How To KNow if Your Wife Is Cheating on You??

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by pl94

Hello bros and SBForummers...


Am i being overly suspicious??

So bros, need some advice.. Thanks in advance.

When in doubt, stray....

Well, at least you are already on this Forum so probably you have strayed already huh?

If you have not, then do it NOW... so at least when you finally find out she strayed, you and her are both even already!

Anyway, my point of view is like that... if Husband wants it everyday.. wife better provides... its like cooking dinner and eat at home.. if wife no cook, then go out eat lor! These Singapore ladies thinks too highly of themselves.. they should wise up to understand that if they do not want to treat their husbands well, then there are many other SYT who are willing to.

I simply dun understand why so many singapore guys behave in such a hen-peck way... work hard to provide for family and yet sex schedule still have to depend of wife to decide. When we go work, got boss face to see.. go home somemore need to tolerate wife face!??? You mean last life you owe her money and still not paid fully ah!???

"Do you love her? Do you treasure your relationship??". I dun think these questions should even be asked at this point in time. Why should you treasure the relationship and love her IF she does not treasure you and love you!???? But if she does, then she will be only too glad to fulfill your every wimp and wishes.. and even in bed. Please do not mis-understand that I am talking about MCP (Male Chauvinist Pig), but what I am saying is that when we find such a person, then its worthwhile for us to go out of our way to provide and protect them in a loving way..

Spending money on PI!??? i think no need lah... just do this...
1. make sure her phone does not have detailed billing
2. shop online for a software that forwards a copy of all SMS sent to another designated number
3. buy her a fanciful phone with that software installed and give it to her as a present.

In this way.. you will get a copy of all the SMSes she sent and she will never know and you will know all and yet it cost a lot less than PI.

just my VND2,000 worth...

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by duothrust

Don't complicate matters by over-thinking. She could be referring to her past experiences with ex-bfs or perhaps she heard from her friends.

I will say this is a slight tell-tale sign, but not conclusive.

For women, when they cheat on u, majority will tend to exhibit a feeling of love for the other man. Cos men cheat for lust, while women usually cheat due to love first and then subsequently lust. So once u can feel that the love between the both of u has died down in a relatively short period of time, maybe then that will be cause for concern.

I guess TS need to fork out more time to find out whats wrong with their life. Man cheat due to lust and fun, while woman do it out of lack of love and care. Do some soul searching and be prepared to face the truth, which I hope is all your overreaction only.

A marriage is a 2 way thing, so is love.

Good DAy.

[lilmei]

then she said... "how come all guys like to tease with their tongue sticking out like that?"..

my humble opinion, confirm hit liao ....
some more not hit n run type of screwing, extended n slowly play 1 ...

sorry bro ... if too blunt ...

[kjin9999]

Originally Posted by pl94

Hello bros and SBForummers...



"how come all guys like to tease with their tongue sticking out like that?"..

Bro,

She may had a chat with her girlfriends abt your sex life.... they may had given her some advice on how to improve on it... Don't over react... before confronting her...

Wish u best of luck...

[TaxiLao]

Well, to TS....it's too early to come to a conclusion yet.Just check things out first.Maybe like some bros said,your wife might have chatted with some lady friends and they talked about certain topics regarding this.Don't stress out yourself.Hope things turn out well for you.Good luck

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by pl94

"how come all guys like to tease with their tongue sticking out like that?"

Oppppsss... slip of the tongue! You should've ask her "how many guys have done that to you so far?"

Guys... finding a faithful wife is like playing tikum tikum.

No guarantee no matter what. Know of a guy who screw his wife almost every day and swear by her faithfulness... but behind his back she expose herself on videocam to total strangers.

[bangbangben]

I think it's not fair for TS to jump to conclusions...

so your own investigation to find more solid grounds before flaring up on her...

[old_yet_horny]

Originally Posted by yoursecret

Maybe her dressing up etc is advice (from woman's mags or colleagues) on how to spice up her marriage again...

you also say it works what.

Yeap Bro... Its definitely helping the marrigae if the couple is enjoying sex and enjoying it more than they used to...

However, when TS's wife said "how come all guys like to tease with their tongue sticking out like that?"...

Is she experiencing something out of TS's marriage?? Or she watched too much porno in the office?? or too much gossips from her female buddies... Its up to individual's POV...

I have discussed TS's situation with my OC... (Relating TS's situation to a hearsay at a kopitiam..not revealing SBF)... Sadly, she felt that something is fishy and the husband should start to pay more attention..


Anyway, I hope my OC is wrong and TS's wifey is not having fun outside...

[qwertyuiop]

Originally Posted by yang punk

Guys... finding a faithful wife is like playing tikum tikum.

No guarantee no matter what. Know of a guy who screw his wife almost every day and swear by her faithfulness... but behind his back she expose herself on videocam to total strangers.

agree with yang punk on this statement which is very true. have seen too much about this type of situation wife screwed by husband everyday but still seem not sextified enough so eat out there.

[jnlover]

Originally Posted by qwertyuiop

agree with yang punk on this statement which is very true. have seen too much about this type of situation wife screwed by husband everyday but still seem not sextified enough so eat out there.

I reckon this scenario also applies to men...

[TropicThunder]

perhaps the TS should update us on the situation. afterall, i feel that a couple of the members gave very good and constructive feedback to his problem.

personally, another important question could be raised to the TS. if your wife is indeed cheating behind your back, how would you react?

i know of friends who choose to close one eye and forget because raising the issue with their cheating spouse [male and female] will ruin their marriage and wreck their young families.

[glendavid3355]

Sorry to hear abt that.

But I think hiring a PI would be the way to go. What if u stalk her and get caught by her? That would be hard to explain things, i think.

[pga69]

brother think it positively, it could be your wife have those small talk with her colleages, and they told her their husband did the same i.e. sticking out their tounge at the love hole. having married for 5 year, u should be able to pick up signs of infidelity rather just base on this statement and dressing up. when women approach toward 30's they might want more self confidence, hence dressing up is one of the way. (likewise it happened on men, as we age, we probably dressed in more colourful shirt). if u want the truth, make sure u are able to face it, otherwise dun bother.

[benxmanda]

Simple, just google it and wala thousands if not millions of tips will pop up onto your screen.

Calm down, take a deep breath, nothing is conclusive until confirmed. Even if it happened, it’s not the end of the world, isn’t it?

Remember this: do you still love her?

[dormant]

Originally Posted by benxmanda

Simple, just google it and wala thousands if not millions of tips will pop up onto your screen.

Calm down, take a deep breath, nothing is conclusive until confirmed. Even if it happened, it’s not the end of the world, isn’t it?

Remember this: do you still love her?

Exactly. Do you still love her?

"The course of true love never did run smooth".