Advise please

[OkoBoko]

问世间情为何物？ 为何不好聚好散呢？

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

WAAAAA... THIS WORLD HAS NOT DISAPPOINTED ME!!!!

And yes, he's not suitable for her, SHE DESERVES BETTER!

KNN, mai tiam tiam repeat these 2 lines lah ... u 1 2 out-numbered my post counts izit?

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

How to give advise or what kind of advise?

... Nice fella must also see and face the realities and facts of live mah...

ok ok .. case closed.

So now can sing song anot har? loon very long liao !!

[DNAT]

SAM ... ThV quoted the entire post ...

[ryanlim]

we zap him first then say can??????

[Doomas]

Amen to that bro. See my FR in the MMCI thread. Xiao Min was really a screamer!

Originally Posted by chuwit

Most PRC FLs are amateurs. Only kena from boyfriend or husband before only. That's why they get high easily. From my experience PRCs rank very highly on the stereo scale and I can cum easily. Generally Thai girls are kind of 'muted' in this department. Very few can moan loudly as they feel shy. PRCs talk loud and moan loud. Haha.

Shou bu leow, lao gong, how tong, cha da li yi dian, etc.

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

she is workin in the agogo bar but she does not go with customers.She calls me every hour while she is working and calls me after work and talks for me all the way home.

Why does she wants to lie to Jun? To make him feel better becos Jun dont like her working in a GO GO bar?? And becos she likes Jun too much and has to lie to him to keep him??

Jun has every right to be angry cos the girl lied to him and kept reassuring him that she does not go out with customers. I actually find Jun a bit naive to believe what she said and not what bros here said. But I think we cant blame him lah because a person in love is emotional , pliable and easily misled.

[wahpiang]

Originally Posted by john teo

My mission ended before started. Anyway, important is the truth is out.

you are using the mission as an excuse.... (joking hor!!)

[wahpiang]

knowing that the girl is from an agogo bar, a different set of rules, regulation, guidelines, mentality has to apply.

Bro Jun, i would say that you are naive in trying to test her becos if you can bar fine her, why not others?? you have to think on both sides of the coin. thinking linearly has gotten you where you are today.

Secondly, upon hearing she go out with customers even though she said she doesn't, why are you upset/angry/feel resentment or betrayal? It is perfectly NORMAL for her to go out with customers.

lastly, you are flying up to meet her. sigh.... you can't think rationally. blinded by emotions? but that's not an excuse. dun tell me you gonna live in La La Land for the rest of your life, being blinded by emotions.

WAKE UP!! and pls realise what/who you are dealing with. I do not pity or sympathise with you as your mentality is totally WRONG when dealing with WLs but neither am i going to fuck you.

Take this as a lesson learnt and be wiser in the future.

[l3atu]

Bros, please give the thread starter some breathing space. When he ask for advice, all samsters gd heartedly start heaping him with different advices. In the end, we only managed to confuse him.
Now, when 1 person start to 'batter' him, all follow suit...wat if he commit suicide later on ? Since the case is closed, let the matter rest.

[Doomas]

Bro Jun,

1st Golden Rule of a r/s with a sex worker:

If you cannot accept that she has to be screwed by other men in order to eke out a living, then forget abt the whole thing. You will have failed the 1st basic test.

How else do you think she gets the money to call you so often? To pay the fine to the bar as the opportunity cost of spending time with you WITHOUT charge? Every precious minute you spend with her is earned by her spreading her legs open to every Harry. She goes out with customers just so she could save up $$$ for you. Yet when you learn she did go out with a customer, you scream betrayal. This tells me one of 2 things. Either you are a novice at r/s with WLs, you were not in the queue for brains, or you have no soul. I wd prefer to believe the first holds true.

Of course the other side of the coin wd show the possibility of her just playing around with ur feelings. After all, if she can get you to get her a PR, it will be a social coup for her. The Women's Charter will ensure that you have to pay her alimony if you two get divorced.

2nd Golden Rule of a r/s with a Thai sex worker:

They will lie to save a r/s, not out of malice but to save face for everyone

Now, some of the seniors here may know I nearly ended up marrying a former GL$40 gal. I accepted that she was a sex worker and had to fuck for money. That put a major chip out of the way. I also knew she was planning to marry another customer in the house and that she was lying to me abt that. Nevertheless I persevered with the r/s in the hope of something wonderful happening. Now then I was studying in Oz. It was only when I came back that she revealed the truth to me, that she had planned to marry this other bloke all the while. She did not tell me when I was in Oz then as she said she lied so that I would not be distracted from my studies.

