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Old 25-03-2011, 09:44 PM
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Re: bros help?

You better see a doctor. There is no shame in admitting depression. It can be caused by chemical imbalance in the brain. I've gone through it. Had to go under anti-depressants for a year. It really worked. Made me calmer and thinking positive. However, it caused low sex drive and hard to ejaculate. Could fuck for one hour without coming. Wife was very happy though.
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Old 25-03-2011, 09:53 PM
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Re: bros help?

You crave for something new I think. Go on a backpack tour, break the routine you are in.
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Old 25-03-2011, 10:33 PM
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socalise more to know more frens

have a hobby to kill time

trust me it works
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school holidays over liao ??

or is it haven't started yet ??
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Re: bros help?

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Hi bros,
I'm a norm guy 24 this year, feeling totally ''empty'' n suicidal...
theres a girl I like, n I used to party everynight literally but still the feeling doesn't go, feeling pointless n empty. the girl I like cares for me too but I still feel angsty n all...
have a job, money no issue too in fact might be schooling...
any bros, ''seniors/elders" out there been through this?
any advice n suggestions?
hii botak, i think that u should seek some help, maybe naturally psychologically, u are abit weaker, depression occur when people think of the same thing too much again and again, sooner or later they start to have negative thought. i would advice u to seek professional help, or alternatively, try not to think the same thing again and again, try to do other activity like jogging etc and not drink alcohol so much cheers and gd luck
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Old 26-03-2011, 01:04 AM
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Thanks to all bros,
1st - the girl for me don't really matter now; cos like I said now everything kinda seem pointless to me. and ya I agree its totally uncool. but it just can't be helped when the 'feeling' wanna pop up and dwell ya?

2nd - my friend mostly won't understand, they are party goers, n my close friend that I can talk to hardly have the time cos he's a celeb n I don't wanna bother him.

3rd - I know I'm feeling depressed, not sure if its depression though but I still can have my normal life function properly. its just that all seem pointless and I feel aimless. till now money n girl both kinda seem unimportant to me still....

I truly did thought of making my life busy so that I won't think so much, but there's definitely a time where one stop to have a breather n that's when 'stuffs' come. I can't even sleep well.

I feel really tied to a corner.
TS, if you value my humble opinion, I suggest that you start with interacting with people from other interest groups and making new friends other than party goers. Make a goal to know more people; or if you have an existing dream you have not yet fulfilled, draw out plans to fulfil them. The objective is to fill your life with meaning. And if you do ask me, no, you are not really depressed. You just to lead a more meaningful life. Hope it helps, TS. All the best.
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Old 26-03-2011, 07:34 AM
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Re: bros help?

1stly thanks to all the bros' comments n suggestions, much appreciated, thanks to Dadult, heaven, cooldudedz, ichigo, n some I might have missed out, I get what guys mean, I am depressed but like I said I know I'm not in depression.

interest group N friends.
as for friends; I would put it simply, how many of them are u willing to die for n vice-versa, a few true good ones are enough. hi's n byes are uncountable.
interest group, I am very active in the gaming scene, in fact I was an ambaSsador for Garena. I have one of the best n leading team in sg n held a leader position.

n like one bro said life till the end is quite meaningless, to me I'm a perfectionist, so to this phrase it will always have a ? to it rather than being rhetorical.

I'm just feeling aimless n pointless. n like I said I really don't regard money n girl as priorities.

how I wished I was born in a diFferent era, where one can philosophise n be poetic all day long.
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Old 26-03-2011, 10:18 PM
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Re: bros help?

You want to imbue more meaning into your life? Than reflect deeply upon what Sartre said half a century ago: "Existence precedes essence".

Existence refers to the fact that you are already here. It is an undeniable fact.

Essence is meaning. How does one breathe meaning into one's life?

According to Sartre, whereas our existence is an undeniable fact, our essence represents our potential being. It is up to each of us to imbue as much, or as little, meaning to life as we wish. What we make of our life is akin to a road which has yet to be constructed.

Isn't life exciting all of a sudden?
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Old 29-03-2011, 05:25 PM
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Re: bros help?

Look, people here zapped me for my comment on this poor 24yo chap lamenting about his failures to bed some girl he wants to and about life over what, a girl again?

Some comments along with the zapping are like:
1) I have nothing constructive to say,
2) Lame Joke,
3) I guai lan just because I am old bird here.

