Advice needed

[waiwaiz]

why not blow him or handjob for him everytime he wants..........i'm sure hes happy wif it afterall its juz a release hes after.........

hes like animal man..........haha he must be using energizer battery.

[sweet_pea]

@alan0338: what is TS?

@4411:The few standard days in the month, I will BJ for him and then back to sex after that few days.

@ch33zy: How to even when he hugs me in a crowded lift, I can also feel his want. Hmm..

@MitMit: You gotta be kidding! It's very tiring for the girl! I am like a major knock out every night!

@watever1: he is 31. If I can start the foreplay, he wants me to end the task, if I am tired, he does the finishing.. Sex toys not of help... sigh.

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

It's possible... I think both were still young of age around 20?
I used to go for 3-4 rounds minimum every night... Till my gf was so 'tired' and just help me bj/hj instead of penetration... So she just 'rotate' =X

One beauty of youth is the endless energy. I missed my younger days.

[Bangster]

Carry a thorny fruit or toy everywhere you go.

Then without a word of caution, shaft it up his ass without lotion.

Do it when he is sleeping, praying, eating, watching TV, shopping for clothes etc.

And give him that leery smile while you are at it, shafting it in and out.

Tell him you love it, and if he loves you he should let you

[watever1]

Originally Posted by sweet_pea

@watever1: he is 31. If I can start the foreplay, he wants me to end the task, if I am tired, he does the finishing.. Sex toys not of help... sigh.

TS stands for Thread Starter

Sorry mate, I feel for you but there's little I can counter offer in remedying the situation you are in...

[JohnnyC.Online]

Get pregnant. That's a sure-fire way to dampen his spirits.

Or get him a new toy. A PS3 or something to keep him preoccupied.

I used to be horny as heck too (emphasis on USED TO BE), making out and having sex in public places was like a game which I needed to be a part of always. One time I think my ex girlfriend and I did it 20+ times over 3 days....obviously most of those only lasted only several minutes each - like when a guy wakes up with a hard on in the middle of the night and just needs to stick his hard-on somewhere wet and tight. My point is, guys go through that phase, and usually they get over it. If it's affecting your life in a bad way, talk to him about it. You can't just be spreading your legs wide open each time he wants it, right? If he's perceptive, then he doesn't need to be told verbally that you don't want to have sex at the moment.

In a previous relationship, if I didn't make my move before the time she put on her body lotion, then I would have to wait the next day. Maybe you need those kinds of signals.

[ch33zy]

Originally Posted by sweet_pea

@alan0338: what is TS?

@ch33zy: How to even when he hugs me in a crowded lift, I can also feel his want. Hmm..

TS = threadstarter, referring to you..

hmm.. sis, i think you got to be firm on your stand.. in the long run, you are the one suffering.. if he doesn't understand ur concern, then this is not the man that you would to spend the rest of your life with..

[yang punk]

How about you ask him to let you have an early night and then do it in the morning when you are both rested and fresh?

Anyway what are you feeding him?

[subwayzz]

Sweety he's only your bf now, can't imagine if he's your husband. how much or how long can you go?

If he cares for you, he should let you rest for as long as u wish. Its more like you are now doing it only to please him.

[steviewander]

the solution is to get married...

no one does their wife that much ... anyone second this....

[NewMartin]

Originally Posted by MitMit

wow! MINIMIUM 2 times a night on every night

How i wish i hv half of his POWER

hahaha bro MitMit.. too bad man..we are NOT super-man like him lor..hehe

[helpme7676]

Think your Bf is ok liao. I had a girl friend whose husband would do it everyday even when she is sick, menses, drunk. I feel sorry for her. If she reject, he will force himself on her. Sigh.....everyone have their own sad story.

Talk to him. Well, if you guys love each other he would listen. If you cant take it anymore then LEAVE.......sex its healthy but over do it is no good.

[TSO2]

you don't have to stay with him if you are not comfortable having sex everyday.

[lee2001sg]

Originally Posted by steviewander

the solution is to get married...

no one does their wife that much ... anyone second this....

Wanna bet?

Maybe you can follow my wife's footstep. She kept saying she want to look for doctors and physcians to help get drugs to tone down my sexdrive. But I think she is just joking. I am still active now.

[sweet_pea]

He loves and cares alot for me, that's why am here to seek opinions to see how I can bring my message across like have it say twice a week to him without hurting a man's ego.. When I am tired or having menses, he lets me sleep through the night, which means actually he can curb himself. He doesn't force it on me, neither aggressive. other days, he's always pouncing on me!

He proposed and is actually all ready to settle down. If I go get pregnant, it's no issue to him at all. It's me, I am not ready.

It's not I am not comfortable having it everyday with him, but it tires me out and affects my functioning in the day... grrr..

He is cheeky in a way, he knows my weaknesses and does it on me to get me turned on and I will all ready to roll, but the after effects comes when day breaks.

I see alot of brothers advising me to speak to him and let him know my concern. I think i will try soon and tell him whether it's possible to have it twice a week. Not too little right? This is a sex forum, I should say I am pretty amazed at all those replies.. So many kind souls around who are concerned.

Thanks! Merry Christmas Guys!