I assume your gal loves you genuinely. If you think you feel hurt at her "betrayal" of you, imagine how much more hurt she feels at having to lie to her loved one to protect you as she thought fit. Lying is a fact of life for r/s with Thai FLs. If you can't accept that, then don't play with fire. When you eat nice big ripe tomatos, never forget the shit had to be specially fragant for the tomatos to grow to that size.


I agree with some bros here that she deserves better. Not because you are an a**hole. No, I think you are one or more of the following:

1. First time in a r/s with a WL and hence emotionally unable to handle the stress.
2. Emotionally immature
3. Basically in love with the idea of being in love

Above all, bear in mind that soft thighs, sweet words and a warm pussy (better if wet as well) do not mean you have a r/s. You can get all these from the many delectable treats in GL.

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

Truth is out...she betrayed me and went with customer tonight...

Man, if you can't afford to feed her, how else is she going to feed herself and her family besides going out with other joes? Would you see her wither and die from starvation just so she can remain "pure" for you? Do not judge others by your own standards and cultural paradigms. This is a very cruel and practical world we live in. One cannot be sustained by love alone. You need $$$ to buy food and neccessities. If you can't provide for her, what else do you expect her to do?

I'm not tekaning you but rather, offering my perspective based on my past experiences. I wrote this long piece as I do hope you can break out of this nosedive soon. I was in your shoes before and can appreciate what you are going thru now. Put it behind you. You will be fine 6 mths from then, trust me.

Doomas

[waypastprime]

Originally Posted by l3atu

Bros, please give the thread starter some breathing space. When he ask for advice, all samsters gd heartedly start heaping him with different advices. In the end, we only managed to confuse him.
Now, when 1 person start to 'batter' him, all follow suit...wat if he commit suicide later on ? Since the case is closed, let the matter rest.

Whatever approaches (be it soft or hard) dont really matter. What matters most is our intentions are meaning him well.

But if he chooses otherwise, he can blame no one.

[rave999]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

i am not asking for her hand for marriage...i do admit i am very pissed off at being a fool and making the runs in between the calls to go for ST...as i calm down to think...i know she did it for me cos she planning to get apartment so i can stay with her...yes perhaps my love for her is not strong enuff to condone what she had done...i am sorrie my love was put to test...perhaps she loves me more than i do...but all i know is that I can never forget what she lied to me...be it to protect me or whatever..

Bro,

You are very cruel......cruel to her. Have a heart. She is doing all these, all these so that you can be with her. Or should I say, so that you can be provided for when you are there with her. I really dun know what to say to you Bro. If I am in your shoes, I'll love her even MORE! Seems like you fail 190% to understand that gogo girls have to go with customers. For my case, I hunt MP girls....and I understand perfectly well that they too fuck the customers as it is SOP in this trade and they'll share with me the experiences with different customers and I just cannot say "YOU CANNOT FUCK YOUR CUSTOMER!" just because you like them. For your girl its like "in Rome do what the Romans do" get it! Wake up! Either you accept this poor lass for what she does (after all she has done for you) and love her even more OR give up the whole bloody idea AND get a uni gal. That way you can be "a little" assured that she does not go out with "customers". Wahh I damm "pek chek" after reading this thread!!!
Treat this girl nicely is all I can say.....aiyahh.

[Doomas]

Well, it helps if one had been there and back

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

What a relief to see more bros that see the picture more clearly

[Doomas]

Hehehe, I'm not into humiliation. I just like to eat them till they drop from multiple orgasms

One question remains: are China men that fucked up in their screwing skills that the CKMs get turned on by us easily?

Originally Posted by chuwit

Screamers are my favourite. Just read your FR. Haha are you into 'humiliation' as well? I've to say you got a lucky catch. As this type of SWs in Golden Triangle area is rare and far between. Not time conscious at all. I believe you spend at least 40 minutes from start to finish. This Xiao Min is kind of the like those KTV FL type. No rush and can TCSS to build up some rapport first. Cool.