An Affair with an older married lady... and the aftermath...

[EnigmaofSorrow]

Originally Posted by junebaby

You asked him openly. I asked him privately. Maybe he'll privately reply to me.

I will use my Bill Clinton catchphrase again.

"I did not have sexual relations with that woman."

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by EnigmaofSorrow

I will use my Bill Clinton catchphrase again.

"I did not have sexual relations with that woman."

You realise that Clinton was lying right?

So that means you're lying too?

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by junebaby

You realise that Clinton was lying right?

So that means you're lying too?

I think that's the exact reason why EOS dun want to explain himself. The more he explain, the darker it gets hahahaha tio bo EOS?

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by sexcision

I think that's the exact reason why EOS dun want to explain himself. The more he explain, the darker it gets hahahaha tio bo EOS?

I think he's going to disappear already. But no shame in admitting, he should come clean. Not as if anyone is going to impeach him.

[Asakura]

lmao how to win this 🤣 😂

Originally Posted by junebaby

You realise that Clinton was lying right?

So that means you're lying too?

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by EnigmaofSorrow

I will use my Bill Clinton catchphrase again.

"I did not have sexual relations with that woman."

Bro, if I were you, I will be adopting the I can't be bothered to reply attitude.
Are they the mom or dad of those ladies? If not, why bother if you have or not slept with them?
Personal space should be respected.

[entering]

Originally Posted by junebaby

Not really flooded. But received a PM from someone explicitly stating what he wants to do to me. If it happened in real life it's bordering on harassment. I don't know any female who can accept such things. But I'm here anyway. Haha.

And of course I enjoy sex with my husband. I can't really say who's better, but when I'm home and he suspects I've been with my FWB, he'll fuck me hard and I enjoy that.

I don't think Mark is handsome. But I don't know what the standard is anyway. He is a good talker though, a relatively ok listener. Maybe that's why they find him charming?

Omg. Can this story be even more interesting! This is the bomb!

[beijinguy]

Originally Posted by junebaby

You realise that Clinton was lying right?

So that means you're lying too?

Clinton may not be lying. He could be thinking sexual relations mean fucking, which he did not

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by junebaby

You realise that Clinton was lying right?

So that means you're lying too?

Lying and not telling the full truth are not the same.
Just like you having, seeing and bonking your FWB dies not equate to you lying to your hubby, just that when he suspected you just had round with him, then your hubby would bang you extra hard which you loved.

[Shrouded]

After the meeting on Wednesday, neither Shirlyn nor Jasmine questioned me further about the lady whom I had met with. I guess Shirlyn had told Jasmine what she saw at Starbucks.

Thursday was a relatively normal day at work. Rebecca was complaining about the work she had to do on my behalf as usual, with Kate rolling her eyes at her.

Jasmine was stuck with Joan in meetings nearly the entire day, while Shirlyn left the office just before lunch for a management meeting with the boss.

Friday was the same as well, nothing out of the ordinary happened. But everyone seemed to be busy with their own work.

I wanted to eat lunch alone so that I'd have some time to think about things, but I bumped into Cheryl and Ken when I was queuing at the food centre. I pretended not to see them.

K: Eh Mark! So unfriendly.

Me: Oh. Didn't see you.

K: Ya right. Join us la! We got a table.

Me: It's ok. I'll tapau back to office.

K: Ok lor.

I got my food and headed back to the office, going straight to the pantry.

Nat texted me while I was eating lunch.

N: We just reached back not long ago. You still wanna meet tonight? It's only me though. Darren will be bringing the kids to their grandparents.

Me: Oh. She wanted to meet both of you.

N: Ah. Well. You know why he's bringing the kids out right?

Me: Jason's coming over?

N: Not tonight.

Me: Damn.

N: Can we meet her after I'm done with you?

Me: You can't be serious.

N: But I am.

Me: What's Jason doing? Can't we meet you after that?

N: He said he's occupied tonight.

Me: Oh.

N: I already told Jasmine.

Me: Right.

N: Well?

Me: Let me ask.

N: Go ahead.

I dropped June an email.

Me: Hey, Nat is back but Darren is a little busy tonight. You ok with just meeting her? Or we can do it slightly later when he's back. Probably around 11pm?

I continued eating while waiting for a response. This time, surprisingly, she replied to the email pretty quickly.

J: I'm good anytime. Where are we meeting?

I had forgotten to ask so I texted Nat back.

N: My place? Darren is coming home anyway. We could have drinks.

