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Bro TS, as u mentioned that your wife will go sucidal if u initiated the idea of a divorce or separation. Then have u ever considered trying to salvage this relationship? If u have tried or feel that there's simply no point in salvaging your marriage, then why not consider using a 3rd party to speak her?
I have a good friend whom was entangled in a similar situation as yours years back. Tried his means to salvage his marriage, but realised he loved somebody else more. He had a heart to heart talk with his father, and his father was the one whom eventually sat the wife down and broke the news to her that divorce was probably the best option for both parties. Surprisingly, his wife took it better when words came from a 3rd party, and the divorce was settled amicably. He remarried, and is going to be a happy father. I understand that his ex wife has also moved on and remarried as well. As what many bros and sis have said here, disappearing ain't the option to what I see, resolve this sticky situation properly. It may take time, but it's better than just vanishing into thin air and hoping for the best. My opinion, be a responsible chap, you still have obligations towards your wife as she is your legally wedded spouse. All the best bro.
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Thx for your insightful advice. I'd rather talk to her personally than using a third party. As the chance could only be once, be it whatever approach I going to take, I don't rush for it and doing ground work n preparation. Beside getting advices from different parties, I took every small opportunities to brain wash my wife and also monitor her mental state. I'm preparing to do serious reading in related subjects. Long n tough journey definitely, but I gotta do it.
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I read through the last 3 pages of what is being posted. TS, you wanted a divorce yet you are scared that your wife might do something to hurt herself? Did you seek her family for help? And as far as i know, if a couple goes through separation for 3 years, even if a party is unwilling for a divorce...the divorce would be automatic...
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seems a new trend to divorce wife and get baby from mistress ... in asian countries
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Korean, you may disagree but I seriously feel you should get both sets of parents and your wife to sit down and thrash it open once and for all.
You are not only too soft but you have basically experienced BOTH emotional blackmail and bullied into submitting to your wife and in laws' whims. Stand up for yourself as a man and take proactive action. By saying that you need the time etc, thats basically just an excuse to be passive and delusional at the same time! |
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I'm fully aware of the divorce procedure, yes I scare she may commit suicide if I divorce with her. If I seek her family for help, I'm 101% sure they will not agree with the divorce, and they may trigger my wife to do funny thing. |
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I think it is divorce the forever bull trend in most country, not even a pullback
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Interesting topic.
Jin jia lat, yea, TS? At the end, nobody can ever read someone else's mind so well, all the time. |
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You maybe able to read, just aa matter how much.
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Just notice this thread is one year anniversary today. How time flies...
The title is no longer relevant but unfortunately I couldn't change the title myself. Firstly, she is my lover instead of mistress; secondly, she doesnt talk abt baby anymore as there is more intermediate mission to achieve. Too many things happened within a year. It is difficult for me to write down every details. I will write in points form as a start. - She (called her angela) finally told me she was married to a doctor with a son of age around 4 before coming to sg. Main problem of her marriage is due to her mother-in-law. - We met a few time in johor - Our relationship gone sour abit as she complained not seeing me sufficiently by visiting her or even she was in johor, I dont have much time for her. another reason is I have another lover. - I have another lover (baby) who is also a WL. - Divorce or separate from wife is in slow progress. probably will have more progress very soon Last edited by korean; 01-12-2015 at 05:22 PM. |
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TS, at least you have achieve something in life.
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Hope everything can be settled soon. D can be tiresome issue if not settled properly.
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