Gers Are Still Gers

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Harrier24B

Let's be honest here, though the girls may not have the qualities to 'hang up and sell' BUT it's the guys who allow themselves to be led by the ring on the nose!

A relationship is just like bringing up a child......sufficient privileges with the same balance in discipline and control.....will create an equal and balanced mindset.....

While walking on the street, i see young guys holding the woman's handbag and being submissive all the time. If there's no control or respect is established from the beginning, when married, you'll get the woman using the pussy as a bargaining chip.....

Just my 2 cents worth of opinion.

next time we see a guy carrying the gals bag for her, maybe should just point finger & laugh at him "eeeee... so kuniang, carry girl's bag".

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by coldckk

I remember tat time i ask my ex you free tomorrow wanna go out for karaokie she told me ok! When e night come i already prepare to go meet her she told she cant she wanna go for mah jong session , i told her wtf you treat me like dirt right you take things for granted so be it out of my side ! She blur because i always let her do watever she like and now take me for granted like friends over me ! In e end she lost abt 1k on mah jong and i laughing at her and we broke up !

eh, u also sub-standard lah. of all things find 1 who cherish mahjong over u. consider it a blessing in disguise lah. its over so its time to look for new target.

this time round, better wise up & find 1 that cherish u over mahjong.

[soberguy]

Just happened to stumble on this thread. I didn;t read it all but my opinion about gers is... they are basically using..

SEX AS A COMODITY!

Well, I don't buy that, maybe some guys do and I am not desperate to get my hand under their skirt. Be they be pretty or ugly, is basically the same. If I am really horny and need a bonk, just pay for it. Paid sex is much cheaper than free sex!

Of course there are nice women but then if you want to find them, they are probably married.. lol

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

next time we see a guy carrying the gals bag for her, maybe should just point finger & laugh at him "eeeee... so kuniang, carry girl's bag".

hah... ok, on!!! cos i m already doing that... point n snigger!!!

and those guys will look at me and suddenly shrink in size... for guys who dare to do it, i have this for u... please dont tell me that u r trying to pamper yr girl... pampering yr girl does not include having to shame yourself in public!!!

[coldckk]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

eh, u also sub-standard lah. of all things find 1 who cherish mahjong over u. consider it a blessing in disguise lah. its over so its time to look for new target.

this time round, better wise up & find 1 that cherish u over mahjong.

Many time had happen if you don really know abt it don say ppl sub standard la.. I was sharing anyway ! You +++ like i own you..

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by soberguy

I didn;t read it all but my opinion about gers is... they are basically using..

SEX AS A COMODITY!

Well, I don't buy that, maybe some guys do and I am not desperate to get my hand under their skirt. Be they be pretty or ugly, is basically the same. If I am really horny and need a bonk, just pay for it. Paid sex is much cheaper than free sex!

Of course there are nice women but then if you want to find them, they are probably married.. lol

Paid sex is cheap or not, really depends on one's appetite. Unfortunately, most guys want sex.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Paid sex is cheap or not, really depends on one's appetite. Unfortunately, most guys want sex.

To many, paid sex is straight forward and direct but to some it is the beginning of a nightmarish journey, they simply got sucked in and play beyond the rules and failed to realized but to relive it all over again. Sad but true.

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

depends on individual gal lah. I ever had a gf who earns more than me, & when I was down & out (really very very down), she even supported me like a good wife, cheer me up etc etc. All, if not almost all, expenses when we go out 2gether, she pay.

At 1st, she can even feel, cos of my situation, I dun really want a r'ship. But she kinda told me off, 4 not only not giving her a chance, by oso not giving myself a chance!

Whenever I was troubled, not in good mood, & cos I was poor, no $$$, dowan go out, she'd make me go out wif her, have some fresh air, go makan, drinks, karaoke, etc etc, she pays most times, knowing tat I really poor.

We broke off cos I had no way out, no job, nothing, gotta go another country 2 find a living. She even encouraged me, knowing full well the risk that it may be the end of our r'ship. Shortly after I go overseas, I know I'll be out there for a v long time, if not rest of my life, while she cant leave her family 2 join me, I had 2 harden my heart 2 break off wif her.