Me: Erm. Ok.

I sent a reply to June.

Me: You ok to meet at their place? Nat says we can have drinks.

As usual, I waited for a response.

J: Sure. Text me the address. I'll be there.

I sent her the address and continued having lunch.

Once it was almost time to head home, I wondered if it was possible to avoid meeting Nat. Jasmine popped by my desk before she left.

J: Meeting Nat later? I'll be out with Kate and Shirlyn.

Me: Oh? Ok. Nat did ask to meet, but I'm supposed to arrange for June to see them as well.

J: So meet Nat first?

Me: Well…

J: She must be so deprived, having spent the whole week in Korea.

Me: I'll see how later I guess.

J: Kate may be staying over tonight.

Me: Oh…

J: She'll sleep in Alicia's room la.

Me: I can sleep in Alicia's room.

J: Haha. Are you missing me?

Me: Sort of?

J: We sleep together daily. Why would you be missing me?

Me: It's not that. Sometimes I want to have sex with you too ok?

J: I know. But there's plenty of time for that.

Me: Right.

J: Have fun tonight ok? Just not too much fun.

Me: Sure. You too.

I hung around awhile longer doing nothing much as I had to wait for my red plate car to be able to move.

I must have fallen asleep at my desk as the entire office was quiet. I checked the time and it was nearly 8. I was supposed to meet Nat at 9.

I grabbed a quick bite of some biscuits and Milo from the pantry and headed home to shower and change before meeting Nat.

Nat was sitting on the sofa watching TV while waiting for me.

N: Wah. I thought you weren't going to show up since you didn't text at all.

Me: Strangely, I fell asleep at my desk.

N: You must have been tired.

Me: Lots of paperwork? Haha.

N: Right. So you wanna do this now? Or wait for your new friend to arrive.

Me: Huh?

N: She wants to meet us right?

Me: To talk. That's all.

N: You sure?

Me: Pretty sure.

N: Alright then, let's go to the room.

Me: Ok.

Sex with Nat was pretty standard these days. Blowjob to get me hard, cap on, ride till she came, lie down, missionary, doggy, cum a few more times. Sometimes I wondered if this was how it was with Jason. Just vanilla sex. But she did cum pretty easily.

N: You didn't cum. Why?

Me: Guess I'm tired.

N: But you got hard.

Me: You made me hard.

N: Want me to blow you till you cum?

Me: Nah. It's fine.

We took a quick shower and went back to the living room. It was barely 10pm but Darren was already back.

N: You're early.

D: You're fast.

Me: Oops.

D: Aren't we meeting somebody? Thought I'd come back earlier so we don't meet so late.

Me: Ah. Let me contact her.

I dropped June an email.

Me: We're done earlier than expected. Mind coming over earlier?

She didn't reply so I guess she'd just show up at 11pm as arranged.

D: Want a beer?

Me: Nah.

D: Wine? We got some Moscato from duty free.

Me: Erm. Something light I guess. Didn't really eat dinner.

D: Oh. We've got lots of snacks.

Me: Nah. I'm good.

N: Lucky we dumped the Moscato in the fridge just now.

Darren poured us each a glass and we drank.

D: So this lady, what does she want?

Me: She's very curious about your open marriage. How do you manage it. Stuff like that. Better to let her do the asking.

D: Sure.

N: Why is she so curious?

Me: I don't know.

N: Things like that can only happen when both parties are involved.

Me: Not really sure. She seems to be in a one-sided open marriage.

D: Interesting.

Me: Let's just wait for her.

Surprisingly, the intercom buzzed at around 1030pm.

Nat unlocked the lobby gate and opened the door.

N: Wow. You're tall. And busty.

J: Er. Thanks?

June was wearing a tank top and denim shorts, showing off her long legs. Maybe it was Nat who was on the petite side, but next to her, June looked like an Amazon. She probably even had a couple of centimeters over Jasmine.

I made the introductions and Nat motioned me to sit beside her as she sat in the middle of the sofa, with Darren on the other side. June took the single seater to my right.

N: So, what do you want to know?

J: Well, firstly, how did this start?

Nat recounted the entire story about how her sex drive increased after her second kid, and how Darren couldn't satisfy her properly because of his huge member. How she wanted to be fair to him as well, and why she technically only slept with people they already knew.

J: Isn't it kind of awkward? Since you guys probably hang out as well?

N: Nah, it's not awkward for us. Not so sure about them, but they seem to be acting normally.

