痛了。。。自然就会放手～ - Page 2

icecum · #16 07-04-2010, 09:52 PM

One Words : Outstanding Bro Medusa

Medusa · #17 07-04-2010, 10:58 PM

thks bro see see only for sharing that clip...nice song and indeed it matches the whole article

its ok bro Ichigo_Kurosaki...i guess alot of ppl who dunno abt the greek legend will find my nick very "man" lolz lots of ppl misunderstood i'm a man too

bro icecum....i'm a sis hahahaha but its ok...glad you like it

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #18 08-04-2010, 03:55 AM

痛了。。。自然就会放手～
如果每个人都能轻易的放下，那么就真的能成正果了，就因为大家都太执着了才会那么的痛苦.......痛了还可从新以再来

为了你的理想．你必须学会适时放弃．就是．变的更好．更强大．更幸福．

icecum · #19 08-04-2010, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

bro icecum....i'm a sis hahahaha but its ok...glad you like it

Ohs, sorry sis, my english not good at name haha.

Medusa · #20 08-04-2010, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by icecum

Ohs, sorry sis, my english not good at name haha.

no worries

Medusa · #21 08-04-2010, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

痛了。。。自然就会放手～
如果每个人都能轻易的放下，那么就真的能成正果了，就因为大家都太执着了才会那么的痛苦.......痛了还可从新以再来

为了你的理想．你必须学会适时放弃．就是．变的更好．更强大．更幸福．

well....there's a saying :

有一种爱叫做"放手"

but it takes alot more courage and strength to attain that

sillyguy · #22 10-04-2010, 05:08 AM

Yes. I agreed that it's easier to say then done. Just share my story with all the brother here.

I have a relationship with a WL in GL which i meet her in 2009 end april. Actually i meet her in GL 2008 too. She working as a FL. I only meet her twice and she went back to china without any contact. I seldom visit GL. For both occassion, i feeling very bad and moody. And go there looking for pleasure and release stress.
In 2009, I feeling very stress and moody and visit a whore house in GL. Manage to saw her there in my 2nd visit to the whore house. After that 1st visit, i visit her about once or twice a week. Go out with her during her off day buying her beauty stuff and some expensive present( rolex and omega watch) for her. Base on my experience, she was not a really"clever girl" who know how to KC man. The story she come out to ask me buy the stuff is really suck. But i still buy her because i like her. One more reason is that she did spend money to buy experience present for me. Anyway, i can afford it. I know the lmy limit and set a budget on the money to spend on her. But i did reject her other few request before.
She told me she have a boyfriend in china which i don't mind. That's relationship is not working fine. Anyway, she using him to take care of her stuff and brother in china. I found out that she have a boyfriend in singapore too. But she denied at first. But admit after awhile when i saw her going out ocassionally with him. The relationship was on and off type. Whereby they have broken off and the guy keep on looking for her. I saw the guy twice. He's a really sweet talker. He's soemone who is quite rich but don't want to spend much money on her. But can manage to get her out.
Sstill go out with him sometime. I understand her job and that why she need to go out with other guy during day off. But i feel jealous and angry when she go out with her ex-singapore boy friend. Coming out with story which WL like to tell. This is the worst thing which i hated about her. Telling me grandfather story. Sometime, I felt that she treat me like a standby boy friend which i feel very angry and sad.
I tried to avoid or break up with her for a few time. But just don't have the determination to do it once and for all. At one point of time, i feel like working in china and ask her stay with me there. I did work in china before and did a lot work traveling before. I think it will be better for relationship building. After much consideration, i give up the idea. At that moment, I think she doesn't deserve me to do it.Anyway, I know that it quite impossible for us to get married or together for long. But soemtime, i see her quite pity too. I just feel that i need to take care of her and enjoy her company for the time being in singapore. I just need her to be trustful to me which sometime difficult for her to do it to me. Maybe, lots of people think that I'm useless guy.
Anyway, she going back in 7months time. Hope everything will be normal for me after that. But i think i still will maintain contact with her.

justlovesex · #23 14-04-2010, 10:00 PM

sis Medusa,
easier say that done.
it sure take a lot of courage to do it.
thanks for sharing so many here.

Medusa · #24 14-04-2010, 10:55 PM

in fact alot of article here belongs to the "easier say than done" catagory isnt it

colins · #25 14-04-2010, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

in fact alot of article here belongs to the "easier say than done" catagory isnt it

Oh yes it is, while most people would think that the 'doing' part is so damn tough, actually it is just 一念之差.

haha76 · #26 18-06-2010, 06:47 AM

有些话想对你说，可总开不了口。我真笨，其实你以经暗示我你要回了，可我就当着理所当然。接到信息时我都碎了，这时才慌然大误，真得很痛，很痛。。。我们还会见面吗？我会等你。对不起我伤了你。如有一天找不到我，一定要忘了我。我先走了。

老哥上。

Cheonging101 · #27 18-06-2010, 10:33 AM

有些人却已因痛至麻木而忘了如何放手。

Ironman99 · #28 19-06-2010, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by see see only

Hey thks sis,

I just copy and paste into my computer

If I broke up with anyone I will read it again and again

But .................. i think it is really easy say then done

Nevertheless really it is really useful

i agree with you. We always try to advice friend to let go, but when something happened on me, i am the one who cant let go the most.

Ironman99 · #29 19-06-2010, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Cheonging101

有些人却已因痛至麻木而忘了如何放手。

从哪里失去的，就从哪里找回来！
someone told me this is wrong way, this will only make you go in more deeper and deeper

the other one told me , yes you are right, this is the way how you going to success in your life.

what do you think?

fdomme · #30 20-06-2010, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

其实这个世界，真的没有非要谁不可，
actually in this world, there's no definate of wanting who and who
走自己的路，别回头
walk your own path, and dont look back

I like these 2 sentence most

Thanks sis for the post and translation, hope can see u ...

Have a nice weekend