Wife don't like sex

[tsseng69]

Dear sweetmilf sis, i read all your posts here and in the thread you started. I am not smart but i think you should slowly accept that yours is a marriage in name only, with no love between husband and wife. Stay in the house for your daughter's sake. Give her all she needs, as i am sure you do. But live your own life. Life is short and we all need to find ourown joy and peace. I wish you the best of health, peace and inner joy.

[Super_Hooligan]

Did you let her eat the cake at your wedding? Everyone knows that wedding cake cures a womans sex drive.

Do you know why women always smile when they are walking down the aisle? Its becuase they know they have given their last blow job

[kingfuck]

Originally Posted by louis_13

same here .. wife only give once a month

Sorry bro, did it happens to be always at the end of the month ?

[squiggle]

Originally Posted by sweetmilf

Once again I thank you all for supporting and cheering me up and giving me advices to my problems.
My husband is a big chauvanist and he does not believe in counselling at all. Confide to my mother in law and hoping that she can help but all i got was nothing as she think its not a problem at all.
Everyday when i think of my position i cant help but wonder is it me? I ask my friends both male and female if i am not attractive anymore. I am 1.62m and 46kg. I do not think i am fat or chubby. I do look after my own skin well. Exercise regularly to prevent myself looking old and dowdy.
Recently I told my sister that if I do get divorce again. I wont think of getting married again. I am already 38. Its a cruel fact but who would still want a 38 year old?
I no longer think about myself. Now i only think of my little girl. Staying in this marriage for her sake. It is I who bring her to this world. And she is my responsibility. I have to give her the best and that includes a complete family.

You got try making him horny like touching his cock, blowing air into his ear & etc?

Ya, you did the right thing on staying in this marriage for the sake of your daughter. No point of divorce of what just for sex matters.

You can tell him:

Dear, every time I request for sex with you. It is a small, easy & important process in a marriage. Just like our parents raising us up, all they just want us is to be good, study well & treating them well that's all.

We use our mouths for communication to understand each other hearts & sex is a form of communicate for both of our physical bodies.

In a relationship, no point of one being happy with his/her ideas. While the other just follow unwillingly. Love is to make 2 person happy.

[Lefegordon]

woman are stressed out at work and kid after marriage and have no desire for sex
Men are also stress out at work and kid after marriage but need more sex to de-stress.

Man And Woman are really different after all. So our ancestor know and they take concubines for this reason.

[jesterking23]

ERR gunner!!... BTW male breast can produce milk just like women, it was on the news some time ago.......



[QUOTE=84gunner;5748686]In the 1st place, nature didn't make male and female equal. Why only the females can get pregnant / bear babies? Why only the females have milk in their breasts after childbirth, can breast-feed? Although I don't know the purpose of men's nipples.

[Slotti]

I actually like my girl to nimble on my nipples when making out, quite stimulating leh Sure to get hard on .

[Pilot Preceda]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

In the 1st place, nature didn't make male and female equal. Why only the females can get pregnant / bear babies? Why only the females have milk in their breasts after childbirth, can breast-feed? Although I don't know the purpose of men's nipples.

It is all thanks to the over-blown mentality about equality of the sexes from the west / US, and SGPeans tend to love to imitate things / trends from the west / US, and to a certain extent, SGPeans tend to carry things to the extreme.

In all factories, there will always be some exceptions, ie, defective products, that comes out of the manufacturing lines, regardless of how good the Quality Control is. Similarly, most human / living beings are similar / typical, but there are also some exceptions. As said, it is exception, and exceptions are the minority, otherwise, why are they called exception? Back to SGPeans, many SGPeans, especially females, think they are exceptions, they are equally competent as the men, if not even more competent / capable. So SG females want to be career women, want to be the perfect woman (wife, Mum, daughter, daughter-in-law) at home. Be realistic, how many things / people are perfect in this world (that's why I say SGPeans tend to be extreme)?

Take a step backwards, do you think this demand or aim is realistic? Yes, it can be achieved, but everything has a price. Maybe on the outside, you may have a perfect, happy family, you do well in your career. But deep inside, nobody knows better than you, the struggle in the office / corporate, and balance family life (as a Mum, as a wife, as a daughter to your parents, as a DIL to your husband's parents, etc), and this is walking a tight rope and highly stressful. Once the rope snaps, that's it.

The feminist groups from the west / US says that MCP is degrading women, takes away dignity of women. Just because of a few successful women (exceptions), they say that women are equally competent as men in the working society, if not better, and at the same time, can still bear children and be good mothers. Look, if women are equally competent, why don't more women work as construction / renovation workers, or those labour intensive occupations? Sitting in the air-con office, of course everyone can!

