Hong Kong girl

[Panamera]

Used to fancy HK gals during my 4 years stayed there, but I came to realized 8out of 10 really damn Selfish and Calculative type also very Lan-See-Lan-Yong (cantonese) type , count your blessing, bro...

[FL Lover]

Your problem applies to other nationalities not only HK gers. Do you seriously think that in our real world, we can live n feed on LOVE?

Seriously, most of us would think that LOVE is above all but think abt it.

What do you want the ger to do when both of your stomachs are empty, bills to pay or transportations? If you do not even have a stable income, do you really think the gers will stay with you long?

Everyone have expectations. This applies to viet gers, PRC gers, SG gers and HK gers etc or even the exotic ones... africian? If you cant meet their expectations, no one will stay for long.

One more thing, not all SG gers are that bad. Many of us would say sg gers are materialistic, picky but this applies to all other nationalities. Its just that you have not met the right ger and you do not have the requirements that others have put upon you. Do you think you are the only one who have expectations and requirements?

[angrybigpenis]

Having lived in HK for 3-4 years before, I must say there are those HK girls that can be more idealistic than materialistic. For the better educated, they tend to pay more emphasis on gaining wealth and status simply because they (like us) want to ensure a happy retirement.

OK, there are some that are overly materialistic.

But I have dated a HK girl (high sch standard) while I was there, she works out in a maternity shop in Nathan. Nice girl but in the end, she just didn't want to leave her family in HK.

Paiseh to say, she was one of those that I didn't bonk......not bad looking, presentable but quite hardworking in trying to accumulate savings. Womanly figure though the curves were not dangerously sexy like Ceclia Chung or Gigi Lai!

[mike1304k]

Bro please let me give you 3 examples:

1) Sg girl, steady for 4 years. She did not like to stay at home, loved to eat outside, watch movies and so on. Spent a bomb on her and in the end we broke off due to personal reasons. Do I ask her for my lost time and money?

2)Japanese girl, we loved each other and because of her I went to Japan to work and to live. But in the end of 4 years, she just said that she was not allowed to marry a foreigner. Do I say that she KC'd me?

3) Sg girl, we took a hell of a time to be together. Over 1 and a hald years. But when we suddenly started to date, I fell head over heals and gave her as much as I could. I was spending over $500 a week on her. (I was not earning so much that time). While dating, we only hug and kiss. When we slept together, we did not do anything. In the end, she said that she did not believe in marriage. Was I being KC'd?

Bro, sometimes it is not the girl's fault that you broke off. Sometimes it is because we over read the situation and think that we are having a relationship when we do not. When a girl winks at us, spends time with us and has laughs with us, that does not mean that we are going together. Dating and having a relationship are two different things. And both have different outcomes.

I do agree that most girls in industrialized cities or developed cities are more materialistic, but have you tried to go to your long lost cousins in China? Or India? They will expect you to bring them TV's, fridges and so on. When you go back, they will ask you to leave your clothes and luggage because you can buy new ones when you go home.

So as you can see, different cultures, different expectations, different desired ends points, it all leads to a lot of conflicts and problems. Just take it as a hit, and walk away lor. It will be the same with a local girl or any other girl.

Cheers.

[uiop]

Watch too much HK drama.

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by uiop

Watch too much HK drama.

HK drama girls not materialistic leh. LOL

and to the bro who zap me "i am handsome and rich, are u?"

dude u no fuckin brains ah? u zap for for reason like this? even u are handsome and rich... u are brainless... i lament for your ..... nvm u are one sad case.. LOL.. must be the clone of that stupid dude who zap me. sigh. economy so bad come into forum and anyhow zap.

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by unsung80

i encountered one, i thought it might blossom something out of it. 2 months later she totally ignored me. Quietly telling me am not up to the level for her. From a friendship of 4 years become dust. I felt so cheated by her words for 2 months.

sometimes its not the money thats the reason.. did she ever tell u wats her level? maybe attraction... maybe its ur character... its not always bout money.

[Ken2009]

Had a hk gf for 3 months when I was an summer attachment student.. I can communicate fluently in cantonese and thought everything should be ok. But hk being a 2X faster country than us, "fittest survives" theory really made hk girls having different mentality from us....

in the end broke up and both of us have no regrets too... But sg and hk being both chinese, I see no problem if a guy manage to build up a career to impress the gal..i guess this is wat the new generation gal is looking for..

[unsung80]

Originally Posted by Ken2009

Had a hk gf for 3 months when I was an summer attachment student.. I can communicate fluently in cantonese and thought everything should be ok. But hk being a 2X faster country than us, "fittest survives" theory really made hk girls having different mentality from us....

Fully agree bro, i hate to admit but some of them are even better than guys.

[DO_I_BJ]

btw its common for hkers to hold 2 jobs at the same time. imagine the stress.
thats why they got so many ah peks go shenzhen find mistress la..wife la...
saw alot of them there.

[fukingu]

Here's a relevant excerpt from my thread ( found in Adults sex talk) about HK women :

In Hong Kong, Male host nightclubs may indeed appeal to a certain, very small, miniority of liberal middle class HK women. However, such women are a rare species in HK, and are already spolit by attention and flirting from male colleagues, bosses and friends that they have no inclination to patronise male prostitutes and are unlikelt to visit host nightclubs.... ...

Hong Kong women are more sexually reserved than the Taiwanese. HK women tend to view their pussy as a means to an end, not as a source of pleasure, and view sex simply for pleasure as a "business loss" . Therefore, even if sorely tempted by intense curiosity to visit a male host club, they would be unlikely to experiment as a customer as they would still consider the male hosts to be taking advantage of their precious pussy.