Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[richie4]

hi guys,

May I know if you and ur gf rom in Singapore,
you guy held the customary marriage in VN?
Can go through customary marriage first then rom later in SG?

Thank You

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by hoian

Is it possible to erase all the years of bonking/cheonging by doing a bit of charity? Also by participation in a sex forum (indirectly supporting bonking activities)... does that not also lead to bad merits?

Just asking out of curiosity and wondering how this karma thing works. U may choose not to answer if it displeases u.

Definitely no malice...let me answer you base on what I understand about karma...

we are all human beings and who as human dun made mistakes...depends on the mistakes one human made in the past or previous life...of course we cannot control our previous life but can control current life...

participation in sex forum is not bad karma because here you dun do bad things unless you purposely out to hurt others...SBF has been made in such you can do good deeds...is no longer just all about sex...but of course the karma is you may get lustful and do bad things...only Buddhism shall teach you to abstain from all the sex thingy...hey, i am doing NS for SBF leh...

if a person has done some bad things in the past or previous life...then more so he should try to do good deeds...charity is just one way to do good deeds...there are many other ways that dun need to involve money...example bring an anonymous old lady across the street if that is a busy street...or volunteer your time to help in old folks home...

fortunately you can accumulate enough good karma to over-ride the bad karma but all depends the type of bad deeds or accumulated bad karma...&&

help out your viet gf or relatives that you are involved is not doing good deeds...so only if you have no obligations helping to anonymous ppl then can consider good deeds and thus good karma...&&

Note - the above is purely IMHO...not to upset anyone...pls skip if you dun like to read...^^

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by richie4

you guy held the customary marriage in VN?
Can go through customary marriage first then rom later in SG?

Yes...can...Singapore gahmen recognised only ROM in any countries...so long translated to English...

[hoian]

Thank u for the answer. I will try to do more good deeds now because I was pretty reckless in my youth.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

...fortunately you can accumulate enough good karma to over-ride the bad karma but all depends the type of bad deeds or accumulated bad karma...

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

help out your viet gf or relatives that you are involved is not doing good deeds...

if vb really in poverty, and some help can ease her hardship ...
maybe to some is not good deed, but as long as you feel good and it actually help others to feel better ... and and .. not asking for return ...

施比受， 更有福

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

if vb really in poverty, and some help can ease her hardship ...
maybe to some is not good deed, but as long as you feel good and it actually help others to feel better ... and and .. not asking for return ...

施比受， 更有福

well if you think so then just do and feel good...

but if vb is in some kind of sexual relationship with you then I dun consider helping her or family is doing good deeds...even you dun ask for anything in return...

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Good news here...

Vietnam to allow foreigners to own homes for 100 years

http://www.thanhniennews.com/busines...ars-43063.html

Under the amended law, foreign individuals married to Vietnamese citizens are entitled to freehold tenure.
Looks good for ppl with cash as not wise to loan for vn bank. Can pass down to ur children n grandchildren etc....

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

if vb really in poverty, and some help can ease her hardship ...
maybe to some is not good deed, but as long as you feel good and it actually help others to feel better ... and and .. not asking for return ...

施比受， 更有福

Wow, I did help some vbs without anything in rtn also good deed ar?

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

well if you think so then just do and feel good...

but if vb is in some kind of sexual relationship with you then I dun consider helping her or family is doing good deeds...even you dun ask for anything in return...

When is your next charity event?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by FireShark

When is your next charity event?

Yes if you help a person without any relationship then yes you did good deeds accumulate good karma...

Hungry Ghost Festival will be the next charity....no details on where we doing yet but similar to last year donate any amount up to individual unlike TET whereby we fixed all equal shares...

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Wow, I did help some vbs without anything in rtn also good deed ar?

jelly good

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Re-post here.

Just to relate a pm which I helped to translate tieng viet to english yesterday...

the person pm said I may just save a life...

I also recieve the pm leh... you see no cheating, but I see that she is cheating

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

..if anyone wants to have Viet gf then please learn tieng viet...

If anyone want a viet wife, make sure she also learn chinese, english and singlish.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Under the amended law, foreign individuals married to Vietnamese citizens are entitled to freehold tenure.
Looks good for ppl with cash as not wise to loan for vn bank. Can pass down to ur children n grandchildren etc....

Buying house in vn and pass down to children?
Got money invest in property, I think invest in other country better than vn.

If thinking of buying the property to provide a roof for children/grandchildren, why vn and not sillypore since children is born a sillyporean. Buying property in vn, in the long run is passing down to relative children/grandchildren in vn only

[lasupkia]

Originally Posted by richie4

hi guys,

May I know if you and ur gf rom in Singapore,
you guy held the customary marriage in VN?
Can go through customary marriage first then rom later in SG?

Thank You

By the law of ROM of Singapore, you have to register first before going thru customary marriage. There's a declaration part about this when u submit for ROM. So if u still want to do it then don't declare this.
In VN the cong an can also stop your marriage ceremony if u dont have the proper papers but this is seldom done. Even so a little greasing of their hands can solve this.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by lasupkia

Even so a little greasing of their hands can solve this.

In VN if you are cash rich, you are a King. My frd who is working under a syndicate told me that. All cong an and minister only want $$$. If you can provide the amount you want, they don't really care what you do.