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block11 · #16 12-10-2009, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by t123

They never done it at all....
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Now she saw his smses with a lady...
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Whats the take from you guys and gals?

not much info for us to comment... maybe the hubby is gay and those sms are from a guy?

newyorker88 · #17 12-10-2009, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by t123

Following my previous thread on OC, this afternoon, I had a chat on phone with a female friend. After more than 10 years of marriage, she discovered her hubby have been having affair since marriage.

They never done it at all, she only lost her V to her ex colleague after 11 years. ?

She never bedded by hubby? You can believe such a story?

t123 · #18 12-10-2009, 01:09 PM

At first, she also thot that he is a gay, because he spends more than with friends in Boys Brigade, and he also went hiking with lesbian friends. My friend norm looking, not that bad. Just that she is near to depression when she found out he has a woman outside, but, I suspect maybe a man who send flirty smses and used a woman's name to cover. I am not taking sides just that yesterday chat feels like kenna Gong by a gong.

t123 · #19 12-10-2009, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by newyorker88

She never bedded by hubby? You can believe such a story?

Hmm, so far I believe from the way she describe her sex knowledge is thru books. One of other friend (Besides her colleague) also up her, said she like no experience at all.

Bang the bolster, she told me she initiate but hubby rather sleep in his game room.

HCKing · #20 12-10-2009, 11:55 PM

i think the guy not only doesnt love his wife but also gt huge resentment towards her. spending most of his time with ps3 and pc games are just excuses to avoid communication with her.

naturegreen · #21 13-10-2009, 12:02 AM

If a married woman ever sms or tell me she and her husband never have sex before or they do not have sex anymore, I'd most likely take it as a hint she is initiating something with me.

lightning · #22 18-10-2009, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by t123

Hmm, so far I believe from the way she describe her sex knowledge is thru books. One of other friend (Besides her colleague) also up her, said she like no experience at all.

Bang the bolster, she told me she initiate but hubby rather sleep in his game room.

BTW wat is ur latest updates

Yyzen · #23 18-10-2009, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by HCKing

i think the guy not only doesnt love his wife but also gt huge resentment towards her. spending most of his time with ps3 and pc games are just excuses to avoid communication with her.

ya.. this is so sad.. i would play together with him , if i have hubby like this...

and *teh teh* abit :P

t123 · #24 18-10-2009, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by lightning

BTW wat is ur latest updates

She sounded sad, determined to stabilised her career and then go for the split. Now she is juggling 2,3 jobs to pay for her in laws who are staying with her, her own family and sometimes use the money to support his expenses fromt ime to time.

t123 · #25 18-10-2009, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by block11

not much info for us to comment... maybe the hubby is gay and those sms are from a guy?

She did suspect him as gay before, but she now suspect those intimate smses are from a lady.

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #26 18-10-2009, 11:58 AM

All the best.

It not easy to maintain a relationship let alone a marriage when both parties live together.
Singapore got so many divorce cases, its quite sad to always hear that..but sometimes..what to do leh