The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

Guys here think how long should a couple be together before marriage?

anything from 12 to 36 months

[The Stalker]

Originally Posted by AmericanExpress

anything from 12 to 36 months

12 months?

experts said 2 to 5 years leh haha

[Shadow_warrior]

I think to add to this title, the one you have the best sex with, might not be the one you loved most.

[d'Artagnan]

Originally Posted by alandaria

That said, I do love my wife and I'm happy to have a family with her, and perhaps even have kids, but that's more of a "responsible" type of love. I'm sure fellow married samsters will know what I mean

"obligation"

[AhTu]

The one that you married should be the one that you love most... theoretically...

At times we have some "outside" meals as an adventure... But at the end of the day... we return....

[D-joker]

With my wife for 8yrs. Marry 2yrs n with a kid 1yr plus. Still dont think she is the right gal
Guess as we grow older n our roles changes, our expectation change. The wifr priority also change. Last time u r her world. Nw the kid is her world. So. Maybe tats y love died...

[scandal_fei]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I think to add to this title, the one you have the best sex with, might not be the one you loved most.

I seriously agree with this phrase.

[ramon]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I think to add to this title, the one you have the best sex with, might not be the one you loved most.

I totally agree to this.

[samaritan]

Originally Posted by AhTu

At times we have some "outside" meals as an adventure... But at the end of the day... we return....

Return to misery

[WRX_STI]

Originally Posted by scandal_fei

I seriously agree with this phrase.

any elaboration?

[The Deprive]

Something Positive

Today I went la kopi with an old uncle, nearly 70 yrs old. He is coming down with old sickness; weak heart, slower reflexes, etc...

He was saying, feeling so uncomfortable whole body, sometimes he wish that he can just pass away in his sleep, really afraid of getting a stroke. And he went on to say: "without my wife I think I would have gone long ago. Everyday pass me water with medicine ready, dont want to eat also cannot."

Quite a contrast to what most bro are going through here. A supportive wife that gives the frail husband the emotional and physical support.

May everyone of us here be blessed with such marriage.

[iPhone]

This is unlike the cynical me but very nice positive story. Hope I can tell the same tale one day

[VaeVictus]

In my case, I love my gf as she takes care of my father, house and dog.

However, Sex is at once a month. Mostly I have to initiate and she ends it with her vibrator. She just lies there, refuses to be on top, doggy or even help. Even blowjobs from her is just Open mouth, place dick and do the action.

She is not adventurous. Doesn't like to do it outside the comforts of the bed. She prefers to use her vibrator as she can just lie there and get orgasms without doing anything. She says I need to initiate but everytime we head to bed, she turns away and can hear her go into deep sleep.

It's a huge contrast from my previous ex's and flings where we can do everywhere, anytime. Experiments and thrills.

Now she has been hinting to look for a new place to start anew and renovate. With this in mind, I start to think of Marriage. Then comes the once a month sex. Then I start to worry of our already almost non-existent sex to post-pregnancy. Then the list goes on. I still think fondly of the flings who are constantly asking me out to have some "fun".

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by AhTu

The one that you married should be the one that you love most... theoretically...

At times we have some "outside" meals as an adventure... But at the end of the day... we return....

Living the dream? How about the man who has everything and...nothing

[pulchritudinous]

Originally Posted by WillamSexsphere

Good intentions but no one said true love is easy.

best post of the thread