How to convince my parents about my thai gf??

[korb]

i invited my then thai gf over to stay and also show my parent. during her stay she even do house keeping and wash the toilet for me.this win my parents over.

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by korb

i invited my then thai gf over to stay and also show my parent. during her stay she even do house keeping and wash the toilet for me.this win my parents over.

I agreed that invite her over to stay at your house for a week or 2 will be good. I did that with my thai ex and she get on well with my mum. btw, thais are generally very easy going ppl and they get along well with most ppl coz most things which singaporean gay kao they also mai pen lai. they also can manage housework pretty well and she also cook a nice dinner for me one fine day. i can tell you thats one of the nicest food i tasted in my entire life. coz other than the good taste, i can feel the love and heart in it.

bro, u live only once and its your life. if you think you had found true love do go for it.

I went but unfortunately can't reach the end point. think fated not to have.. but there is no regrets. chok dee krup..

[qwert1124]

lol haha, i agree with you too

[Pankunchi]

yes,either bring her over,have a dinner and meet your parent,or bring your parent to a tour cum visiting to BKK for holiday and let your gal bring them around to build up an impression and relationship.
who knows,they may like her after meeting her.
i know someone already gave this ideas but still this is the best way.
i have a friend who has a viet gf...this is what he did and his parent like her.

[HOWITZER105MM]

Originally Posted by tansb

Well said! Scam or not scam your parents knows it best!

She is not a FL or sex worker. Just takes time to convince your parents.

[homeboy2010]

Originally Posted by HOWITZER105MM

She is not a FL or sex worker. Just takes time to convince your parents.

there are many good thai girls from Thailand

[benjm85]

thanks for all the advice.
but my parents don't understand english...how to communicate with her??
argh...

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by benjm85

thanks for all the advice.
but my parents don't understand english...how to communicate with her??
argh...

How would you describe your gf? although my mum also cannot understand english, she get along well with my thai gf when she came to live with me for short visit. thais are generally very accomodating and respectful. With that, most elders will like them.

Sometimes, when you can feel the sincerity of the other party, you dun really mind the language.

Human can even learn to communicate with animals (pets), so they will find a way to communicate, dun worry too much bro..

if there's a will, there is a way. Chok dee krup.

[tanmikel]

Originally Posted by benjm85

thanks for all the advice.
but my parents don't understand english...how to communicate with her??
argh...

agree woth GLhunter , everyone has got to make an effort to make it work . you realistically cannot expect everything to fall into place exactly the way you want .

[Triple-X]

The 1st and most important thing u must do other than inviting her to stay is to be damn damn super farking sure she loves u and she's the one to marry cos if this r/s fails,yr parents wont have trust in Thais anymore. The next damn damn super farking sure thing to do is to let your parents know how much u're in love with her.That'll be it.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by tansb

Well said! Scam or not scam your parents knows it best!

how can u be so sure? since TS should know the gal much, much more than his parents n parents usually sometimes base their opinions on heresay and biasness. so for me to TS, follow your heart as nobody should tell u what to do (even your parents especially when comes to marriage) as your gal (future wife) is the one who will live with u for the majority of your life. of course it will be best if your parents can give u their blessings n support, if not, u n ur gal should be the ones who determine your fate n nobody else.

if any bros hv ever read my previous post, u would know that i married a PRC ex-fl who is divorced and has a daughter from previous marriage despite objections from my parents (still can't accept her and the daughter) due to heresay n biasness. despite all this, i m still their son, i goes back for my mum's dinner (alone of course) about 2-3 times a month. of course i still have to endure the occassional nagging and grumbling from them, i know that time will tell that my decision to be with her is correct and the gap will become narrower and narrower.

even though my circumstances may differ from you, but my point is - u should determine your own fate n happiness!!!

[S.B.Y.1]

Dare Pak Prez say that not many Mas (bros) here have more 1st hand experience than Mas sun814

[nayuko]

Originally Posted by benjm85

My parents are traditional people and I don't see them agreeing me to marry a thai girl. I am 25 btw.
However I like to say that my gf is not a FL or in the sex industry. She has a decent job in BKK and decent educational level and understand English.

So guys, any advice??

The proper way is to bring her home and intro to your parents. The not say proper way is just to get her pregnant, you parents then no choice say you must marry her.

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother are you Singapore Chinese too? Why do you want to marry a dark skinned Thai? Are you Chinese or not?

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother if you are going to invite a Thai girl home then try to avoid fucking her in the house etc. Bad impression. SG people already have bad impressions of non Chinese SG and fucking a Thai in your home just adds fuel to the fire. Why not show your parents a pic of your Thai GF instead of inviting her over or meeting at a public place far from Geylang?