Nature didn't make men and women equal in the 1st place! Even replacing a faulty lamp on the ceiling, fixing a loose screw, hammering the nail, the men are born to be better. Similarly, sewing, cooking, minute details, the women are born to be better. Each has his / her own strengths and weaknesses. By stressing to be equal, that person is simply mixing everything up, not capitalising on the strength, and magnifying the weakness all at the same time!

Many ang mohs have this concept in the bigger picture:
Whoever brings home the bigger piece of bread, whoever has the bigger say. I had colleagues who paid for everything, accomodation, meals, expenses, etc. So he demands his gf (also ang moh) to do the housework, cooking, etc. Other female colleagues said, "Shame on you, to think that you are from US, and you are still so MCP." His reply was, "but I'm paying for everyting, accomodation, food, expenses, and she is not working at all !"

The other more independant females work / make their own living, they really contribute half the share of the expenses, and they said, they don't want to depend on the men, they want to have equal say as the men, so they contribute exactly half the expenses. If they contribute any lesser, that means their men contribute more, than their man should have more say.

That said, I feel they are really more democratic in this sense, disregarding the natural advantage / disadvantage of their gender. And it's up to the individuals to choose, whether they allow the men to have more say, rule over them, MCP, etc, or they have equal say. While SGPeans, especially females, likes to take those words out of context.

End of the day, as long as everyone is happy and nobody gets hurt, who are we to say anything? 一个愿打，一个愿挨

very true...
thumbs up...

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by sweetmilf

Once again I thank you all for supporting and cheering me up and giving me advices to my problems.
My husband is a big chauvanist and he does not believe in counselling at all. Confide to my mother in law and hoping that she can help but all i got was nothing as she think its not a problem at all.
Everyday when i think of my position i cant help but wonder is it me? I ask my friends both male and female if i am not attractive anymore. I am 1.62m and 46kg. I do not think i am fat or chubby. I do look after my own skin well. Exercise regularly to prevent myself looking old and dowdy.
Recently I told my sister that if I do get divorce again. I wont think of getting married again. I am already 38. Its a cruel fact but who would still want a 38 year old?
I no longer think about myself. Now i only think of my little girl. Staying in this marriage for her sake. It is I who bring her to this world. And she is my responsibility. I have to give her the best and that includes a complete family.

sweetmilf

i feel u have done your part.

you should just take care of the family well and live well. hubby don't appreciate you, you got to love yourself.

i am also concerned if hubby looked at u differently as u are a divorcee ??

maybe u want to upload a picture of u with body fitting clothes so that we can see if u are really a sweet milf?


most guys complain the other half is a dead fish and not keen in sex.
yet here we have one trying hard to get the hubby attention.
guess sometimes we have a mismatch.

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i am here posting as its another night without intimacy as she goes to dream land much earlier than expected, always tired, always no energy.. CCB

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by Super_Hooligan

Did you let her eat the cake at your wedding? Everyone knows that wedding cake cures a womans sex drive.

Do you know why women always smile when they are walking down the aisle? Its becuase they know they have given their last blow job

hahahaha good one there.

[samyboys]

Just to share

This morning, had a test water with my wife, why woman, esp after marriage, not keen in sex.

In her perspective, she feels its no really necessary to do it. Not so patience to get intimate, build up the mood. Also added that there's not much reason the need to have sex (since there's children in the family already, its like sex is just to make babies) FYI - we still practice safe sex with protection whenever we do it.

In summary its a straight selfish, thinking only of oneself mentality. At least now it sets my mind clear to know why bedroom intimacy has died.
Least now I know, I confirmed got a dead fish in the bedroom, no need to keep playing the guessing game when she is keen or not keen.

YES, its a fact, sex is not everything, but it can cause problem when a couple is not doing it enough/regularly.

Will just lead my own life.

[Frankiestine]

Fuck OC wants me to pay for her 6K slimming treatment....I am better off using these 6K to fuck all the FLs/WLs...at least I get a better return from them..

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Fuck OC wants me to pay for her 6K slimming treatment....I am better off using these 6K to fuck all the FLs/WLs...at least I get a better return from them..

why take care of her needs when she do not take care of yours.

best is 50/50, unless u are a money printer

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by jesterking23

ERR gunner!!... BTW male breast can produce milk just like women, it was on the news some time ago.......

Maybe I semi-retire until sua ku liaoz. But still, it's simply strange and unimaginable for men to breastfeed!

As I still strongly believe, males and females, whether humans or animals, has their own roles in the society and nature. Trying to go against nature, that's creating trouble and even havoc !

[samyboys]

generally, its a fact, woman lose interest in sex, after marriage, worse after birth