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[Fei Ge]

Bro Urger, U r the MAN!!!

Keep it up!!!

[oeioei]

Hey Bro Urger,

I've been reading your posts from page 1 till page 18 for almost the whole afternoon. I would say that your life story from the BBK trip till now is really great, full of experiences and meaningful. Keep it up.

I would suggest that you pop the question to her on a romantic great nite thou when is the right time is up to you. Popping the question on a romantic nite, she will find it hard to reject you especially both of you clicks quite well and you can also be a gentleman at the same time by telling her that both of you would take a step by a step each time and no pressure. Of course you will sound even more sincere if the question consist of marriage in mind. Like i said, no pressure.

Anyway, I do feel you have your own plans brewing and good luck and all the best. Take Care bro!!

[skiman]

Bro Urger;

Keep the story going. It is good. From what have been said and May attitude towards you. I am sure in no time she will be yours. You are one lucky fella.

[urger]

A very sincere and a BIG thank you to all the bros who read my posts and all the overwhelming encouragement. Thank you again.

At the very first place when I got to know her, i never expect things will actually hit it out so well. Initially just thought of knowing her as a friend and nothing else. But as the days went by over during thailand trip I realised that I am fond of her.

The kind of feeling where u feel butterflies in ur heart, constantly thinking of her,wondering what she is doing when you dun get to see her even when u just parted just a few minutes. All these feelings are just too sweet and comforting.

However, I am a littel skeptical about having a new relationship again. Frankly speaking I have lost absolute confidence in SG girls liao. The past failed relationship were just too cruel for me to forget totally,damn!

Anyway even if both May and I never get together eventually, I will still post a bit of our updates or maybe new encounters. heheh

[ilovesg]

Alright bro~ No matter which choice or path you choose. As long as you are happy. Its alright with us all cheers . if possible you are able to "make up" your stories from her onwards heh :P

[infusion]

Hey bro Urger, congrats on the relationship development w/ May. Started viewing the thread all the way from page 1 til last... quite good leh your life-story w/ this girl...

Hope you can really woo her and be her bf! Give her yer love! Dun be afraid of yer past liao, cherish her. 珍惜眼前人. Dun lose her or maybe u might regret it one day... jus my 2cents.

* P.S. Rmb to keep us updated on the latest developments..!

[maxknight]

Obviously May is waiting for you to say the magic words..."I love you, May"...
After reading your encounter, your time with her and time without her it shows that she's waiting for YOU!!! What the fuck are you waiting for... mia too liao...say the magic words... she will not reject you wan but might have some hesitation of hmm, err, paiseh paiseh situation before giving you the "ON" answer.
Go for it , bro

[schoolguy]

I think you stand a very high chance if you propose to her. If I am not wrong she already hinted or maybe regard you as her boyfriend. Remember when she mention to the guy that she have a boyfriend, and her boyfriend doesn't drive. Girls are always like that they will open their mouth until you do so! Mai tu liao.

[Valencia]

Hey Urger,

See? Everyone is giving you support to start a relationship with May. Everyone has a failed relationship in one way or another....what matters is you are able to stand up and continues to search for the right one.
What I can say is your past relationship did not work out coze you have not met the right one. It is a matter of time that you will find one.
So don't give up...SG gals may be quite spoiled at times...but I am sure there are plenty of nice ones around...(such as May?).
Give it a try!...

[Harrier24B]

Originally Posted by urger

The kind of feeling where u feel butterflies in ur heart, constantly thinking of her,wondering what she is doing when you dun get to see her even when u just parted just a few minutes. All these feelings are just too sweet and comforting.

Urger,

It's obvious you are in love with May. Go for it!

In life, irregardless of the number of failed relationships that you have experienced in the past, by not trying for the one if front of you, you are giving up the chace of the correct or NEAR perfect one without even trying.

You may live to regret it in the future.....

Just do it! You have nothing to lose....

Good luck!

[urger]

Of cse I do want to say that "3 golden words" to her, however the problems lies on my confidence level on the new relationship. I hate the entire sequence of the courtshipping process. It's too tiring.

To make things worst, I received a call 3 days ago for my ex-girlfriend. I dun know if God or Heaven really want to toy with me this time! To the bros here it may sounds too much of a coincidence or may think that i am making up it up to lengthen my story.

The fact is..... my really ex-gf called up! DARN!!!

Now I am really stuck in a situation. Sandwiched by 2 girls! One is a new-found love, the other is a girl whom I have love but I chose to gave up the relationship 3 years ago!

Now I just want to listen to bros here for the best suggestion. But please dun tell me to take 2 of them. There is only 1 choice to be make.

But the way nothing much to update about me and May. Cause both of us are rather busy and occupied by work and personal stuff. We do called up and sms each other.

Cheers.

[urger]

Sorry...double post.

[IceBerg]

Originally Posted by urger

Now I just want to listen to bros here for the best suggestion. But please dun tell me to take 2 of them. There is only 1 choice to be make.

But the way nothing much to update about me and May. Cause both of us are rather busy and occupied by work and personal stuff. We do called up and sms each other.

Cheers.

Bro .. u need to noe n be true to urself .... who u love? In ur heart who's face come up whenever u miss her ... ur ex or may ... if u choose ur ex .. ask urself y e break up in e first place n can things move on to e next level whith her ... if is may then ask if u can forget ur ex n whole heartedly love may n love is e issue n not her body ( sorry if i being frank) If u can ans this qn then u will noe wat to do next .. hope this help abit cos i too got through this b4 ...

Cheers

[darts]

Now I am really stuck in a situation. Sandwiched by 2 girls! One is a new-found love, the other is a girl whom I have love but I chose to gave up the relationship 3 years ago!

Now I just want to listen to bros here for the best suggestion. But please dun tell me to take 2 of them. There is only 1 choice to be make.


Hi Urger,

I do suggest that, you don't be so pessimistic about the whole thing, why not just take it as how nature will take it course, try look at it with an open mind & socialize with both of them as friends becos as for May u did not pop the question therefore she should not feel any betrayal, on the other hand 3 years is along time maybe your ex gf had change to a much better person.

JUST TAKE IT EASY, ENJOY LIFE TO THE FULLEST.

PS: My 2 cent worth, try not to commit at this moment.

Regards & Best of LUCK

[Valencia]

Hey bro,

I totally agreed with Iceberg!! Only your heart has the answer to the question: Who is the right one? Goes with your heart. If you cant answer that question, it means you are not ready for a relationship or neither one of them is what you really want.
You will be amazed by the answers your heart can give you.
Your mentioned you do not want to go through the courtship phase again...but isn't that what you were doing along with May?