Is money everything to women? No more true love?

[HeadOn]

Originally Posted by Nato17

Must be backdoor or raw right?

Just teasing bro.

But seriously, I don't mind spending the money but why should it be when a girl opens her mouth she must get it? Like that next time she will ask for a Villa then I also have to provide. Fuck that!

Tat really depend on the gal character. Mine knows m busy so doesn't bug me on we chat to see her. Only when I asked how is she doing then she says miss me n I will go c her. N cos I give her my timing she will always plan her dinner before I arrived n will reject any potential booking if she knows she can't make it on time w me which one time got scolded by her okt for turning away bookings cos I will b there in 10 min time .

But till the time she left she didn't asked anything from me. Tats is why I still feel painful seeing her left me

U tell me, based in ur vast experiences on gals, my regular type go where find !

[korean]

Originally Posted by Nato17

Like I said some women are extremely materialistic. Some aren't. Thank God for that. The above case is a good example. I seldom come across FLs or WLs to open mouth so fast. Open mouth, I don't really mind because I can afford it. But fricking demanding it? WTF do women think they are? I mean come on...are women being trained to open mouth and think that they deserve things? And seriously, I think notyourbabe is exactly like that and think she deserves everything. And call it she has an opinion!

I've encountered a ex-WL who invited me to universal studio after just my first visit with her. I tot it was just friendly gesture so I did consider but later she said we can go shopping to buy gift. I realized that it us more than a friendly gesture so I told her I won't go as i don't have money to buy her any gift. She still dare to reply me that she didnt mind even if very affordable gift (can't remember the exact words). So I started to ignore her wechat msg (always ask me to visit her) until she msg me that it was okay if I didn't reply her as she was going to go back soon. After seeing that I replied her telling her tat I won't visit any wl anymore as I had a regular and will only visited her. She told me (not in exact words and I couldn't trace back the msg as my previous phone enjoyed the free ride with me in adventure cove waterpark lol) 好好对她吧！ 奉劝你一句，在这个逢场作戏的环境里别太认真。

[tiffanytan]

Originally Posted by honda81234

Actually it is just from a man point of view or a woman point of view in this topic...there are good man and woman out there still...life is already so tough out there and I believe most of here in this forum is here to relax n enjoy right...

It's really about what each man and woman want...a woman want her husband to spend on her because she wanna feel loved and it's the thoughts that count not the content...sometimes it's good to get gifts for your partners to let them know that you have them in heart given that most of us spend our time in ofc...

When it comes to woman wanna milk a guy money, seriously this type of thing is 一个愿打一个愿挨...cannot complain one la...guys spend time n effort on woman to 'Sian' them ma...some look for sex some look for feelings but one common thing is the target most likely is chiobu...

For some woman that is out to milk a guy's money...actually the guy can just walk away one ma, there is a whole forest outside why die die must want her?

No offense to anyone here...just my humble thoughts...perhaps if we can have couples giving their point of view in this topic will be more interesting...more fair...

Super agree!! I can't agree with you more..

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by korean

I've encountered a ex-WL who invited me to universal studio after just my first visit with her. I tot it was just friendly gesture so I did consider but later she said we can go shopping to buy gift. I realized that it us more than a friendly gesture so I told her I won't go as i don't have money to buy her any gift. She still dare to reply me that she didnt mind even if very affordable gift (can't remember the exact words). So I started to ignore her wechat msg (always ask me to visit her) until she msg me that it was okay if I didn't reply her as she was going to go back soon. After seeing that I replied her telling her tat I won't visit any wl anymore as I had a regular and will only visited her. She told me (not in exact words and I couldn't trace back the msg as my previous phone enjoyed the free ride with me in adventure cove waterpark lol) 好好对她吧！ 奉劝你一句，在这个逢场作戏的环境里别太认真。

Not all are bad. That I am sure. Met some who have been sincere even after they return. But that is rare as hell. Most are after money and we men are just after sex. Fuck and forget basically. The WL u mentioned reminds me of 2 WLs who did something similiar. Rolfmao.

[korean]

Originally Posted by Nato17

Not all are bad. That I am sure. Met some who have been sincere even after they return. But that is rare as hell. Most are after money and we men are just after sex. Fuck and forget basically. The WL u mentioned reminds me of 2 WLs who did something similiar. Rolfmao.

