Wife don't like sex

[Opti]

My sympathy to you and myself. Hi all, I am new. I have been reading this forum for sometime but never register an account until now. Really heartfelt feelings. Most of us Guys are in the same position. Singapore is a stews country. As supported by research, birthrate in city are always lower then suburb. Everyone are stress here. One suggestion, cut more expenses and go more on tour or holiday, promise u will have better sex life.

I am a Law academic, what I can say is, in term of Law, the only reason one get married is because of Legalised sex. My sister had divorced because of this. No sex for 2years. And she loves kid. So she decided to do so.

I am facing same problem also. Once a month. Sometime twice a month. Really making me sick and frustrated. Someone I try to kiss her on the bed, she keep Siam me and say very tired want to sleep. Sometime I kept thinking why did I marry her. Lolx. Hai..... Let's endure and see what to do la..

[darylcch]

exactly the same as mine..i couldnt even hug her..
i dont know how many donkey yrs didnt get a kiss from her liao..forgotten how it feels..

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Opti

I am a Law academic, what I can say is, in term of Law, the only reason one get married is because of Legalised sex. .

I once heard a joke that we get married so that we can have sex legally and our children won't be born bastards.

[Ah Goo]

My wife don't like BBBJ. She used to do it like 30 secs, then gave up and asked me to enter her.

Now sex is rare. Finally yesterday we had sex, but it was not satisfying at all, considering we didn't do it for awhile. I didn't even feel that she is there with me.

No wonder many bros eat out. Becos those FL replace those gfs or wife feeling.

[ahbey]

Originally Posted by Ah Goo

My wife don't like BBBJ. She used to do it like 30 secs, then gave up and asked me to enter her.

Now sex is rare. Finally yesterday we had sex, but it was not satisfying at all, considering we didn't do it for awhile. I didn't even feel that she is there with me.

No wonder many bros eat out. Becos those FL replace those gfs or wife feeling.

My wife not really enjoy sex before we marry...but after 1st kid she get more enjoy sex and more daring into Bbbj .....

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Ah Goo

No wonder many bros eat out. Becos those FL replace those gfs or wife feeling.

Bro if you looking for that then you are only heading for trouble cos end of the day you will find yourselves in a KC relationship which will end up in one big mess. For me personally I go for FL just so I can relieve and sextisfy myself. Its all physical for me nothing to do with feelings.

[imodel]

Originally Posted by Opti

My sympathy to you and myself. Hi all, I am new. I have been reading this forum for sometime but never register an account until now. Really heartfelt feelings. Most of us Guys are in the same position. Singapore is a stews country. As supported by research, birthrate in city are always lower then suburb. Everyone are stress here. One suggestion, cut more expenses and go more on tour or holiday, promise u will have better sex life.

I am a Law academic, what I can say is, in term of Law, the only reason one get married is because of Legalised sex. My sister had divorced because of this. No sex for 2years. And she loves kid. So she decided to do so..

Bro can intro your sister to me not? She will have 2 years of unlimited supply from me and i will take good care of her.

[TickTock]

Originally Posted by imodel

Bro can intro your sister to me not? She will have 2 years of unlimited supply from me and i will take good care of her.

hahaha....let us know if Bro Opti does intro u ya....

[HayHot]

Originally Posted by hsbc

I have known a lot of people complaining no interest in sex. I guess may be there is no 'freshness' in the love making. If your wife really has no interest in SEX, you should ask her to try out Germany Sex Drops!! I used it on my wife few days back and it arouse her and make her Horny in few mins! Unbelievable. Any one of you ever try it out? I am sure you would love to share the experience here. Interesting and effective product.

Why not you give free samples to all bros here so that we can test if it's real ? You really seems intend on promoting this, appear on almost every post you made since you join sbf.

[jbuster]

I did have a talk with my wife about the no sex/bj part. Said now she just doesn't enjoy it anymore and doesn't feel the need. Partly also said she is stress at work, with the kids etc. When I did tell her about my needs, she said just have to respect her decision and learn to "deal with it". What's that supposed to mean? FL?