J: But you don't really know who he's sleeping with right?

N: Within our group, I know who they are. Outside of the group, I've met her once. But Darren doesn't really have a high sex drive compared to me.

J: But you completely accept that he sleeps with your friends?

N: Yes. We trust each other to know the boundaries, how to play safe, and how to come home afterwards.

J: Darren, what about you?

D: Well, it is hard to find suitable partners for myself. And I really don't need to be doing this weekly. As long as Nat knows her limits it's fine.

J: And you have kids too?

D: Yup. We just send them off to their grandparents on Fridays so Nat can have her fun.

J: What do you do then?

D: I hang out with my friends, or meet my own partner if I want to.

J: How do I get my husband to accept it?

N: Is there any indication that he accepts it?

J: I don't know. I don't really dare to ask him. But I feel he's jealous. Sometimes when I go home he'll fuck me hard. Like he's exerting his dominance. Showing me that he's still the man of the house.

N: Do you enjoy that?

J: Of course! It brings me back to when we were dating and he'd ravage me.

N: So why do you need someone else then?

J: My husband is always busy. Last time it was NS, then school, then he signed on, then work. I guess I was lonely?

D: Doesn't seem like a very good reason to have a FWB.

Nat shushed him.

N: Shh! Let her talk!

J: My first FWB was my classmate. We spent so much time together that it was natural that I was attracted to him. I was still a virgin then so it was mostly just hanging out with him and blowing him.

N: Not bad. Got blowjob buddy. You must be good at it.

J: Guess I'm ok.

N: Carry on.

J: My husband knew all along that I was seeing someone else. Even before we were married.

N: Why did you get married then?

J: He's my first boyfriend, and he proposed. We were 20.

N: That's really young.

J: I guess. But we're doing fine. Never had any real issues. Just never really talked to him about all this.

N: Well, you need to communicate if you want such a relationship to work.

J: He doesn't talk much, even about his own feelings.

N: Do you feel guilty?

J: Sometimes. Other than loneliness, I used to look for other guys when I felt my husband did something wrong.

D: Did he?

J: He was close to his classmates, I saw some messages on this phone… When I went to his school to look for him, he was surrounded by girls.

Me: Sounds like you're the jealous one. You acted out on suspicions that may have been unfounded.

J: You're right. I guess.

Me: What are you afraid of?

J: I don't know.

Me: Are you afraid he'll leave you? If you were, then you probably wouldn't be seeing other guys behind his back.

J: I don't think he'll leave me.

N: Are you concerned that he has someone else?

J: A little? But he never had an issue with pleasuring me when he wanted to. Especially after I meet my FWB.

D: I think I see the issue here. You feel he's lost interest in you, and only gets intimate with you after he thinks you've been intimate with someone else.

J: That seems accurate.

D: How old is he?

J: Same age as me.

N: Late 30s, should be in prime condition. Does he have a low sex drive?

J: I never asked. But it didn't used to be like this. We had so much sex. And I only sought the company of others when he wasn't around, like when he was in the army, busy with school, or work. When we finally got our own BTO I thought things would get better as we'd be with each other daily, but he spent more time on his computer instead.

N: I guess the important thing is, are you happy in your marriage and is he?

J: I've no reason to be unhappy.

Me: You just want more sex from him?

J: That's one thing.

Me: So just do it?

J: He doesn't take the initiative anymore. Now it usually happens after I meet my FWB.

Me: Then just meet your FWB more often?

N: Or just tell him that you're meeting your FWB.

J: Don't think that will work. It's like he can sense it. So I really have to meet my FWB first.

D: And you like it when he does it after?

J: Yeah. He's very intense when he does it. Like showing me he owns me.

N: He sounds pretty weird. But really, you need to talk to him about your needs. And find out if he has his own FWB or something. When all the cards are out, it's easier to communicate.

J: What about the jealousy? How do you deal with it?

N: What jealousy? Everything is communicated and both parties are aware and accepting.

J: You really don't get jealous?

N: No?

June turned to Darren.

J: And you?

D: I'm not sure what I'm supposed to be jealous about?

J: That your wife is with another man? Or your husband is with another woman?

N: That's not how open relationships work you know?

D: I know who she's with and what they're doing. I was sitting right here when they were inside the room.

J: Really?

N: Yeah. I was with Mark just now.

J: Oh. And you're really not jealous?

D: Well, I would have joined in if my wife could take it. But she can't, so I just let her enjoy herself?