Precisely, A 24 yo bro, putting himself into such a low dejected mode over a girl or whatsoever? Please, wake up to those who think that I am a bastard or a guailan lao jiao. The world, if you live properly, doesn't have time for you to feel dejected over something so trivial.

I am writing here not to defend and ask for people for their understanding. I merely wantto tell this 24ypo bro, if you really want to move on, y come here and lament over that girl? If you dun want to live on, thenm y are you lamenting? Do something constructive like some bros here. No one can help you except for yourself. Dun kpkb about life. There are many more people out there who is in a worse off state than you because of survial issues, family issues like not haveing enough money for their children to do their education, or not having enough money for medical bills or even to pay off electricity bills.


And its only because I am not only a lao jio here, but also in terms of survival for the past years of my life that I know.. Know that no one will really help you 'constructively' to stand up when in times of needs. Its all say and no action. ONLY YOU can do it yourself. Life is bad, I am sorry, but you got to get yourself out of this yourself rather than thumping on the keyboard.
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Old 30-03-2011, 06:29 AM
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Re: bros help?

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I get what guys mean, I am depressed but like I said I know I'm not in depression.

interest group N friends.
as for friends; I would put it simply, how many of them are u willing to die for n vice-versa, a few true good ones are enough. hi's n byes are uncountable.
interest group, I am very active in the gaming scene, in fact I was an ambaSsador for Garena. I have one of the best n leading team in sg n held a leader position.

how I wished I was born in a diFferent era, where one can philosophise n be poetic all day long.
TS, you misunderstand me. By making new friends, I don't mean mere acquaintances that only just "hi and bye". Of course a deeper bond has to be forged! You may be right in needing only a few true friends, but new friends can bring new directions and purpose to you.

Same for interest groups. What I meant, was for you to look for people from various interest groups, preferably those that are not from your circles.

Lastly, you could do what you wish if you are not restrained by time, health, money and legal constraints. Serious.
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u need help but not from here . go seek professional help ! go see a shrink !
Agree with you bro. TS, quickly seek for professional help before too late
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Old 31-03-2011, 06:47 AM
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Re: bros help?

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Look, people here zapped me for my comment on this poor 24yo chap lamenting about his failures to bed some girl he wants to and about life over what, a girl again?

Some comments along with the zapping are like:
1) I have nothing constructive to say,
2) Lame Joke,
3) I guai lan just because I am old bird here.

Precisely, A 24 yo bro, putting himself into such a low dejected mode over a girl or whatsoever? Please, wake up to those who think that I am a bastard or a guailan lao jiao. The world, if you live properly, doesn't have time for you to feel dejected over something so trivial.

I am writing here not to defend and ask for people for their understanding. I merely wantto tell this 24ypo bro, if you really want to move on, y come here and lament over that girl? If you dun want to live on, thenm y are you lamenting? Do something constructive like some bros here. No one can help you except for yourself. Dun kpkb about life. There are many more people out there who is in a worse off state than you because of survial issues, family issues like not haveing enough money for their children to do their education, or not having enough money for medical bills or even to pay off electricity bills.


And its only because I am not only a lao jio here, but also in terms of survival for the past years of my life that I know.. Know that no one will really help you 'constructively' to stand up when in times of needs. Its all say and no action. ONLY YOU can do it yourself. Life is bad, I am sorry, but you got to get yourself out of this yourself rather than thumping on the keyboard.
firstly I have people who do stand up for me in times of need, did, done and will again. that's my faith.
and if u are thinking n generalising that I'm the typical emo young adult who's life got into a limbo due to some chick well I'm not; clearly u didn't grab what I'm trying to portray. n its definitely not about the girl.

read carefully thanks.
and I'm really grateful to the seniors n bros here, cos they did give very much constructive suggestions..

I'm not trying to shoot u back; down, but clearing up the point I was trying to bring.

thanks.

and bro Dadult I get what u mean, but as the saying goes, '' so little time, yet so many things to do'' some risk n time are worth taking n giving, but some aren't really needed... that's y, ia totally outgoing person, n very outspoken as u can tell, is just that its been always kinda pointless if u get what I mean, esp I'm tired of having facades.....

sigh, good Night, good morning n good day.
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Old 31-03-2011, 06:56 AM
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Re: bros help?

let me reiterate, I don't need professional help, cos I'm sure I'm in a proper set of mind.

lets just say I think n philosophisize about life more then occasionally n once though I was a cynic; but I'm not anymore; but still its a hard n long query while enroute to the finale.

got what I'm truly tryi to bring out?

Thanks for lending minds n ears.
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