I met two who are sincere as well even after they left. Yeah I believe it is as u said, rare as hell.

In general do u think who is more materialistic? Prc or local woman? How abt generosity

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by korean

I met two who are sincere as well even after they left. Yeah I believe it is as u said, rare as hell.

In general do u think who is more materialistic? Prc or local woman? How abt generosity

Nowadays, I treat people as homo sapiens rather than look towards their gender.

Everyone has an agenda. So basically, I take them at face value and then see how they play out. Give them the benefit of the doubt for the time being but 事不过三。

Saves a lot of heartache at the end of the day.

[korean]

Originally Posted by Nato17

Nowadays, I treat people as homo sapiens rather than look towards their gender.

Everyone has an agenda. So basically, I take them at face value and then see how they play out. Give them the benefit of the doubt for the time being but 事不过三。

Saves a lot of heartache at the end of the day.

Haha, everyone has an agenda. Bro u speak very direct but very true

[GianniInfantimo]

Originally Posted by Nato17

Nowadays, I treat people as homo sapiens rather than look towards their gender.

Everyone has an agenda. So basically, I take them at face value and then see how they play out. Give them the benefit of the doubt for the time being but 事不过三。

Saves a lot of heartache at the end of the day.

True, money is important to everyone but not everything a person needs

[sleepygordon]

The true test of love is when you are poor and your gal sticks with you.

If she can be with you when you are poor, she can be with you when you are rich.

If you start rich and end poor, will your gal still be with you?

Difficult question and how many can put this to the test?

[korean]

Originally Posted by sleepygordon

The true test of love is when you are poor and your gal sticks with you.

If she can be with you when you are poor, she can be with you when you are rich.

If you start rich and end poor, will your gal still be with you?

Difficult question and how many can put this to the test?

precisely. been there, done tat

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by korean

precisely. been there, done tat

The question then is begged to be answered.

Do you notyourbabe can be such a girl?

[korean]

Originally Posted by Nato17

The question then is begged to be answered.

Do you notyourbabe can be such a girl?

no idea abt notyourbabe , but my darling is tat is more important to me

[subidowa]

Wa liew NATO.... u still wanna poke notyourbabe. She already diam diam liao u still can't let go.... Quite petty for a guy lol.

To Korean.... so u become poor from rich or rich from poor. Ur gal still stick with u?????


Actually I also wanna ask something for the ladies. Not that I support notyourbabe.

But seriously, is SEX everything to men??? No true love?????

U know.... sometimes girls can be chio and really kind hearted. Faithful too. However, I always believe once a guy becomes rich. No matter ugly or handsome sure become bad. The first thing is go hook up younger and more chio girls. WHy guys cannot be faithful even after the girl support you thru poor till rich. I also dunno how to answer this. As I know if im rich I will always play outside. So if im rich does it mean that I am allowed to play outside and expect my gal to diam diam???? You know being rich doesn't mean u are right even if you can give ur gal all she wants.

So as I know I can no saint. So I also dun blame women who love money. Money give them more security. I think it is relativity one. The more rich guy is the more and prettier gals he want. The more chio a girl is of course she has the right to ask for guys with more money.

I believe the world is round. When guys are rich and have affair. Why public only say he is rich ma. Bo bian he has choices. The gal with him consider lucky liao can have such a rich man as hubby. When women dump the guy for richer fellow. Public will say she is materialistic and heartless. If a richer guy wants her confirm she is consider chio too. So if she is chio and more than what her current guy can contain. Why can't she has the right to jump boat????

So I think the best is balance ur expectation and keep everyone happy. Sometimes you do not need to know everything nor make everything so clear.

For true love to be complete. You still have to factor in some true needs and high tolerance.

[korean]

Originally Posted by subidowa

To Korean.... so u become poor from rich or rich from poor. Ur gal still stick with u?????

I from no saving to debt (now). Yeah my gals dont mind I have no money now. But I'm working towards out of debt and then rich

[hugs]

Originally Posted by Nato17

The question then is begged to be answered.

Do you notyourbabe can be such a girl?

This post is the final piece to the puzzle. Now it all makes sense why you attacked me when you thought i was a guy. Peace out.

Ps: dont prove to anyone that you must have the last word.