[Saurus]

I once had a gf who did not like sex, no matter what I tried. Each time we did it made me feel as though she was just accomodating me, which spoils the mood. Or maybe I was not good enough, but it can be very demoralizing

[fsound75]

Hi all, had been following this thread since I have join SBF. This thread caught my attention as I am also searching for an answer. Now I believed I am not just one of the unfortunate, envy those bros here who still enjoyed great sex with wife. Wondering when will be mine?

Just a quick intro of my story, known her ard 2years. We had great sex life before marriage. Tried everything expect back door. Hehe still remembering the moment back in my mind.

After that got married And have kids, things totally changed! Just like married to another girl! No kissing, hugging and seldom have sex. Just like a stranger! Plus bought A dozen of condom also can't finish in a year. Expired Liao still got to heart pain pain and throw away. Sign

Asked her why, she said tired, stress over kids, finance stress, no time, not interested in sex, why am I comparing with newly wed and young couples we are in a diff stage of life! All the etc....crap reasons!

She had no time for me But willing to wake up early Or turn in late to update blogs and chat with forum mummies and her mum for kids stuffs.

Every time, asked her tonight can have love making session, she replied, I never promise you tonight can do leh. Wah, need to booked appointment! Sian Liao. Ask again how or what I must do in order to have a session? She said, unless I do all house work. Cos few years back we had a maid but now no more. Dun say I never do hor, I also help her when I can. Hehe So is my wife using reward basis to reward me to a session?? I don't understand.

Spoke to her and had a heart to heart talk.i told her She had neglected me. I asked her do you still have feelings for me, she answered, is more used to have me ard rather than feelings for me. I told something is wrong with our relationship and she insisted nothing is wrong with our relationship and problems dun lies on her, problems lies on me. she said she will TRY to make the effort to improve but before and after chat seems no diff except that day heart to heart chat. Hehe earn a great love making session.

Sign.....I felt lost, I had been enduring almost 10yrs. Without sufficient sex and all I can is just watch porn and pcc.

We are in our early 30s. Was hoping that when she reach mid 30s, miracle will happen. Every time think back, why? Why this will happen to me.
I very stress Liao, Thou of going to the worst case but like bros here mention, disadvantage in our finance side and also for the sake of kids. Stress level very high Liao, every night hugged loneliness to sleep. didn't I contribute as much as her? Bring money home, be their driver, house chores, whatever She request, I always say "ok", "no prob" but this is what I get and deserve.

Sorry for my long boring sour story from my bottom of my heart.just got rejected 1 hr ago that's why to depress......cheers bros! Good night.

[jbuster]

[QUOTE=fsound75;5706930]she insisted nothing is wrong with our relationship and problems dun lies on her, problems lies on me.

Bro I feel for you, to write such a post, you must have been really frustrated. Same thing to me as well. She felt nothing is wrong and nothing has changed. Problem is with us MEN! WTF! Anyhow, I am a semi cheongster to satisfy my gratification

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by jbuster

she said just have to respect her decision and learn to "deal with it". What's that supposed to mean? FL?

1. PCC to release
2. License for you to cheong.

End of the day tell her don't kpkb if you really go kio kway.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by fsound75

After that got married And have kids, things totally changed! Just like married to another girl! No kissing, hugging and seldom have sex. Just like a stranger! Plus bought A dozen of condom also can't finish in a year. Expired Liao still got to heart pain pain and throw away. Sign

welcome to the club, for me i learn either to buy in pack of 3 which would normally take me more then half a year to finish..if pack of 12 then i use for FL which will take me 4 months to finish..

Hehe So is my wife using reward basis to reward me to a session?? I don't understand.

I read a article somewhere that wives and gfs are no different from prostitute cos you have to pay a price in some kind just so to get to screw them. Be it a dinner, some gifts etc but generally it entails doing something in return so that they are pleased enough to be fuck.

Any just follow the monster theory of 4Ls. First "loong", if cannot tahan then jio your buddies go KTV and "lim". After intoxicated proceed to "lum" the KTV gals then finally bring her to a hotel and "loot".