J: I don't understand how there's no jealousy.

D: It's an individual response. It's how you perceive it?

J: Still don't get it.

N: Hey. Watch this.

Nat pulled down my berms and boxers and took my flaccid penis into her mouth. I totally wasn't expecting it. Darren merely burst out laughing.

J: Oh shit. What is this?

N: I'm blowing Mark in front of my husband?

J: And there's no reaction from him?

Nat reached over and fondled him.

N: There is.

J: He gets turned on watching you with another guy?

N: Why not?

J: Is this like some cuckold situation?

D: Not really?

Nat stopped blowing me and moved over to Darren. I saw June's jaw drop as Nat revealed the monster that was in his pants.

J: That's… a very nice size.

N: It is. But it barely fits into me. Hurts even. So I need to satisfy myself with other guys who are less well-endowed. Darren understands this.

J: And you don't get jealous when he fucks other women?

N: Like I said, we agreed to do this. We both understand each other's needs.

J: How can there be no jealousy?

N: There really isn't.

June turned to me.

J: And you? Aren't you jealous?

Me: Of what? I'm not her husband. I'm just a partner.

J: When your own partner fucks someone else?

D: We had a threesome before.

Me: And he did sleep with her separately. Though I got to admit I was a little upset back then. Now I've just accepted it?

J: Unbelievable.

N: I could start fucking Mark right now and Darren would probably just laugh at us.

J: And if Darren is fucking someone else in front of you?

N: I'll probably laugh at him too.

J: You got to be kidding.

N: Would you like to try?

J: Try?

Nat grabbed Darren's cock and waved it about.

N: My husband's cock is very nice right?

J: Yes it is.

N: Would you like to try it?

June looked a little unsure and was shifting uncomfortably in her seat.

J: I don't know.

N: You can have him. Then go home and tell your husband.

J: Er…

D: I'm cool with that.

J: You two are unbelievable.

I sort of expected June to get up and leave but instead she just sat there for awhile, possibly considering the offer. It was probably not what she expected coming her tonight to have a chat with them about their open relationship.

J: Can I use your bathroom first?

N: Sure. Go ahead. We'll be here waiting.

[junior_cannibal]

Mark is really a very nice chap. Not only he took the time and trouble to meet June but also planning to help to set up her meeting with Nat and Darren. Wonder is that couple willing to meet a random lady who wanted to consult them how to have a happy item relationship. If I were them, be it Nat or Darren, why bother to waste time?
Also, it sounded like June only had at best three men in her life, no wonder she only knows to have guys the bigger the better, of course, on top of other condition such as ability to connect.
Other than length, the girth, the profile of a cock, eg curve up/down, skill and experience are equally important. AMTK but usually not as hard as the Asians. If want the long and hard, then the blacks are more likely.
Besides, I personally find June rather intimidating to keep reminding Mark she wouldn't want him to be her FWB, so what she's 168, with tits that almost spill out due to a blouse that's a size too small?
I bet I would have offended some bros here for my comments about June, but ain't this forum about free speech?

[junior_cannibal]

Seeing Darren big Joe, June forgot what she said...
1 she didn't like someone that cum too fast
2 she needs to be able to connect and not just how big is the cock
Hehe, just like when a man sees a pretty woman, he says he likes a smart and intellectual woman, but he's immediately smitten when this women flirts with him.

[Bigbluebird]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Seeing Darren big Joe, June forgot what she said...
1 she didn't like someone that cum too fast
2 she needs to be able to connect and not just how big is the cock
Hehe, just like when a man sees a pretty woman, he says he likes a smart and intellectual woman, but he's immediately smitten when this women flirts with him.

Bingo. Temptation works in any situation and for both sexes, but if you are someone who truly has been there and done that, the lure of it cuts down and somehow you just manage it better. Then again don't start something just for thrill, especially something which you cannot accept what happens and comes after.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Bigbluebird

Bingo. Temptation works in any situation and for both sexes, but if you are someone who truly has been there and done that, the lure of it cuts down and somehow you just manage it better. Then again don't start something just for thrill, especially something which you cannot accept what happens and comes after.

That will need someone who's more veteran than June. She only 3 men (if she's honest), doubt she could manage not to fall prey to Darren's.

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

That will need someone who's more veteran than June. She only 3 men (if she's honest), doubt she could manage not to fall prey to Darren's.

I don't deny he has a nice cock.

But Mark hasn't finished writing the story yet. Maybe you shouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly.