Wife don't like sex

[sweetie]

Hi guys, I have been thinking what cause men to stray, Isn't it because the wife is slowly growing old, aging & turning into old auntie, thus become less attractive coz she doesn't dress up or make the effort to look sexy & pretty after childbirth? Or simply because having the same partner is less exciting over the years to come? if the wife truly satisfy their husband he won't stray? What if she grows old? I think all men prefer the young gals than an old lady wife right? so isn't that another excuse to look for ECA outside since guys are visual creatures? Didn't know u guys are capable of loving the wife and still not feel guilty. I thought after a while if the wife don't satisfy their husband and make him happy, love will fade over the years...?That's when Divorce kicks in.Maybe some of you here may not love your wife anymore but see her more of a responsibility and not ready for the alimony...

[HCKing]

after reading thru the numerous posts illustrating the same 'wife dont like sex' cases i came to a conclusion that most females these days are simply too self-centered and only cares and think abt their own needs and wants, their feelings and mood, their pleasure, their welfare, blah blah blah but nvr spare the same thoughts for their partners. its little wonder y there r always communication problems cos even if the guy is willing to talk, the girl is not willing to listen and such 'communication' would most likely ended up with the girl blabbering on her own problems and opinions and feelings and blah blah blah again.

[ninkampoop]

i read with a lot of sadness and emphathy for all the bros here.. i really salute u guys for able to tahan sexless for so long without getting fed from ur wives. We all love our wives and it is just sucky when there is no physical intimacy. Sex and love, i feel do go together.

I am married for 2 years now. Not trying to be insensitive here, but my wife actually has a quota for me to meet. She makes a note each time we have sex and her quota to me is that I have to meet her demand of having sex at least 50% of the month. I.e, if this is Feb, we must make out at least 14 times. For Jan, at least 15.5 (thus 16) times.

I enjoy having sex with her.. and I do my best to accomodate. But at times, it can be very siong. You can imagine end of month coming, and we had been busy.. she will actually ask me to step up on the frequency. Imagine her holding up her calendar and have one arm on her waist giving me the hints.

A balance is important.... i do feel stressed.. so we all have our problems...

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by sweetie

Hi guys, I have been thinking what cause men to stray, Isn't it because ...

Hi sweetie pie, the answers to all the above mentioned is YES YES YES.

Welcum to this forum for sex education your mom/dad won't tell you!

[Aizen]

Welcoming myself to the club...

My situation more worst...

married for 1.5 yrs, but dont live together due to family issues [in-laws]...

cant afford resale and BTO always dont pick me... that's a story for another day...

sex is only on sundays... and only when she does not have period... and not tired from the saturday shopping with friends...

Only done in missionary and done in 5 mins as she complains about pain inside...

have been times where 1 month no sex at all...

currently only go MP to release and dont dare to go FL... Singapore is small you know...

and sex is only a small part of the problem...

everytime i wonder, why did i marry her, and why did she choose me...

when you try the heart to heart talk crap, she will start crying and just keep quiet...

not very useful for me.... HAIZ....

[sweetmilf]

Read last few post from this thread because of the title. Not sure if there are any married ladies in the same situation as me. It's totally opposite in my marriage with my husband. It was I that constantly initiate sex with him. Begging him for sex regularly. Talked about it with him also. Quarrel a few times too. Been really tired. Sometimes after I begged him and he went on and go to sleep without doing anything, I would just turn to the other side and cry myself quietly to sleep. And he does not care. The feeling of begging, makes me feel I am really cheap to the core.
Asked him what's wrong with me before. He said nothing. I am not ugly, not fat, willing to do anything, good in bed also. So what's wrong?
All along I thought the problem lies with me. But I was so so wrong. I found out coincidentally that he had engaged not once, twice but a few times, the service of Thai girls. This really gave me a real hard stab on my heart. Imagine on of the date was when my little baby girl is just 3 months old.
We rarely had sex. It's been almost 6 months since we last had any sex. There was once I caught him masturbating in the toilet. He just kept quiet.
And I can't do anything.
Can any guys here tell me, whats wrong with my husband. Or whats wrong with me? I am slim, I am quite pretty, I don't smoke, I am educated, I dress well.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Aizen

Welcoming myself to the club...

My situation more worst...

Welcum to the nightmare club....have you gone thru the customary or just register? If only register then maybe you should discuss with her and have the marriage annul.

[happyfamily]

Originally Posted by sweetmilf

Read last few post from this thread because of the title. Not sure if there are any married ladies in the same situation as me. It's totally opposite in my marriage with my husband. It was I that constantly initiate sex with him. Begging him for sex regularly. Talked about it with him also. Quarrel a few times too. Been really tired. Sometimes after I begged him and he went on and go to sleep without doing anything, I would just turn to the other side and cry myself quietly to sleep. And he does not care. The feeling of begging, makes me feel I am really cheap to the core.
Asked him what's wrong with me before. He said nothing. I am not ugly, not fat, willing to do anything, good in bed also. So what's wrong?
All along I thought the problem lies with me. But I was so so wrong. I found out coincidentally that he had engaged not once, twice but a few times, the service of Thai girls. This really gave me a real hard stab on my heart. Imagine on of the date was when my little baby girl is just 3 months old.
We rarely had sex. It's been almost 6 months since we last had any sex. There was once I caught him masturbating in the toilet. He just kept quiet.
And I can't do anything.
Can any guys here tell me, whats wrong with my husband. Or whats wrong with me? I am slim, I am quite pretty, I don't smoke, I am educated, I dress well.

Maybe u can purposely let him see u masturbate? Or dress sexy while sleeping? Works for some guys IMO.

[analog]

Originally Posted by sweetie

Hi guys, I have been thinking what cause men to stray, Isn't it because the wife is slowly growing old, aging & turning into old auntie, thus become less attractive coz she doesn't dress up or make the effort to look sexy & pretty after childbirth? Or simply because having the same partner is less exciting over the years to come? if the wife truly satisfy their husband he won't stray? What if she grows old? I think all men prefer the young gals than an old lady wife right? so isn't that another excuse to look for ECA outside since guys are visual creatures? Didn't know u guys are capable of loving the wife and still not feel guilty. I thought after a while if the wife don't satisfy their husband and make him happy, love will fade over the years...?That's when Divorce kicks in.Maybe some of you here may not love your wife anymore but see her more of a responsibility and not ready for the alimony...

Shit for brains.
That's all I can say about that post, sorry.

Most bros writing here want to keep their families together. They are writing about a very simple, yet easily fixed, problem, their wives don't want to fuck. Their wives committed to fucking them by saying "I do" when they got married but are now reneging on the contract, its breach of contract, plain and simple.

There are no bros here saying they don't find their wives attractive, far form it. The wife just doesn't want to or refused to fuck.

How hard it that to understand?

hence the comment, shit for brains.

If the shoe fits....

stay happy bros.
Jim

[analog]

Originally Posted by Aizen

Welcoming myself to the club...

My situation more worst...

married for 1.5 yrs, but dont live together due to family issues [in-laws]...

cant afford resale and BTO always dont pick me... that's a story for another day...

sex is only on sundays... and only when she does not have period... and not tired from the saturday shopping with friends...

Only done in missionary and done in 5 mins as she complains about pain inside...

have been times where 1 month no sex at all...

currently only go MP to release and dont dare to go FL... Singapore is small you know...

and sex is only a small part of the problem...

everytime i wonder, why did i marry her, and why did she choose me...

when you try the heart to heart talk crap, she will start crying and just keep quiet...

not very useful for me.... HAIZ....

Married for at least three years?
Any kids?

