most of this time, and even though their
access starts to decline, it declines only because they themselves are being more selective
while staging for marriage. Men during this time are steadily learning how to deal with
women and are increasing their earning potential, so things are getting slowly better. Still,
they haven’t reached the level of access that their female counterparts have enjoyed since
age 15.
 
Age 26 to 28: This is the start of the marriage zone. Women’s clocks are ticking, and
men have finally turned a job into a career. Though women’s access is still at a very high
8, she notices the men around her have more choices. They’ve reached an access level of
7 and are steadily rising. Though she gets roughly the same amount of attention from men
that she used to, she notices the men are far less likely to catch oneitis in her presence.
Men are getting smarter and they have more options because of their increased access.
She has to get him to commit as soon as possible before he realizes just how numerous
his options really are.
 
Age 29 to 30: This is a superb time for men to be alive. The tables have now turned.
She’s finally learned that while finding d1ck takes very little effort, finding *committed*
d1ck isn’t as easy as she was told it would be. Even though she screwed up in the
marriage zone and wasn’t able to secure a partner, she’s going to stay on the prowl and be
“in it to win it”.
 
Age 31 and up: As her sexual and marriage market value slowly decreases, so does her
access to committed d1ck. Meanwhile, the men who were smart enough to avoid her in
the marriage zone have a long and happy life ahead of them. Even at age 40 – if they are
successful and have stayed in shape – these men can find a 28 year old woman to bear
their children if they want. The men have nothing to lose. The women continue to slowly
decline until they settle for a beta or convince themselves that being a career woman in
Cougarville was really what they wanted all along.
 
After men avoid the marriage zone, their access soars. They can enjoy a series of
fulfilling monogamous relationships with women who are on their best behavior since
they’re desperately trying to get married, and fill in the time in between these
relationships by banging easy targets such as single mothers, divorcees, and rabid
feminists who are second guessing their decisions. So gentlemen, stay in shape. Focus on
your career, build a stable financial portfolio, and keep your access soaring. If you
absolutely must have a child, do it in your late 30’s or early 40’s with a hot little number
in her 20’s. It can happen. If you’re like me and children aren’t in your future, the
possibilities are endless.
 
Avoid the marriage zone!