Joy of a ex-WL sponsor?

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by uobboss

Emptiness and companionship .

Pure commercial F is no longer fulfilling to you .

The mindset is hard to change

thats why many lao jiao play too long liao f and go feel bored, then must find some gals to put in a bit feelings involved then can considered a good bonk ma. typical human nature.( including me )

[dyelook]

bro goodpartner... if this is going to be your last mission, try staying together for some months or perhaps a year so that you'll get the final answer... in the meantime cut down the expenses you're helping them.. this will also leads you to your answer faster... hope that you'll be a goodpartner or at least be able to get a goodpartner... cheers

[colins]

Since bra realestateguy will probably take like 2 weeks before his post pass the moderation screen, the most concerning question is, your friend from north or south vietnam?

bro goodpartner, being all practical and realistic, thought of a very good idea sometime ago and brought it all the way into reality, then live in it, breathe in it and now asking if it is real? Sometimes the greatest idea IS an irony, otherwise how could a 'capitalist' believe in love? Well, just like if you ask the greatest artist if he believes in money, his simplest answer would be, I need to eat too! A capitalist also need companionship and love right?

Good bro, since you have breached all norms to 'sponsor' a WL into sharing some part of your life (measured not just by needs but inside your conscious as well), why are you held by norms now? Isn't marriage a norm? Are you starting to have new expectations from her now that you are 'old enough' to stop being renegade and have started to seek norms from a relationship that din start off with that end in mind?

Such relationships will not end in marriage, or a child, or a legacy. It is not meant that way. But now the question in you is, can you continue to believe anything you want will be possible and can be gotten, or are you going to say, let the norms get me and I'll follow the rules from now on. If you believe in the earlier, you will know exactly what to do to get what you want and need from this relationship. Otherwise, accept that this relationship must someday continue its existence under social norms, i.e. marriage/companionship/friendship.

My take is, your quest in being a renegade is the cause to your previous marriages (and possibly this). Once things start to fall into a predictable pace, you flip. ANYTHING that is yours simply cannot be the same as anyone else's.

Sorry if I sound judgemental, but no harm is intended. Just trying to help

[sun814]

can't understand why allow oneself to be KCed by them (i think there are better avenues to spend money), isn't better to find a fb who can financially support herself (only need to treat her to occassional meals) n have all the gf feelings when together.

[xyhan]

So true, but I need to change my MINDSET...

Brother,

Don't mind me adding in......I am very glad that you have taken the first step towards having a CHANGED MINDSET...

Welcome to the Club.... Keep it up.....


Cheers

[Max77]

Since u r in complete control then u shouldn't feel the least of pinch when u lost the ball game on the outside. I'm currently learning to lost inorder to win. Maybe TS wanna consider tat option.

Human nature. One person join a group to fulfill his need. He'll leave the group when either his need is fulfilled or the group no more fulfill his need. Two ppl come together when they needed each other. Deprive one of them his need and he'll drift away naturally. Why need to test on tat? Human being move around wif emotion. When u r happy u'll think of happy thing and doing happy deeds and vice versa.

A women comes back to u when she can't find wad she need elsewhere, but she's human too. Normally she'll rather die then to be humiliated or abused. Those tat hav no pride r not meant to be kept beside u. But her pride level will change wif her mood. When she's happy, her pride level dropped n vice versa.

If u r so worried about losing the control, then jus keep in control will do. Getting married will make u loose control and u don't need to verify on tat any further. Do wadever tat is needed to stay happy wif her. If she still prompt marriage when jolly well know wad u've been thru, then ur guard level must raise. She'll most likely do like wise when being threatened/tested by u. Threatening act in a healthy r/s never work in the long term.

I didn't understand where u come from completely. A bit chim for me actually, so replying solely on my perception of ur post. Correct me if i'm any wrong.

[goodpartner]

Bros, just a quick note to say thank you for the posts so far, I super bz these few days but have been sneaking in occasionally to check this out. Will response to those posts later especially to my most admired colins bro

Trying to change mindset lah, so part of it has to do with changing priority. Using the power of "attraction", I recently attracted another decent Sggy chick to date me out...LoL.

[uobboss]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Using the power of "attraction", I recently attracted another decent Sggy chick to date me out...LoL.

If by attraction means letting the "fish" know u are loaded is unfair for both u and her . If she bites u will be wondering is it the power of money or true feelings . She feels for you and not your money ? And you end up searching for another target because you cannot really trust her or yourself .

The ultimate joy is to hook one who thinks u are an average joe on the streets with ur charms and wit and you know she's in it for a real relationship .

peace out .

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by uobboss

The ultimate joy is to hook one who thinks u are an average joe on the streets with ur charms and wit and you know she's in it for a real relationship .

That's what I thought too, but hooking these "easy prey" as compare to normal gals/bgr, is not any accomplishment to shout about.

Besides... ok she got hooked wanting a real relationship, then what? I believe most sponsors, other than the personal agenda, somehow hope to see the ex-WL get better days.

A couple of days ago, she told me someone in the movie industry staying in the same building spotted her, got the office to track & call her apartment, offering her a chance to shoot in a popular soon-to-be-released thai movie, citing that she looks good for certain scene that need temporary actress...

Asked her to go for an audition and possibly immediate acting for 2 days; one which interact with the main actress (famous) and another that involve "sexual" scenes with the main actor. She'll be given 20,000 baht.

She turned down the offer
Her friends around her was disappointed she let such a good opportunity go, since this could be a chance to get popular and be noticed for bigger role.

Her reasoning for rejecting it? She felt it's a wrong thing to do since she's with me...

[Javanoob]

the joy is...
you get to f her, while thinking that she got f by many before..and now it you only.. (maybe..)

but thats the only joy i got.. ;/ n free sex and meetup in thailand when i on trip there. ;/