[analog]

Originally Posted by sweetmilf

Read last few post from this thread because of the title. Not sure if there are any married ladies in the same situation as me. It's totally opposite in my marriage with my husband. It was I that constantly initiate sex with him. Begging him for sex regularly. Talked about it with him also. Quarrel a few times too. Been really tired. Sometimes after I begged him and he went on and go to sleep without doing anything, I would just turn to the other side and cry myself quietly to sleep. And he does not care. The feeling of begging, makes me feel I am really cheap to the core.
Asked him what's wrong with me before. He said nothing. I am not ugly, not fat, willing to do anything, good in bed also. So what's wrong?
All along I thought the problem lies with me. But I was so so wrong. I found out coincidentally that he had engaged not once, twice but a few times, the service of Thai girls. This really gave me a real hard stab on my heart. Imagine on of the date was when my little baby girl is just 3 months old.
We rarely had sex. It's been almost 6 months since we last had any sex. There was once I caught him masturbating in the toilet. He just kept quiet.
And I can't do anything.
Can any guys here tell me, whats wrong with my husband. Or whats wrong with me? I am slim, I am quite pretty, I don't smoke, I am educated, I dress well.

Hi SweetMilf:

Your man has a problem. The challenge is how to get him to admit to himself that he has a problem. You, as a couple, will need counselling and he will need additional counselling on his own if he wants to save his family.

From my perspective, I can't work out why a man would want to fuck a whore rather than his wife....unless the wife has degenerated into a water buffalo shape or something. But whores are so dirty and ....yuk. This is a problem for guys who married too young I think. They never got this stuff out of their systems when they should have.

You're going to have to talk to him and if he doesn't listen, mention the "D" work to wake him up.

Good luck,
Jim

[AvatarZ]

Hi Ppl,

Just to share my situation, my wife and me married 3yr + going to 4 soon with a 2 yr kiddo. Sex remained a weekly affair but she is mainly passive.

She told me she is doesnot need sex and the reason she having sex with me is to fulfill her duty. Here is a conversation I had with her recently...

Me: I am so turned on by you sometimes during the week that I become very horny! (I fingering her and she stroking me)

Wife: But I have been having sex with you on a weekly basis!

Me: ??? How does your reply relate to my comment? (didi soft liao)

Wife: I mean that I thought having sex per week will help in your horniness?

Me: .....

Is my situation sad?

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by ninkampoop

i read with a lot of sadness and emphathy for all the bros here.. i really salute u guys for able to tahan sexless for so long without getting fed from ur wives. We all love our wives and it is just sucky when there is no physical intimacy. Sex and love, i feel do go together.

I am married for 2 years now. Not trying to be insensitive here, but my wife actually has a quota for me to meet. She makes a note each time we have sex and her quota to me is that I have to meet her demand of having sex at least 50% of the month. I.e, if this is Feb, we must make out at least 14 times. For Jan, at least 15.5 (thus 16) times.

I enjoy having sex with her.. and I do my best to accomodate. But at times, it can be very siong. You can imagine end of month coming, and we had been busy.. she will actually ask me to step up on the frequency. Imagine her holding up her calendar and have one arm on her waist giving me the hints.

A balance is important.... i do feel stressed.. so we all have our problems...

bro u are lucky, thats alternate day for both of u to work out.

maybe she wants to make sure u do not 'look outside'

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by sweetmilf

Read last few post from this thread because of the title. Not sure if there are any married ladies in the same situation as me. It's totally opposite in my marriage with my husband. It was I that constantly initiate sex with him. Begging him for sex regularly. Talked about it with him also. Quarrel a few times too. Been really tired. Sometimes after I begged him and he went on and go to sleep without doing anything, I would just turn to the other side and cry myself quietly to sleep. And he does not care. The feeling of begging, makes me feel I am really cheap to the core.
Asked him what's wrong with me before. He said nothing. I am not ugly, not fat, willing to do anything, good in bed also. So what's wrong?
All along I thought the problem lies with me. But I was so so wrong. I found out coincidentally that he had engaged not once, twice but a few times, the service of Thai girls. This really gave me a real hard stab on my heart. Imagine on of the date was when my little baby girl is just 3 months old.
We rarely had sex. It's been almost 6 months since we last had any sex. There was once I caught him masturbating in the toilet. He just kept quiet.
And I can't do anything.
Can any guys here tell me, whats wrong with my husband. Or whats wrong with me? I am slim, I am quite pretty, I don't smoke, I am educated, I dress well.

sweetmilf, your case is very rare.

try to work on something to get his attention on u

guess he would rather have something different outside

[SammyKing]

Change a wife then. U only live once.