Wow bro, this kind of gf is hard to find and is once in a lifetime u meet such nice girl. Too bad thing has to end in the way because of want the other half have better life...

[suteerak1099]

the 3 major combo terror a lady can pose to her mate:

1. Whatever
Men: What to have for dinner?
Women: Whatever..
Men: Why not we have steamboat?
Women: Don't want la, eat steamboat later got pimples in my face
Men: Alright, why not we have Si Chuan cuisine
Women: Yesterday ate Si Chuan, today eat again?
Men: Hmm..... I suggest we have seafood
Women: Seafood no good la, later I got diarrhea
Men: Then what you suggest?
Women : Whatever..

2. Anything
Men: So what should we do now?
Women: Anything
Men: How about watching movie? Long time we didn't watch movie
Women: Watching movie no good la, waste time only
Men: How about we play bowling, do some exercises?
Women: Exercise in such hot day? You not feel tire meh?
Men: Then find a café and have drink
Women: Drink coffee will affect my sleep
Men: Then what you suggest?
Women: Anything


3. You decide
Men: Then we just go home lo
Women: You decide
Men: Let take bus, I will accompany you
Women: Bus is dirty and crowded. Don't want la
Men: Ok we will take Taxi
Women: Not worth it la... for such a short distance
Men: Alright, then we walk lo. Take a slow walk
Women: What to walk with empty stomach woh?
Men: Then what you suggest?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's have dinner first
Women: Whatever...
Men: Eat what?
Women: Anyting
<blood boiling>
Men: I'm not in the mood for anything, I just wanna go home NOW
Women: Up to you

* "up to you" serves as the imunity trumph card

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

hah... ok, on!!! cos i m already doing that... point n snigger!!!

and those guys will look at me and suddenly shrink in size... for guys who dare to do it, i have this for u... please dont tell me that u r trying to pamper yr girl... pampering yr girl does not include having to shame yourself in public!!!

rule of thumb. wanna dote, wanna cherish, wanna shed some TLC is fine... pampering the gal = digging own grave.

cos when she issue the fatal move ("you change liao! last time u not lidat.." + tears in her eyes...) then its time to sound for the GOH 3 gun salute for burial.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by coldckk

Many time had happen if you don really know abt it don say ppl sub standard la.. I was sharing anyway ! You +++ like i own you..

fren, sorry if my words pricked you. i was just speaking my mind. i just felt u made a very wrong choice in picking 1 who values nonsense over u.

p.s.: no, u dont own me... btw, i think the word u're looking for is 'owe' not 'own'

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

To many, paid sex is straight forward and direct but to some it is the beginning of a nightmarish journey, they simply got sucked in and play beyond the rules and failed to realized but to relive it all over again. Sad but true.

there's always a vacuum in our lives. some in need for $, some in need for the attention, some for TLC... etc. as long as the vacuum is not fulfilled... enough is never enough, and the vacuum will soon consume us

explosion is scary, implosion is lagi scarier.

[coldckk]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

fren, sorry if my words pricked you. i was just speaking my mind. i just felt u made a very wrong choice in picking 1 who values nonsense over u.

p.s.: no, u dont own me... btw, i think the word u're looking for is 'owe' not 'own'

haha it ok la u r rite bro i really very wrong to pick 1 who have so many nonsense

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

rule of thumb. wanna dote, wanna cherish, wanna shed some TLC is fine... pampering the gal = digging own grave.

cos when she issue the fatal move ("you change liao! last time u not lidat.." + tears in her eyes...) then its time to sound for the GOH 3 gun salute for burial.

aaahhh... learnt that in earlier relationships. now is all "what u see is what u get"... when going after her, if we start at too high a level of TLC, guys will find it hard to keep up that level. i prefer to start at a lower level and let her make me want to treat her better as we progress in the relationship...

Originally Posted by coldckk

haha it ok la u r rite bro i really very wrong to pick 1 who have so many nonsense

kudos to both of u to have such a good reconciliation... cheers.

[Thai Rak Thai]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

kudos to both of u to have such a good reconciliation... cheers.

Sound like sarcasm 2 me lei