The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 121

pfingo · #**1801** 28-12-2012, 01:08 PM

Wah bro. Sorry 2 hear tat. Maciam waiting death sentence

deathnitez · #**1802** 28-12-2012, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by pfingo

Wah bro. Sorry 2 hear tat. Maciam waiting death sentence

Bro you talking about me?? lol... but sometimes i try to so call change her is damn hard she still needs lots of protection or so call security until i feel i am looking after a baby.... dating like got more space now stay together like sigh....peace bro lol...

deathnitez · #**1803** 28-12-2012, 05:38 PM

to add on i also hope for the best.... if possible that something good will happen between us thats why i give it another yr... i gonna keep my mind cool..

deludedgal · #**1804** 29-12-2012, 03:34 PM

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oh shit. i am about to get married soon with my guy and i get to read this thread now. what to do?

how is married life?

grey82 · #**1805** 29-12-2012, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by deathnitez

hehe yeah emotionally i am not sure about getting a big hurt... but financially i actually made some backup plan before we get married to avoid big complications for such senario. But I feel if really divorce also not so fast

. See how lah maybe just vending anger but really she should really wake up..... sigh....

can shed some light on what you did for backup plan?

i heard some people wrote black & white that one cannot get the other's property or asset when divorce?

or you never include your wife name in flat?

pakalolo · #**1806** 29-12-2012, 03:51 PM

For some reason the right one is always the next one that comes along

deathnitez · #**1807** 29-12-2012, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by grey82

can shed some light on what you did for backup plan?

i heard some people wrote black & white that one cannot get the other's property or asset when divorce?

or you never include your wife name in flat?

Bro black and white will not help you in singapore but there is some other means do some research and you will know. But no matter what back up plan guys will sure kana dmg one.... but it depend is serious or not. hope it helps

deludedgal · #**1808** 29-12-2012, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by pakalolo

For some reason the right one is always the next one that comes along

sounds ddeluded... cos the next one not in place.. later in place married u also find it wrong haha

deathnitez · #**1809** 29-12-2012, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by deludedgal

sounds ddeluded... cos the next one not in place.. later in place married u also find it wrong haha

So in short don't get married lol peace

deludedgal · #**1810** 29-12-2012, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by deathnitez

So in short don't get married lol peace

can get married.. but dun over expect everything and view everything through tinted lens after marriage.

Triple70 · #**1811** 30-12-2012, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by deludedgal

can get married.. but dun over expect everything and view everything through tinted lens after marriage.

Marriage under the Women's Charter Act removes a lot of decision making powers away from the couple. For example, cannot divorce within 3 yrs, must got for counselling sessions etc. Even if both parties want to split amicably, is subject to the Court's discretion. The Act is trying to promote family bonding, so it has certain objectives that may not be similar to a splitting couple.

Anyone going for marriage shd fully understand the implications of marriage under the current Act, and perhaps discuss the possible outcome if things don't work out.

pfingo · #**1812** 13-01-2013, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Triple70

Marriage under the Women's Charter Act removes a lot of decision making powers away from the couple. For example, cannot divorce within 3 yrs, must got for counselling sessions etc. Even if both parties want to split amicably, is subject to the Court's discretion. The Act is trying to promote family bonding, so it has certain objectives that may not be similar to a splitting couple.

Don't think many knoe tat. Thanks 4 share bro

soothHerOnlyIf · #**1813** 13-01-2013, 08:31 PM

bros here, need your opinions.
i had an ex-gf and we got together with her loving me more than me loving her.
i feel that as my love for her increase, the relationship becomes increasingly bad cos i would tend to give in to her wants. and i feel that the most stable state in the relationship is when i dont love as much cos i can be more rationale and wont "sacrifice" cos i love her.

thats why couples who dont love each other are more in control?

kongkek · #**1814** 20-01-2013, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by soothHerOnlyIf

bros here, need your opinions.

don't actually follow you kawan?

Window7 · #**1815** 06-06-2013, 01:33 AM

Sigh. I don't think I love my wife at all. Maybe when we are dating that time I did love her. After married sex life is dead. We don't share the same view. We don't see the same and we don't have the same dreams.

Last 3 years we have nothing in common to talk.
She ranted about her job which I don't like to be affected by her negative energy.
I have my stress and whenever I tried to tell her, she brush me off.

Well, whatever. We are just a couple registered as married.
Nothing less. Nothing more.