Does a 20-year age gap between bf-gf matter?

[K9696]

Originally Posted by billgates

I would like to know, for all those guys whose gf's are at least 20 years younger, what is your experience like? Is there a communication gap, difference in thinking, etc?

Thanks for sharing.

I like your agenda, let me share w u my situation of a girl that I know for 9months, still considered good and close friend, potentially can become my partner..

1) Me - 44, she - 25, about 20yrs different..
2) Me - Sin, She - PRC, working as a Sales, used to own a restaurant but closed due to poor biz..
3) she living her own, so is very independent and mature.

a) Communication gap - to certain extend, me born in the 60's, she is in the 80's - she can not take too much of lecture but can accept opinions.

b) Different thinking - Yes, certainly, she said she wanted to own a car due to geographical situation, so when she insists, she will do it without any 2nd opinion.

Anyway, just share about my situation, different pple can have different situation, more importance is your acceptance of herself and learing how to give and take in every situation you encounter to make good of the differences.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by K9696

I like your agenda, let me share w u my situation of a girl that I know for 9months, still considered good and close friend, potentially can become my partner..

1) Me - 44, she - 25, about 20yrs different..
2) Me - Sin, She - PRC, working as a Sales, used to own a restaurant but closed due to poor biz..
3) she living her own, so is very independent and mature.

a) Communication gap - to certain extend, me born in the 60's, she is in the 80's - she can not take too much of lecture but can accept opinions.

b) Different thinking - Yes, certainly, she said she wanted to own a car due to geographical situation, so when she insists, she will do it without any 2nd opinion.

Anyway, just share about my situation, different pple can have different situation, more importance is your acceptance of herself and learing how to give and take in every situation you encounter to make good of the differences.

Brother, you must be really good in bed and/or the upper echelon in SG society. Not sure what she see in you no offense brother. BTW, 25 year old owning own business? Source of capital is you? What is her occupation? Selling what?

[billgates]

Have to be careful that she is not with u for financial benefits. I have actually come across many gals before who are willing to be my gfs just because of that. It has been a long search, but i think i finally found a younger gal who is with me NOT for the money (i hope... keeping fingers crossed).

Originally Posted by K9696

I like your agenda, let me share w u my situation of a girl that I know for 9months, still considered good and close friend, potentially can become my partner....

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by K9696

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.....different pple can have different situation, more importance is your acceptance of herself and learing how to give and take in every situation you encounter to make good of the differences.

Bro K9696, thanks for sharing. I agreed to above.

思想不一样. 玩的也不一样. 说话方式不一样. 行为举止不一样. 讨论的话题不一样, 思维不一样, 理念不一样, 价值观不一样, 处的时代不同, 经历不同, 生活背景不同, 想法必然不同.” 所为的的代沟是指没有共同的话题! 所以叫代沟!, 因为立场`接触面 . 思维方式.....这是必然的`! IMHO, 本人还是觉得不算代沟!! 成长经历不同, 所以影响世界观..... 如果我们能多关注下，学着慢慢的去理解，把认为的"代沟"给填平! 我想这个关系会很和睦的!, 使彼此之间的感情变的很牢固, 不会再出现“缝隙”“代沟, 只要都学会适当的去理解和宽容，我们会发现, 其实我们没有代沟! 虽然不是同龄人, 但是还可以有很多共同语言和共同喜爱的干法和湿法.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, you must be really good in bed and/or the upper echelon in SG society. Not sure what she see in you no offense brother......

Bro RealEstateGuy, ano......betsu ni....not really, you don't need to be in the upper echelon of society, these type of relationship is TOTALLY DIFFERENT from your High Class Maid who works for the upper echelon SG society owners.

As what Bro K9696 said :

Originally Posted by K9696

.....different pple can have different situation, more importance is your acceptance of herself and learing how to give and take in every situation you encounter to make good of the differences.

As I do not know how you communicate with those Kinokuniya's High Class maids, but all you need is to learn how to be heard and understand certain female communication traits. You will be able to bridge the gap regardless of who and what you are


BTW, I will visit Kinokuniya bookstore to look-see look-see on these high class maids on Sunday..Hope to bump into you.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

BTW, I will visit Kinokuniya bookstore to look-see look-see on these high class maids on Sunday..Hope to bump into you.

