The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

My mother loved my father the most. My father is a good man. He don't cheong all because he loves my mother most.

Now my papa and mama are living happily ever after.

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by JWNY

it's when she loves another man but you still smile and say I'm happy for you, when all you really do is...cry."

JWNY

how many of us can really do this? all i can do is to juz not say anythin n shed my tears in slient

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Well said..."Love is when you shed a tear and still want her, it's when she ignores you and you still love her, it's when she loves another man but you still smile and say I'm happy for you, when all you really do is...cry."

JWNY

wah..so noble.wish i can find that someone whom i can do all this for her,even thou it is going to hurt me badly,it's gd to have loved a person so dearly before.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

how many of us can really do this? all i can do is to juz not say anythin n shed my tears in slient

sad to say this is what i had been going thru for my last rship.now that she is happily married(i think),i need to reconstruct and move on.

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

sad to say this is what i had been going thru for my last rship.now that she is happily married(i think),i need to reconstruct and move on.

Sad but true bro...

(not referring to you) but sometimes, men hesitate and don't make a move...a woman follows another "signal". It happened to my friend recently as he was unsure after a 7 year relationship...now it's gone. He was in tears when we met up...he was just "unsure"

I told him: "Ship in harbour is safe....but ship is supposed to sail"

JWNY

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Sad but true bro...

(not referring to you) but sometimes, men hesitate and don't make a move...a woman follows another "signal". It happened to my friend recently as he was unsure after a 7 year relationship...now it's gone. He was in tears when we met up...he was just "unsure"

I told him: "Ship in harbour is safe....but ship is supposed to sail"

JWNY

for me its slightly better cos i am the one who choose to let her go cos at that point of time i dont knw what went wrong with me as i told myself she wont be very happy and might suffer with me so eventually i choose to let her go..

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

for me its slightly better cos i am the one who choose to let her go cos at that point of time i dont knw what went wrong with me as i told myself she wont be very happy and might suffer with me so eventually i choose to let her go..

Honestly, that is really nice to hear on a Sunday morning

Why? Because it takes ALOT for a man to do it. It's like someone who commits suicide..it looks really easy...but it takes alot of guts to do it.

But just one thing i will point out, if you don't mind. Her idea of happiness and yours may not be the same - ie, your expectations of yourself may be higher.

JWNY

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by JWNY

But just one thing i will point out, if you don't mind. Her idea of happiness and yours may not be the same - ie, your expectations of yourself may be higher.

JWNY

perhaps u r right on this,i may hv high expectations of myself.through the yrs we are together,she nv really complain anything to me.maybe this time round i really make a wrong decision.at least i can tell myself she may be better-off when she is with him now compared to be with me.

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by JWNY

But just one thing i will point out, if you don't mind. Her idea of happiness and yours may not be the same - ie, your expectations of yourself may be higher.

Agree. What's our views may not be hers. It's hard to let it go but things happened happened for a reason. Sometimes it's a blessings in disguise, sometimes it's a boat that we couldnt afford to miss. There's always two sides of a coin but who are we to judge?

I learn to be strong and move on to be a better person. That's the least a person can do

jimbo

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

All this talk reminds me of a song by Robbie Williams:Better Man.

[JWNY]

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were.
~ Kahlil Gibran

Quote of the day

JWNY

[EricssonMan]

It's easier said than done. Just wondering how many such case works?

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by EricssonMan

It's easier said than done. Just wondering how many such case works?

perhaps one in a million?

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by EricssonMan

It's easier said than done. Just wondering how many such case works?

Romeo and Juliet......

JWNY

[xianzation]

In modern era do real love exist? Or do they exist for the sake of sex?

Saw this two sentences above :
"Ship is safe in harbour, but ship needs to sail." and
"It's easy to commit suicide, but it takes alot of guts to do it."

Sounds so true. ::thumbsup::