How to identify high class maids?
Is it see whether they buy the hardcover version instead of the paperback version?

[joew2005]

so RealEstateGuy,hw WAS yr performance in bed ?
r u also fr the upper echelon of tis society as well ?
no offence as well .....

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by ekemono

How to identify high class maids?
Is it see whether they buy the hardcover version instead of the paperback version?

According to Bro REG, "high class" maid is defined as below:

http://sbf.directory/showthr...88#post5207288

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

.....This mad works for the upper echelon of SG societyWas met her at the bookstore reading a Western bestseller. She said she only play with smart men like me. Quite the horny woman looking for no strings non commerical good time from a man that knows how and can please her and vice versa. I can tell you the sex was intense -- was hot. Lots of noises, sweat and fluids brother.

Hmmm...Now that we on best sellers - I wonder was she reading Kinokuniya's best sellers: The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson or The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown (Read only but Not buying)

Good for Bro REG to mate with the maids cos they be more productive during normal maiding hours...Think I will encourage my maids to go this bookstore cos got fast food to relieve stress..WOnder any age limit? My maids average about 40-50s of age and badly in deed of services by a young STUD

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, for the past few weeks have been checking into a five star hotel with the high class maid. She said she only want to be in luxury hotel. This woman is quite horny with insatiable appetite for sex.

[K9696]

Originally Posted by ichigo_kurosaki

bro k9696, thanks for sharing. I agreed to above.

思想不一样. 玩的也不一样. 说话方式不一样. 行为举止不一样. 讨论的话题不一样, 思维不一样, 理念不一样, 价值观不一样, 处的时代不同, 经历不同, 生活背景不同, 想法必然不同.” 所为的的代沟是指没有共同的话题! 所以叫代沟!, 因为立场`接触面 . 思维方式.....这是必然的`! Imho, 本人还是觉得不算代沟!! 成长经历不同, 所以影响世界观..... 如果我们能多关注下，学着慢慢的去理解，把认为的"代沟"给填平! 我想这个关系会很和睦的!, 使彼此之间的感情变的很牢固, 不会再出现“缝隙”“代沟, 只要都学会适当的去理解和宽容，我们会发现, 其实我们没有代沟! 虽然不是同龄人, 但是还可以有很多共同语言和共同喜爱的干法和湿法.

兄弟.. 我挺你.. 我对你的看法一致.. 和你聊天..大快人心.. 酒逢知己千杯少...

[K9696]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, you must be really good in bed and/or the upper echelon in SG society. Not sure what she see in you no offense brother. BTW, 25 year old owning own business? Source of capital is you? What is her occupation? Selling what?

bro. I am neither good in bed or upper echelon in SG society,, I am nobody, just a wonder kid hiding one corner behind the screen starts to sweet talk the lady in mainland..

[Cerberus]

Don't think too much into the future.....
Enjoy the present.

Even if the age gap is 5 years, both same educational level, good family background, same religion,.....etc.

Does this means infidelity and divorce won't occur?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, for the past few weeks have been checking into a five star hotel with the high class maid. She said she only want to be in luxury hotel. This woman is quite horny with insatiable appetite for sex.

I see.
She has never been to a luxury hotel before.
So any maid who want only to go luxury is a high class maid whilst a maid who want sex at home is called a house-maid , a maid who does sex in a car is a car-maid , a maid who does sex with a bangala is called a banga-maid, and a person who bring a maid to a luxury hotel is called a "Check-Mate" I got it now. Thanks bro for the clarification. Insightful indeed

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

I see.
She has never been to a luxury hotel before.
So any maid who want only to go luxury is a high class maid whilst a maid who want sex at home is called a house-maid , a maid who does sex in a car is a car-maid , a maid who does sex with a bangala is called a banga-maid, and a person who bring a maid to a luxury hotel is called a "Check-Mate" I got it now. Thanks bro for the clarification. Insightful indeed

that a good one...

[katana blader]

Age should never be an issue if true love exist.